Being Able to Speak Is a Discipline, Keeping Your Mouth Shut Is a Discipline

As the saying goes, too much talk leads to mistakes. Being able to speak is a skill, but keeping your mouth shut is a discipline. In life, language is a person's appearance. If you speak too fast, you often don't think carefully and hurt others and yourself; if you speak slowly, you can gain people's hearts by talking with moderation. Being able to speak is a discipline, and keeping your mouth shut is the most rare education for an adult. If a person speaks too fast, he often appears impatient. It's too late to put yourself in someone else's shoes, which makes people feel unhappy. In the end, good intentions can lead to bad things. Therefore, as the old saying goes, disease enters from the mouth and disaster comes from the mouth.

Many books will teach you how to speak, how to treat others, how to increase your emotional intelligence, and how to perfectly answer the leader's questions when interacting with the leader. But this book is unique in doing the opposite. It teaches you how to keep your mouth shut, how not to speak, and how to use silence instead of words. The examples in the book are very vivid and vivid, which makes people smile and understand at the same time. I have benefited a lot from reading this book. This kind of book always brings surprises. It is recommended for everyone to read. After you are used to seeing a world full of words, you should also take a look at this wordless world occasionally.

This book taught me something: in life, there are many people and things that we find difficult to refuse. For example, our boss orders us to work overtime; our best friend asks us to help us go through the back door; an old friend sells something to us... Obviously there are many times when we want to say "no" loudly, but we always have to swallow the word back for one reason or another. Even if we bravely said the word "no", the atmosphere was frozen by us. What to do? In this regard, some human relations experts said that if you want to say "no" smoothly without offending others, try to put the responsibility on yourself and try to blame yourself when you say "no".

Very good, awesome and powerful

I have a friend who is not very good at talking. Sometimes he means well, but he offends people because of the wrong way of speaking. This book is like a communication guide. It will teach us the appropriate words to say on different occasions, and also help us control our mouths and avoid unnecessary trouble. The author Zhang Xiaoheng must be a person who understands life very well to write such a down-to-earth book!

"The most ardent need in human nature is the desire to be affirmed." This book tells from various aspects how we can understand the other party's inner needs, express ourselves in language with high emotional intelligence, and use praise, praise, appropriate comments, etc., So that the other party can receive our message without being disgusted. Speaking is an art. If we want to speak well, we must not only distinguish the occasion, but also master certain skills, use dignified language, and show our humor in order to speak well.

This book starts from the two aspects of "being able to speak" and "keeping your mouth shut". Through 12 chapters, it tells how to speak with different people, how to speak in different situations, how to master the skills and propriety of speaking appropriately, and how people who are not good at words can say the right words to the right people at the right time to cope with language communication in different situations. Whether a person can succeed in his career, have good interpersonal relationships, successfully influence others, and have a happy family all depends on whether he can behave and speak. Therefore, when you are living in society, only by organically combining your behavior and speaking can you be more comfortable and skillful in interpersonal communication. All in all, this is a wise book. It not only brings us ideological enlightenment, but more importantly, it guides us to understand ourselves, change ourselves, and surpass ourselves. This book is worth reading, understanding, and practicing by everyone.

This book talks about the principles of communication and etiquette between people, so that we will not encounter obstacles in social communication, and it is worth learning.

As the saying goes, too much talk leads to mistakes. Being able to speak is a skill, but keeping your mouth shut is a discipline. In life, language is a person's appearance. If you speak too fast, you often don't think carefully and hurt others and yourself; if you speak slowly, you can gain people's hearts by talking with moderation. Being able to speak is a discipline, and keeping your mouth shut is the most rare education for an adult. If a person speaks too fast, he often appears impatient. It's too late to put yourself in someone else's shoes, which makes people feel unhappy. In the end, good intentions can lead to bad things. Therefore, as the old saying goes, disease enters from the mouth and disaster comes from the mouth.

I feel it is very useful. Speaking skills are very important. I have learned a little bit and will read it several times.

I like watching it, it's very helpful.

This book is well written, and there are many things that are very true. However, this book can be written in more than 2,000 words, which is really exaggerated.

It analyzed a lot in detail, the way of speaking in different scenarios, and gave comprehensive guidance on speaking attitude, tone, language expression, etc. It was quite useful!

To be useful, see more, think more, listen more and talk less.

What the book mentions is what I think. I hope more people will read this book.

The description of this book is very detailed and makes it easy to read.

That makes sense, I like it very much

I recorded the chat in Baili Linlang Street so I couldn't see it in the first place.

Good medicine tastes bitter, but good advice offends the ears. It takes three years to learn to speak, but a lifetime to learn to shut up.

Good looking, worth watching

This book is really good. It's much better than what I've read before. This book talks about real-life problems [Like] [Laughs] It's worth recommending.

Real, I can learn a lot, I like listening to it

Very well written! Examples, well written! Keep watching!

It's okay, with more practical examples

Clear and concise [Like][Like][Like]

Real examples and strong practicality

The author shared it very well

I really like listening to this book [Like][Like][Like][Like][Like][Like]

Worth recommending and looking good👍

A good book