Content introduction: Zhang Chao, a master of emotional intelligence. In his view, the era of remaining unchanged in response to ever-changing changes is over, and responding to ever-changing changes is the way to live in the world today. His works include a series of books with high emotional intelligence. "Chatting with High Emotional Intelligence": Teach you how to use words to influence others. "High Emotional Intelligence Communication": Teach you to use language to create equality. "High Emotional Intelligence Communication": Teach you to use behavior to change behavior. Help you learn from being able to talk to being able to speak to being able to do it, and open up a new situation in your social life and career.
Reader comments
Everyone is born a learner, and high emotional intelligence communication allows us to take the lead no matter who we face. The way a person communicates and interacts with society is who he is. The kind of person you associate with is the kind of person you are. How can I be with better people? Network is a living, breathing creature. You must feed it the way it needs, provide vitality to it, care for it, and let it grow. This book proposes three levels of growth: based on value exchange, turning unfamiliarity into familiarity, and turning familiarity into trust. Develop your ability to communicate deeply into a usable social model. Respond to ever-changing changes, achieve imbalance in confrontation, and create an unexpected version of yourself.
In work and life, I always envy those friends with high EQ and IQ, and high EQ can allow you to get along well with the people around you, and high EQ can be gradually cultivated through observation and learning. After reading the entire book, I have deep feelings. When communicating with society and the crowd, a person needs to be self-restrained, able to express, and more importantly, have EQ. People with high EQ can make others feel comfortable when communicating with others and shorten the distance between each other. Although the content is very short, if you savor it carefully, you will be able to gain slowly. Good literature is valuable but the essence is not expensive.
Many people say: Now that the Internet is so developed and communication between people has become easier, do we still need to learn how to deal with people? What has the Internet changed? In my opinion, what changes is the way of life, what cannot be changed is people's inner desires, desires and hopes. Regarding the writing structure of this book, the author strictly follows the rules of the reference book and writes around the principle of high emotional intelligence communication, which is like a "three-stage rocket" boosted step by step: the first step is to turn strangers into familiar people on the basis of value exchange; the second step is to develop the ability of in-depth communication into a replicable social model; the third step is to use the right way to run in at key points to achieve win-win results and complete the career of life. In this way, the number of followers a person has on social media and his position do not matter. Importantly, we have begun to use a management approach to make relationships healthier and more fluid. After all, communication with high emotional intelligence will bring you valuable resources, and more and more people will help you. Moreover, the biggest difference between "human" resources and other resources is that they are more vivid. When you feed it, care for it, and provide energy in the way it needs, it will grow.
What characteristics do people with high emotional intelligence generally have when chatting? From unfamiliar contact to in-depth social interaction, the author tells us the kingly way of adapting to the ever-changing situation; people with high emotional intelligence take into account the rotation and revolution of life; they strive to improve themselves while also taking into account the development of others. There are friends who travel all over the world. This sentence is more true in this era where everything is connected. Therefore, use precious time to improve your emotional intelligence, in order to improve your interpersonal network, go out and see bigger mountains and seas.
For the writing structure of this book, the author strictly follows the rules of the reference book and writes around the principle of high emotional intelligence communication, which is like a "three-stage rocket" boosted step by step: the first step is to turn strangers into familiar people on the basis of value exchange; the second step is to develop the ability of in-depth communication into a replicable social model; the third step is to use the right way to run in at key points to achieve a win-win situation and complete the career of life. The content is detailed and rich, and the language is easy to understand and approachable.
I plan to watch it every day
There are only three short chapters, which is obviously not enough.
Some "high emotional intelligence" in life makes relationships better!
Everyone is born a learner, and high emotional intelligence communication allows us to take the lead no matter who we face. The way a person communicates and interacts with society is who he is. The kind of person you associate with is the kind of person you are. How can I be with better people? Network is a living, breathing creature. You must feed it the way it needs, provide vitality to it, care for it, and let it grow. This book proposes three levels of growth: based on value exchange, turning unfamiliarity into familiarity, and turning familiarity into trust. Develop your ability to communicate deeply into a usable social model. Respond to ever-changing changes, achieve imbalance in confrontation, and create an unexpected version of yourself.
In work and life, I always envy those friends with high EQ and IQ, and high EQ can allow you to get along well with the people around you, and high EQ can be gradually cultivated through observation and learning. After reading the entire book, I have deep feelings. When communicating with society and the crowd, a person needs to be self-restrained, able to express, and more importantly, have EQ. People with high EQ can make others feel comfortable when communicating with others and shorten the distance between each other. Although the content is very short, if you savor it carefully, you will be able to gain slowly. Good literature is valuable but the essence is not expensive.
Many people say: Now that the Internet is so developed and communication between people has become easier, do we still need to learn how to deal with people? What has the Internet changed? In my opinion, what changes is the way of life, what cannot be changed is people's inner desires, desires and hopes. Regarding the writing structure of this book, the author strictly follows the rules of the reference book and writes around the principle of high emotional intelligence communication, which is like a "three-stage rocket" boosted step by step: the first step is to turn strangers into familiar people on the basis of value exchange; the second step is to develop the ability of in-depth communication into a replicable social model; the third step is to use the right way to run in at key points to achieve win-win results and complete the career of life. In this way, the number of followers a person has on social media and his position do not matter. Importantly, we have begun to use a management approach to make relationships healthier and more fluid. After all, communication with high emotional intelligence will bring you valuable resources, and more and more people will help you. Moreover, the biggest difference between "human" resources and other resources is that they are more vivid. When you feed it, care for it, and provide energy in the way it needs, it will grow.
What characteristics do people with high emotional intelligence generally have when chatting? From unfamiliar contact to in-depth social interaction, the author tells us the kingly way of adapting to the ever-changing situation; people with high emotional intelligence take into account the rotation and revolution of life; they strive to improve themselves while also taking into account the development of others. There are friends who travel all over the world. This sentence is more true in this era where everything is connected. Therefore, use precious time to improve your emotional intelligence, in order to improve your interpersonal network, go out and see bigger mountains and seas.
For the writing structure of this book, the author strictly follows the rules of the reference book and writes around the principle of high emotional intelligence communication, which is like a "three-stage rocket" boosted step by step: the first step is to turn strangers into familiar people on the basis of value exchange; the second step is to develop the ability of in-depth communication into a replicable social model; the third step is to use the right way to run in at key points to achieve a win-win situation and complete the career of life. The content is detailed and rich, and the language is easy to understand and approachable.
I plan to watch it every day
There are only three short chapters, which is obviously not enough.
Some "high emotional intelligence" in life makes relationships better!