Why Should Life Be Taken Too Seriously: a Philosophy of Life That Doesn't Get Too Sloppy

Life is only a few dozen winters and summers. Living with all kinds of burdens all day long, wouldn't it be a waste of great time - "Why should life be too serious?" People often fall into serious dilemmas in life and are overly persistent and entangled in various things: At work, because of a small mistake, a small achievement, or a small friction with a colleague, you will be depressed and overthinking for a long time; In interpersonal relationships, we over-interpret other people's words and looks, and insist on arguing about right and wrong. Life is full of imperfections and uncertainties. Being too serious will only make you exhausted. When facing setbacks and difficulties, there is no need to dwell on the dead end. If you look at the problem from a different angle, you may be able to discover new opportunities. We should learn to face life with an open-minded and transparent attitude. Just like unemployment may be an opportunity to start a new career, relationship failure may also mean the opportunity to meet a more suitable person. Don't always try to change others, and don't expect too much from others. The more familiar people are, the easier it is to quarrel. In family life, it is very common for couples to go to war over trivial matters. It is important to understand and compromise with each other, so that life can become more harmonious and beautiful. Everyone has their own personality, values, and lifestyle. Only by respecting differences and being tolerant of differences can you and others feel more comfortable. At the same time, we must learn to let go of past regrets and mistakes, and do not remain immersed in regret. The past cannot be changed. Being too serious about the past will only make you unable to devote yourself to the present life. As for the future, don't worry too much, do what you need to do now, let nature take its course, and the future will take care of itself. Don't be too obsessed with trivial matters, don't overly pursue perfection, and appreciate the scenery along the way of life with a peaceful mind. In the busy and complex modern life, re-examine your lifestyle; Let go of unnecessary burdens, embrace calmness and happiness, and spend life with a relaxed and free attitude.

If you are not serious, stubbornness is stupidity

After reading this book, I became more awake

Good, I learned a lot about life from it

The more you experience, the richer your experience will be. If you listen more, talk less, and do more, you will be more right and less wrong. Life is unpredictable, but you have to live it no matter what, so it is better to live optimistically and tolerantly, so that life can be simpler and happier.

I have benefited a lot and learned not to be too serious ~

Great book! Worth reading! Very practical!

A very inspiring book

As the book says, life is short, why worry about small things? I particularly like one point in it: "If the water is clear, there will be no fish, and if the people are clear enough, there will be no disciples." Sometimes, we need to let go of our obsessions in order to live more comfortably. This book made me understand that I should be more open-minded and not always care about gains and losses. I think this is very helpful to me, and I recommend you to read it too!

Reading this book made me understand a lot, and it also made me realize a lot of my shortcomings. I will read it a second time.

This book is very nice [like][like]

Feelings are very speaking, three parts true, three parts false, three parts decoration, and one part yourself.

As a human being, it doesn't hurt to be a little hypocritical sometimes [laughs][laughs]

The story is true and not fictitious. The more I read it, the more I want to read it.

I like this book very much, it suits me very well, and I will read it again and again.

Realistic and very useful

The content written is really great

True knowledge is difficult to put into practice

Concise and clear, self-aware...

Stay calm and peaceful when faced with problems, don't dwell on the past and live in the present. Sometimes you have to be a little hypocritical as a human being

If you want to buy this book, you can't buy it on other platforms.

My god, I feel enlightened after reading this. It's very useful and I learned a lot.

There are many points in the book that I want, and there are many points that I don't know. I have taken screenshots of the key points and saved them. Thank you, the author.