Have you ever experienced school violence?
Have you ever experienced workplace violence?
Have you ever experienced online violence?
In the blind spots of parental monitoring, the moral blind spots of society, and the gray areas of the law, who will protect us?
On campus, in the workplace, and on social networks, everyone may be a victim.
Li Shanglong, the million-selling author, spent 365 days carefully polishing the book to speak out strongly for school violence, workplace violence, and online violence, using his pen as a gun to fight the world.
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When I saw Han Xiaoting die, I was very sad. Her life was too tiring, but she "saw" the most beautiful things before she died, and I felt that she was happy. The only flaw is that Zhang Bei and Liu Tao did not pay for their actions. Liu Tao was even retaliated by Han Xiaoting, but in my opinion it was not enough. She was not only a bystander but also a perpetrator. She just did not beat her with her own hands. In my eyes, she and the Zhang sisters were the real culprits who killed Han Xiaoting's mother. There are also the principal of Han Xiaoting's school, the irresponsible police officer, who all deserve to be punished, and Wang Chengyu who later killed many people.
This book also gave me a lot of thinking. When violence occurs, we should fight against it instead of choosing to remain silent and compromise, neither the perpetrator nor the bystander.
Violence has always existed, in the invisible darkness, in the ugliest side of human nature. When a collapse occurs, no one who contributes to it is innocent, because human hearts are inherently fragile. But I believe that people's hearts should be kind, and there should be less favoritism and unfairness, and don't let human nature be distorted. No one wants to be hurt, so don't try to hurt others. Flowers with thorns are not unusual, but flowers with thorns are beautiful. Yes, roses are naturally beautiful, but they are always roses with thorns. Just like people, if they are ugly on the inside and have a good-looking appearance, they are still not beautiful; the cactus is covered with thorns, but it grows flowers through hard work and can still attract attention. Even if we do not have a gorgeous appearance, our sincere heart and the results of our hard work are still loved by people.
School violence must arouse people's vigilance. The shadow of childhood will last a lifetime. I hope that light can shine into all the dark places in the world and that all children can grow up healthy and safe.
"It's not the thorns of flowers that are strange, it's the thorns that make the flowers beautiful."
"The scary thing about the world is not actually indifference, but when you are passionate and others tell you that you are wrong."
Really touching
I was a well-protected child who grew up, but I also experienced violence once when I was a child. It didn't cause any real harm to me, it was just a misunderstanding. The abuser quickly apologized to me, but this seemingly small thing made me remember it for a long time. You never know how much damage a very small evil can do to a young heart.
It was really painful to watch it. Liu Tao and Han Xiaoting were obviously two ordinary girls, but they were distorted and hurt by violence. From school violence to workplace violence, violence became the theme of their lives. The workplace violence that happened to Liu Tao lasted for a full six months. She was full of grievances, but she forgot that the school violence that happened to Han Xiaoting ten years ago lasted for a whole year! I have a very pessimistic view on school violence, as well as online violence and workplace violence... Maybe the author is right. Only law and technology can suppress violence.
This book really reveals the appearance of violence and is thought-provoking. Life is full of thorns, which may be scratching the surface for you, but for me, violence will always exist in different ways, but I hope it can be improved through everyone's efforts. May our world become a better place!
Thorns can hurt others as well as themselves. If I could maintain the pure heart I had before, I wouldn't raise a thorn. But there are not so many ifs, and what has happened cannot be reversed. Thanks to the country's improved laws, many improvements have been made in schools and the Internet.
I felt uncomfortable after watching it, as if I had just comforted her when I witnessed school violence before. We were classmates. When she went through it, I wished she would die, but after the group left, I just gave her a piece of paper to comfort her. Now her depression is also a thorn in my heart.
After reading this book, depression, discomfort, helplessness, anger... All the indescribable emotions came out. There is no real empathy in the world, I don't know how painful they must be!
The violence in this world may not stop, human nature is unpredictable, and violence is used to fight violence in a cycle. Fortunately, we are not victims, but we can never be silent bystanders. We must speak up when it is time to speak up.
I don't know how to judge them in the story. They are both perpetrators and victims. All because of a violence, one person after another, endless cycle.
When the evil in human nature starts to cause trouble, even you can't stop it. And the next thing is that human nature begins to take revenge, and the blinded eyes cannot see anything.
Are they wrong? Have no idea. But this is the price, a price that everyone is destined to bear in the future for a small incident of violence. All kinds of violence appear, no one can stop it, and everything falls into a cycle.
The author asks can violence turn into love?
I think maybe, but how can I be sure? After all, some violence is caused by love and hatred, so this is an infinite cycle...
But, it cannot be denied. If everyone in this world had more kindness and love, then there might be less violence in this world!
I wish you and I can stay away from violence and have a safe life...
August 18, 2022 15:52
I sincerely hope that all children will grow up among flowers instead of surrounded by thorns. In order for each flower to bloom perfectly, it requires the joint efforts of everyone: the country pays great attention to and improves the law on minors, more good suggestions from representatives are adopted, the education department, public security agencies, and schools take practical measures and actions to deal with school violence, teachers, parents, and classmates think differently and do what they do not want others to do. As the father of a little boy, I hope that the world of all children will be like a fairy tale. I hope that my little boy will grow up towards the sun and also have an edge...
After reading it, I was very touched. I have seen a lot of school violence and bullying, but I have always been a bystander. I hate the perpetrators, but what can I do? All I can do is not join in and prevent myself from being bullied. I was also bullied in elementary school, so I hate that kind of people, but I never do that kind of person. Alas.
After reading this book, I realized a truth: it looks particularly beautiful only when it is tattooed with blooming flowers. Likewise, those who end violence with love, rather than respond to violence with violence, are worthy of our admiration. We should understand that every bad person was once a child, and every good person can become vulnerable without restraint. The author's writing is smooth and the story is gripping. It is an excellent work and worth reading.
Flowers with thorns are not unusual, but flowers with thorns are beautiful.
The flowers blooming on the thorns are particularly beautiful.
Just like those who end violence with love, those who do not respond to violence with violence are admirable.
If, I mean if Liu Tao was not obsessed with that seat, if Han Xiaoting changed seats, if Liu Tao stopped her a little bit, would things have changed?
Many people say that Liu Tao did nothing, but I think she was the initiator of the whole thing, a bystander, a planner, an encourager, and even a participant. She acted like a lady from beginning to end, smiling and encouraging this crime. She did not stop it, and even participated.
The narrative is a bit stiff, the language is too descriptive, and the writing style needs to be improved. But the intention is very profound. The author's words are very sincere and kind. Thank you very much for writing this series of excellent works.
I am also someone who has been subjected to verbal violence on campus. I still remember the collapse and fear I felt at that time. I will not forgive those who commit violence. I will strive to become better and better and live like a light.
Thanks to the author! May law and technology continue to advance and there will be no more unjust violence in the world
This book allows everyone to see the invisible violence in society, such as school violence, workplace violence, and the well-known online violence. It is undeniable that these violence have not been eradicated by the world. There are still many people suffering from this violence in the area that our eyes cannot see. We can only pray for world peace.
The way this book tells a story made me understand the truth that fighting violence with violence will only produce more violence. If we stop violence in time when we see it, we may make them realize their mistakes.
This book gave me a new understanding of school violence, and I was shocked [shocked][shocked]! ! ! I never thought that a person could be so bad as to be a traitor! Simply born [angry] [angry]. . . The description of the process of the heroine being bullied on campus goes from shallow to deep, and every time you read it, your heart will become more and more painful. [Cry][Cry][Cry][Cry] This is a book worth reading! May there be less and less school violence in this world! [Crazy][Crazy][Crazy]
I felt very depressed after reading it. Maybe I was too impatient and read it all in one night. Although I didn't delve into the details of the story in detail, the first two stories made me reflect on myself. Did I also commit violence against "Han Xiaoting" on campus? Will "Liu Tao" be me in the future? In this developed Internet world, should our words and deeds be regulated? The Internet should not be a place outside the law. It is a double-edged sword that can protect ourselves and hurt others. We must grasp the scale of using it. After all, if we are not careful, it may cause an avalanche.
Many students may not know what school bullying is, but in fact, not all of them are as lucky as Han. The more well-known ones are those who beat people very seriously but are still targeted, isolated, verbally violent and spread rumors afterwards. Alas, because I myself have experienced unprovoked school bullying, I resonated with this book when I read it. There is some powerlessness in real life. In fact, there is no such thing as the wind and water in the novel, and there is retribution. Even if there is a victim, how much can it be erased? None of us have the right to forgive the harm done to the victim. I sincerely hope that every student can be treated with gentleness. When school bullying occurs again, there will be people who can distinguish right from wrong and unite with the victims, so that the crimes of the perpetrators can be exposed in the sun! Being despised by everyone, I really hope that some onlookers can stop this abominable thing from happening to the victim! I hope all abusers realize how disgusting and ignorant your actions are! ! I hope that school bullies in real life can also be brought to justice and despised by everyone!
Campus violence, workplace violence, and online violence are like thorns, like the thorns of roses, roses, and cactus. In the blind spots of parental monitoring, the moral blind spots of society, and the gray areas of the law, who will protect us? On campus, in the workplace, and on social networks, everyone may be a victim. Li Shanglong, the million-selling author, has carefully crafted a strong voice for school violence, workplace violence, and online violence. "Thorn" written by Li Shanglong uses the pen as a gun to fight the world.
I feel that it is necessary for China to establish this student protection law. Children are inherently ignorant and should be universally promoted. What they think is fun is not just fun, it will leave an indelible shadow.
I feel deeply and cannot calm down inside. But in the end, some perpetrators still didn't get the punishment they deserved, which makes me feel very sad [crying]
At the end of the novel, "Just like those who end violence with love, those who do not respond to violence with violence are admirable." In fact, I find it difficult to understand the first approach. I think this is not love, it is just a compromise. The reason for not responding to violence with violence is because of morality and conscience. The victim does not want to become the same person as the perpetrator. The victim just chooses to let it go, but never forgives. Ending violence with love always feels like forgiving the perpetrator of the violence in the first place, just like some abuse articles end up being HE, which makes people find it incomprehensible [stunned]
This is also a novel that I find depressing. Han Xiaoting's experience can be attributed to misfortune and fate. But if there were fewer bystanders at this time, everything would change.
The root cause of violence is the human heart, and the formation of good and evil in the human heart is largely influenced by the family of origin. As for online violence, I think people don't know how much harm a brief comment can cause to the person being bullied. We should step up our efforts to stop those who make unscrupulous comments. Internet language is actually the same as in reality. When you speak out, the power of language is very powerful.
The book is very good and worth recommending. It helps us understand how to be a human being, reject school violence and online violence. We must follow formal laws and technology, and know how to protect ourselves. This book is very real and deeply insightful. It is worth reading and recommending!
I hope that when the school encounters campus violence, teachers will not ignore it because of personal performance or trivial matters. If the head teacher paid attention to this matter at that time, then what will happen in the future may not happen. As the author said, I hope the world can be more kind.
Why is the stinging pain unresonable?
"Thorn" presents us with the ubiquitous violence in a novel, which is also a problem faced by reality. Times have improved, and some people have begun to be too idle and base their happiness on the pain of others. There are a lot of dirty people on the Internet, but their words are filled with the greatest malice. I used to encounter some inappropriate comments and would report them, but now there are too many inappropriate comments, and they are all directed towards the bad side, and I feel very powerless. Sometimes I also want to be like Wang Chengyu, letting those who commit violence feel what it feels like to be bullied. But that is impossible. As the author said, fighting violence with violence will only lead to a new round of violence. I feel that the laws regarding online speech in our country are too lax, just like that pink-haired girl back then, countless dirty words killed her. The person who traced the source just said lightly "I just left a message" and "I think normal people can adjust. If you don't have a strong heart, then don't go online." I feel extremely sad every time I see this. How could he say such a thing? Doesn't he feel any guilt at all? I don't understand why the good guys always get hurt and the bad guys get away with it.
I don't know what to say. I couldn't calm down for a long time after reading it.
Anyway, this book is worth reading
When I saw Han Xiaoting die, I was very sad. Her life was too tiring, but she "saw" the most beautiful things before she died, and I felt that she was happy. The only flaw is that Zhang Bei and Liu Tao did not pay for their actions. Liu Tao was even retaliated by Han Xiaoting, but in my opinion it was not enough. She was not only a bystander but also a perpetrator. She just did not beat her with her own hands. In my eyes, she and the Zhang sisters were the real culprits who killed Han Xiaoting's mother. There are also the principal of Han Xiaoting's school, the irresponsible police officer, who all deserve to be punished, and Wang Chengyu who later killed many people. This book also gave me a lot of thinking. When violence occurs, we should fight against it instead of choosing to remain silent and compromise, neither the perpetrator nor the bystander.
Violence has always existed, in the invisible darkness, in the ugliest side of human nature. When a collapse occurs, no one who contributes to it is innocent, because human hearts are inherently fragile. But I believe that people's hearts should be kind, and there should be less favoritism and unfairness, and don't let human nature be distorted. No one wants to be hurt, so don't try to hurt others. Flowers with thorns are not unusual, but flowers with thorns are beautiful. Yes, roses are naturally beautiful, but they are always roses with thorns. Just like people, if they are ugly on the inside and have a good-looking appearance, they are still not beautiful; the cactus is covered with thorns, but it grows flowers through hard work and can still attract attention. Even if we do not have a gorgeous appearance, our sincere heart and the results of our hard work are still loved by people.
School violence must arouse people's vigilance. The shadow of childhood will last a lifetime. I hope that light can shine into all the dark places in the world and that all children can grow up healthy and safe.
"It's not the thorns of flowers that are strange, it's the thorns that make the flowers beautiful." "The scary thing about the world is not actually indifference, but when you are passionate and others tell you that you are wrong." Really touching
I was a well-protected child who grew up, but I also experienced violence once when I was a child. It didn't cause any real harm to me, it was just a misunderstanding. The abuser quickly apologized to me, but this seemingly small thing made me remember it for a long time. You never know how much damage a very small evil can do to a young heart.
It was really painful to watch it. Liu Tao and Han Xiaoting were obviously two ordinary girls, but they were distorted and hurt by violence. From school violence to workplace violence, violence became the theme of their lives. The workplace violence that happened to Liu Tao lasted for a full six months. She was full of grievances, but she forgot that the school violence that happened to Han Xiaoting ten years ago lasted for a whole year! I have a very pessimistic view on school violence, as well as online violence and workplace violence... Maybe the author is right. Only law and technology can suppress violence.
This book really reveals the appearance of violence and is thought-provoking. Life is full of thorns, which may be scratching the surface for you, but for me, violence will always exist in different ways, but I hope it can be improved through everyone's efforts. May our world become a better place!
Thorns can hurt others as well as themselves. If I could maintain the pure heart I had before, I wouldn't raise a thorn. But there are not so many ifs, and what has happened cannot be reversed. Thanks to the country's improved laws, many improvements have been made in schools and the Internet.
I felt uncomfortable after watching it, as if I had just comforted her when I witnessed school violence before. We were classmates. When she went through it, I wished she would die, but after the group left, I just gave her a piece of paper to comfort her. Now her depression is also a thorn in my heart.
After reading this book, depression, discomfort, helplessness, anger... All the indescribable emotions came out. There is no real empathy in the world, I don't know how painful they must be! The violence in this world may not stop, human nature is unpredictable, and violence is used to fight violence in a cycle. Fortunately, we are not victims, but we can never be silent bystanders. We must speak up when it is time to speak up. I don't know how to judge them in the story. They are both perpetrators and victims. All because of a violence, one person after another, endless cycle. When the evil in human nature starts to cause trouble, even you can't stop it. And the next thing is that human nature begins to take revenge, and the blinded eyes cannot see anything. Are they wrong? Have no idea. But this is the price, a price that everyone is destined to bear in the future for a small incident of violence. All kinds of violence appear, no one can stop it, and everything falls into a cycle. The author asks can violence turn into love? I think maybe, but how can I be sure? After all, some violence is caused by love and hatred, so this is an infinite cycle... But, it cannot be denied. If everyone in this world had more kindness and love, then there might be less violence in this world! I wish you and I can stay away from violence and have a safe life... August 18, 2022 15:52
I sincerely hope that all children will grow up among flowers instead of surrounded by thorns. In order for each flower to bloom perfectly, it requires the joint efforts of everyone: the country pays great attention to and improves the law on minors, more good suggestions from representatives are adopted, the education department, public security agencies, and schools take practical measures and actions to deal with school violence, teachers, parents, and classmates think differently and do what they do not want others to do. As the father of a little boy, I hope that the world of all children will be like a fairy tale. I hope that my little boy will grow up towards the sun and also have an edge...
After reading it, I was very touched. I have seen a lot of school violence and bullying, but I have always been a bystander. I hate the perpetrators, but what can I do? All I can do is not join in and prevent myself from being bullied. I was also bullied in elementary school, so I hate that kind of people, but I never do that kind of person. Alas.
After reading this book, I realized a truth: it looks particularly beautiful only when it is tattooed with blooming flowers. Likewise, those who end violence with love, rather than respond to violence with violence, are worthy of our admiration. We should understand that every bad person was once a child, and every good person can become vulnerable without restraint. The author's writing is smooth and the story is gripping. It is an excellent work and worth reading.
Flowers with thorns are not unusual, but flowers with thorns are beautiful. The flowers blooming on the thorns are particularly beautiful. Just like those who end violence with love, those who do not respond to violence with violence are admirable.
If, I mean if Liu Tao was not obsessed with that seat, if Han Xiaoting changed seats, if Liu Tao stopped her a little bit, would things have changed? Many people say that Liu Tao did nothing, but I think she was the initiator of the whole thing, a bystander, a planner, an encourager, and even a participant. She acted like a lady from beginning to end, smiling and encouraging this crime. She did not stop it, and even participated.
The narrative is a bit stiff, the language is too descriptive, and the writing style needs to be improved. But the intention is very profound. The author's words are very sincere and kind. Thank you very much for writing this series of excellent works. I am also someone who has been subjected to verbal violence on campus. I still remember the collapse and fear I felt at that time. I will not forgive those who commit violence. I will strive to become better and better and live like a light. Thanks to the author! May law and technology continue to advance and there will be no more unjust violence in the world
This book allows everyone to see the invisible violence in society, such as school violence, workplace violence, and the well-known online violence. It is undeniable that these violence have not been eradicated by the world. There are still many people suffering from this violence in the area that our eyes cannot see. We can only pray for world peace.
The way this book tells a story made me understand the truth that fighting violence with violence will only produce more violence. If we stop violence in time when we see it, we may make them realize their mistakes.
This book gave me a new understanding of school violence, and I was shocked [shocked][shocked]! ! ! I never thought that a person could be so bad as to be a traitor! Simply born [angry] [angry]. . . The description of the process of the heroine being bullied on campus goes from shallow to deep, and every time you read it, your heart will become more and more painful. [Cry][Cry][Cry][Cry] This is a book worth reading! May there be less and less school violence in this world! [Crazy][Crazy][Crazy]
I felt very depressed after reading it. Maybe I was too impatient and read it all in one night. Although I didn't delve into the details of the story in detail, the first two stories made me reflect on myself. Did I also commit violence against "Han Xiaoting" on campus? Will "Liu Tao" be me in the future? In this developed Internet world, should our words and deeds be regulated? The Internet should not be a place outside the law. It is a double-edged sword that can protect ourselves and hurt others. We must grasp the scale of using it. After all, if we are not careful, it may cause an avalanche.
Many students may not know what school bullying is, but in fact, not all of them are as lucky as Han. The more well-known ones are those who beat people very seriously but are still targeted, isolated, verbally violent and spread rumors afterwards. Alas, because I myself have experienced unprovoked school bullying, I resonated with this book when I read it. There is some powerlessness in real life. In fact, there is no such thing as the wind and water in the novel, and there is retribution. Even if there is a victim, how much can it be erased? None of us have the right to forgive the harm done to the victim. I sincerely hope that every student can be treated with gentleness. When school bullying occurs again, there will be people who can distinguish right from wrong and unite with the victims, so that the crimes of the perpetrators can be exposed in the sun! Being despised by everyone, I really hope that some onlookers can stop this abominable thing from happening to the victim! I hope all abusers realize how disgusting and ignorant your actions are! ! I hope that school bullies in real life can also be brought to justice and despised by everyone!
Campus violence, workplace violence, and online violence are like thorns, like the thorns of roses, roses, and cactus. In the blind spots of parental monitoring, the moral blind spots of society, and the gray areas of the law, who will protect us? On campus, in the workplace, and on social networks, everyone may be a victim. Li Shanglong, the million-selling author, has carefully crafted a strong voice for school violence, workplace violence, and online violence. "Thorn" written by Li Shanglong uses the pen as a gun to fight the world.
I feel that it is necessary for China to establish this student protection law. Children are inherently ignorant and should be universally promoted. What they think is fun is not just fun, it will leave an indelible shadow.
I feel deeply and cannot calm down inside. But in the end, some perpetrators still didn't get the punishment they deserved, which makes me feel very sad [crying] At the end of the novel, "Just like those who end violence with love, those who do not respond to violence with violence are admirable." In fact, I find it difficult to understand the first approach. I think this is not love, it is just a compromise. The reason for not responding to violence with violence is because of morality and conscience. The victim does not want to become the same person as the perpetrator. The victim just chooses to let it go, but never forgives. Ending violence with love always feels like forgiving the perpetrator of the violence in the first place, just like some abuse articles end up being HE, which makes people find it incomprehensible [stunned]
This is also a novel that I find depressing. Han Xiaoting's experience can be attributed to misfortune and fate. But if there were fewer bystanders at this time, everything would change. The root cause of violence is the human heart, and the formation of good and evil in the human heart is largely influenced by the family of origin. As for online violence, I think people don't know how much harm a brief comment can cause to the person being bullied. We should step up our efforts to stop those who make unscrupulous comments. Internet language is actually the same as in reality. When you speak out, the power of language is very powerful.
The book is very good and worth recommending. It helps us understand how to be a human being, reject school violence and online violence. We must follow formal laws and technology, and know how to protect ourselves. This book is very real and deeply insightful. It is worth reading and recommending!
I hope that when the school encounters campus violence, teachers will not ignore it because of personal performance or trivial matters. If the head teacher paid attention to this matter at that time, then what will happen in the future may not happen. As the author said, I hope the world can be more kind.
Why is the stinging pain unresonable?
"Thorn" presents us with the ubiquitous violence in a novel, which is also a problem faced by reality. Times have improved, and some people have begun to be too idle and base their happiness on the pain of others. There are a lot of dirty people on the Internet, but their words are filled with the greatest malice. I used to encounter some inappropriate comments and would report them, but now there are too many inappropriate comments, and they are all directed towards the bad side, and I feel very powerless. Sometimes I also want to be like Wang Chengyu, letting those who commit violence feel what it feels like to be bullied. But that is impossible. As the author said, fighting violence with violence will only lead to a new round of violence. I feel that the laws regarding online speech in our country are too lax, just like that pink-haired girl back then, countless dirty words killed her. The person who traced the source just said lightly "I just left a message" and "I think normal people can adjust. If you don't have a strong heart, then don't go online." I feel extremely sad every time I see this. How could he say such a thing? Doesn't he feel any guilt at all? I don't understand why the good guys always get hurt and the bad guys get away with it.
I don't know what to say. I couldn't calm down for a long time after reading it. Anyway, this book is worth reading