Breaking up *********

After reading, my understanding of separation is to find a sense of control, whether it is over items, family, or oneself. But I had other ideas about interfering with my parents' lifestyle. I think we have no right to interfere or judge, it is their life, and the most important thing is not to let yourself live too tiredly. There are also some things that I can't make up my mind to part with, because those days of companionship have added sentimental value to the items, so how can I let them go with just a farewell. How to give up on books that you have read but most likely will not read. It's so difficult! Don't enter this door

Today I have finished reading this book, and I feel like I got it right in many places. While I was reading it, I started to tidy it up. This is a book that can really change the current situation, mood, and "tatters" at home📖

This book describes in detail the complete formation process of the author's concept of Duan Shili. Based on the personal experience of the participants in the author's Duan Shili lectures, it records in detail the author's thinking process on the relationship between "Duan Shili and objects, things, people, and hearts." The author's way of explanation is still very good, the questions get to the point of pain, and the language is very simple. The concept of renunciation and separation proposed can also be understood and accepted by the general public. But in fact, there are not many really useful ideas in the book. The content is lengthy and the narrative is repetitive.

This was a very popular book in the past few years, emphasizing that we are already faced with many complicated things, and only by giving up can we live a more brilliant life. "Separation" emphasizes the importance of reducing material burdens. The author advocates keeping only those items that are truly important and loved and separating them from unnecessary and useless items. By organizing and reducing the number of items, people can create a tidier, more comfortable and peaceful living environment. I have tried this lifestyle myself, and it has indeed given me a lot of surprises and growth.

Breaking up, giving up, and separation all seem to represent mourning at first glance. I have always thought that it means breaking up and leaving people mentally and psychologically, but it seems that I was wrong this time. If we deal with the separation of objective things well, we can also We can deal with the mental issues well, and we have nothing to do with external things. The method of renunciation may be precisely because of the subjective spiritual fetters. If you do well in objective renunciation, it will not be difficult to make subjective renunciation. Finally, no matter how I say it, this book really reminds me that I really need to let go of things, which will make me feel better. Add follow-up comments All comments

Highly recommended. On the one hand, this book tells us how to store and organize our own things, and provides detailed methods for getting rid of them. On the other hand, this book also tells us that organizing things is actually getting to know ourselves, especially in the process of letting go. For example, we now have two pairs of chopsticks, one pair is commonly used and the other is idle. What we use is actually a projection of our inner identity. We think that we are more suitable to use which pair, and that pair of chopsticks is more suitable for us. If we have to choose a pair to throw away, the discarded pair will be the self that we disagree with even more.

This book is highly recommended. On the one hand, this book tells us how to store and organize our own things, and provides detailed methods for getting rid of them. On the other hand, this book also tells us that organizing things is actually getting to know ourselves, especially in the process of letting go. For example, we now have two pairs of chopsticks, one pair is commonly used and the other is idle. What we use is actually a projection of our inner identity. We think that we are more suitable to use which pair, and that pair of chopsticks is more suitable for us. If we have to choose a pair to throw away, the discarded pair will be the self that we disagree with even more.

This book is called "Duan Sheli". As the name suggests, the book talks about the concept of Duan Sheli and the process of the author forming this concept. It is the author's original intention. Reading this book allows us to re-understand the meaning of Duan Sheli. There are many unnecessary things in my life but I keep them. It would be a pity to throw them away. It is useless not to throw them away. This book is not about It is just the separation of objects, but also the separation of various things and emotions in life. Before this, I still lacked understanding of separation. Now I understand that I can live a serious and relaxed life by cutting off people and things I don't need. The content of the book is rich and colorful, the writing is humorous, and it is easy to understand. It is really a good book worth pondering.

This was a very popular book in the past few years, emphasizing that we are already faced with many complicated things, and only by giving up can we live a more brilliant life. "Separation" emphasizes the importance of reducing material burdens. The author advocates keeping only those items that are truly important and loved and separating them from unnecessary and useless items. By organizing and reducing the number of items, people can create a tidier, more comfortable and peaceful living environment. I have tried this lifestyle myself, and it has indeed given me a lot of surprises and growth.

Clean up the clutter in the room and the garbage in your heart. Cut off unnecessary people and things when you need to, let go when you need to leave, and leave when you need to leave. There is no need to struggle with it. Live in the moment, subtract from life, and live a simple life. I have learned!

It feels really good to hear that I have to clean up my house. I have already cleaned it two or three times, and I have thrown away at least ten bags of garbage. I find that there are still a lot of things in the house. It seems that I need to continue to work hard for a while!

In the words of the article: "Wanting to do it" and "starting to do it" are two different things, just like there is a world of difference between the "desire" of "I want to lose weight" and the "determination" of "I want to lose weight". Just having a wish will not change anything unless you execute it. My mission is to make "execution" an easy and enjoyable thing. "You have to do it" to create opportunities that make people eager to try and full of passion.

"Space axis: In order to ensure the cleanliness of the space, reduce the amount of items to the most appropriate amount as much as possible. Disconnection is the metabolism of life. Replace daily necessities at the appropriate time to maintain the original natural state of life. Invisible storage space accounts for 70% , the visible storage space accounts for 50%, and the display storage space accounts for 10%, leaving a blank space for your residence. "I like this book very much, and it also gave me good life guidance. It was not until I gradually started to give up that I discovered that life is very different."

I have been exposed to Yamashita Eiko's renunciation method since 10 years ago and have been practicing it with occasional repetitions, but I have benefited a lot. It has changed both external things and my inner mentality. It can be said to have transformed myself! This is a good book and worth recommending! ! !

A book that influenced my personality. Let go of my cowardice

It's very well written. Only by getting rid of unnecessary items at home, as well as some unnecessary people and things, can you easily deal with the problems in life, pack lightly, and face tomorrow.

Start taking action to practice renunciation

I was very benefited after reading this. I immediately classified the unused things at home and put the unused items in the junk cabinet.

Clean up the house. I have never seen my house so beautiful. The separation is really amazing

When I see the messy life every day, I can't help but feel bad, and my temper becomes more and more irritable. This is the only book I've ever read. It's very useful and calming.

The discussion is wonderful, close to life, and worth reading again and again.

It's pretty good, I've benefited a lot

Start to clean up your mood, break up, let go, leave

Absolutely excellent book

Very useful writing Very useful, I will start to separate from my new home after I get it.

I have some ideas that I want to organize and process, waiting to be put into practice

Can resonate with today's young people

The furthest distance in the world is between knowing and doing. I hope we can all find ourselves

It's not just about getting rid of things in your home, it's also about getting rid of things in your life!

I re-understood separation and abandonment. In the past, I always thought that things were still unnecessary, and there was storage. But in fact, there was a lack of understanding of separation and separation before. Thank you, the author!