This book is a psychological work that talks about the concept of the original family and the impact of the original family on people. This book starts from the beginning of a person's growth and pays attention to the process of psychological changes caused by the influence of the original family on a person as he grows up. From the five aspects of "combing and restoration", "labeling and memory", "role and relationship", "safety and connection" and "mapping and extraction", it provides solutions to the viral replication of the original family template, guiding people to be good and pursue a better and happy life.
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The greatest impact on people is childhood, and those who accompany us in childhood are our parents and grandparents. A warm and loving family can make children optimistic, cheerful and generous, but a broken family full of quarrels and indifference will also scar the child's heart. This is why modern society calls on people to establish good parenting habits and understand children's psychology. The book can help people understand what kind of impact the original family will have on the child's mind, and help people identify the shortcomings of the family and the harm they have suffered, so as to build a good and healthy psychology step by step.
"Some people spend their entire lives healing their childhood." This is also an interpretation of the family of origin. Nowadays, people pay more attention to a person's psychological activities. Among them, the family of origin is an unavoidable topic. Powerlessness will have an indelible impact on a person. This book starts from the concept of the family of origin and tells the impact of the family of origin on a person's growth. It also hopes to find a solution to harmonious symbiosis. The interpretation in the book is very good and deserves more people's attention to the family of origin.
Dear friends, it's worth a visit
The influence of one's original family on a person is long-lasting, all-round and subtle. A person's personality, way of thinking, behavior and ultimate life achievements are largely influenced by his family of origin. For example, a person who was extremely deprived of love in childhood will easily fall into the sweet trap created by others; while a person who is cared for in the family will view the care given by others more rationally. This book describes the mechanism and manifestations of the influence of the original family from a psychological perspective, and then proposes ways for us to cut the umbilical cord, get rid of the negative influence of the original family, and achieve self-achievement.
I highly recommend this book. The author still cites citations while still retaining humanistic care and empathy for readers. This book has a philosophical level: the author discusses the Tao of Lao and Zhuang, talks about the importance of culture to an individual and a country, and the mismatch or imbalance that may occur when individuals adapt to culture. Everyone looks at each other and takes care of each other; in the end, they achieve each other's success and explore and grow themselves. This book by Mr. Chen has a simple style of writing but reveals great wisdom about life between the lines. The book also contains real records of interviews with native families. From these stories, the author gives a unique interpretation and incorporates academic knowledge into the interpretation to facilitate readers to better absorb it. If you feel worried because of some small emotions that cannot be erased, this book is suitable for your in-depth study.
This book deeply explores the impact and role of family of origin on individuals through specific cases and analysis. Through the interpretation of family relationships, parenting styles and family atmosphere, the author helps readers realize the importance of family to personal self-esteem, emotional regulation and interpersonal skills. At the same time, the author also introduces some methods and techniques for dealing with family-of-origin problems to help readers better understand and deal with family-related issues. In addition to the influence of the family of origin, this book also triggers thinking about the interaction between family and society through the discussion of the relationship between family and society. The author makes readers aware of the importance of family in the socialization process by introducing the impact of family on individuals and society. This in-depth thinking gives readers a deeper understanding of the complexity and closeness of the relationship between family and society.
This book deeply explores the impact and role of family of origin on individuals through specific cases and analysis. Through the interpretation of family relationships, parenting styles and family atmosphere, the author helps readers realize the importance of family to personal self-esteem, emotional regulation and interpersonal skills. At the same time, the author also introduces some methods and techniques for dealing with family-of-origin problems to help readers better understand and deal with family-related issues. In addition to the influence of the family of origin, this book also triggers thinking about the interaction between family and society through the discussion of the relationship between family and society. The author makes readers aware of the importance of family in the socialization process by introducing the impact of family on individuals and society. This in-depth thinking gives readers a deeper understanding of the complexity and closeness of the relationship between family and society.
The influence of one's original family on a person is long-lasting, all-round and subtle. A person's personality, way of thinking, behavior and ultimate life achievements are largely influenced by his family of origin. For example, a person who was extremely deprived of love in childhood will easily fall into the sweet trap created by others; while a person who is cared for in the family will view the care given by others more rationally. This book describes the mechanism and manifestations of the influence of the original family from a psychological perspective, and then proposes ways for us to cut the umbilical cord, get rid of the negative influence of the original family, and achieve self-achievement.
Each chapter touches people's hearts directly and explains it thoroughly.
The book helps us analyze the causes of character defects and how to repair them. It is written by a foreign author, but the translation is very good. I recommend everyone to read it. If you are a child who is poisoned, I hope it can help you save yourself. But I recommend every parent to read it, so as to reduce the root cause of harm to children! After reading this book, I wanted to share it with everyone right away. It took me several days to read it. I didn't want to miss any chapter. I highly recommend it.
Some of the cases and solutions mentioned in the book made me understand that the influence of the original family on people is profound, but we can change it through self-awareness and hard work. I especially hate the behavior of labeling people. This book tells us to get rid of those negative labels and memories. The storyline was very real and made me relate to it. I recommend you read it, you will learn a lot!
Mental health education
Very useful for people with psychological trauma
Theory and cases go hand in hand, making it interesting to read.
Explain clearly, willing to listen
I can't understand [crying] my question
The influence of our original family on us is very good
It's a very good lecture. I want to continue listening. I've benefited a lot!
Great, I like it very much
Very useful. You can correctly analyze the pain you suffered in your family of origin.
It taught me a lot and is worth reading. It has the magic power to keep people reading.
The greatest impact on people is childhood, and those who accompany us in childhood are our parents and grandparents. A warm and loving family can make children optimistic, cheerful and generous, but a broken family full of quarrels and indifference will also scar the child's heart. This is why modern society calls on people to establish good parenting habits and understand children's psychology. The book can help people understand what kind of impact the original family will have on the child's mind, and help people identify the shortcomings of the family and the harm they have suffered, so as to build a good and healthy psychology step by step.
"Some people spend their entire lives healing their childhood." This is also an interpretation of the family of origin. Nowadays, people pay more attention to a person's psychological activities. Among them, the family of origin is an unavoidable topic. Powerlessness will have an indelible impact on a person. This book starts from the concept of the family of origin and tells the impact of the family of origin on a person's growth. It also hopes to find a solution to harmonious symbiosis. The interpretation in the book is very good and deserves more people's attention to the family of origin.
Dear friends, it's worth a visit
The influence of one's original family on a person is long-lasting, all-round and subtle. A person's personality, way of thinking, behavior and ultimate life achievements are largely influenced by his family of origin. For example, a person who was extremely deprived of love in childhood will easily fall into the sweet trap created by others; while a person who is cared for in the family will view the care given by others more rationally. This book describes the mechanism and manifestations of the influence of the original family from a psychological perspective, and then proposes ways for us to cut the umbilical cord, get rid of the negative influence of the original family, and achieve self-achievement.
I highly recommend this book. The author still cites citations while still retaining humanistic care and empathy for readers. This book has a philosophical level: the author discusses the Tao of Lao and Zhuang, talks about the importance of culture to an individual and a country, and the mismatch or imbalance that may occur when individuals adapt to culture. Everyone looks at each other and takes care of each other; in the end, they achieve each other's success and explore and grow themselves. This book by Mr. Chen has a simple style of writing but reveals great wisdom about life between the lines. The book also contains real records of interviews with native families. From these stories, the author gives a unique interpretation and incorporates academic knowledge into the interpretation to facilitate readers to better absorb it. If you feel worried because of some small emotions that cannot be erased, this book is suitable for your in-depth study.
This book deeply explores the impact and role of family of origin on individuals through specific cases and analysis. Through the interpretation of family relationships, parenting styles and family atmosphere, the author helps readers realize the importance of family to personal self-esteem, emotional regulation and interpersonal skills. At the same time, the author also introduces some methods and techniques for dealing with family-of-origin problems to help readers better understand and deal with family-related issues. In addition to the influence of the family of origin, this book also triggers thinking about the interaction between family and society through the discussion of the relationship between family and society. The author makes readers aware of the importance of family in the socialization process by introducing the impact of family on individuals and society. This in-depth thinking gives readers a deeper understanding of the complexity and closeness of the relationship between family and society.
This book deeply explores the impact and role of family of origin on individuals through specific cases and analysis. Through the interpretation of family relationships, parenting styles and family atmosphere, the author helps readers realize the importance of family to personal self-esteem, emotional regulation and interpersonal skills. At the same time, the author also introduces some methods and techniques for dealing with family-of-origin problems to help readers better understand and deal with family-related issues. In addition to the influence of the family of origin, this book also triggers thinking about the interaction between family and society through the discussion of the relationship between family and society. The author makes readers aware of the importance of family in the socialization process by introducing the impact of family on individuals and society. This in-depth thinking gives readers a deeper understanding of the complexity and closeness of the relationship between family and society.
The influence of one's original family on a person is long-lasting, all-round and subtle. A person's personality, way of thinking, behavior and ultimate life achievements are largely influenced by his family of origin. For example, a person who was extremely deprived of love in childhood will easily fall into the sweet trap created by others; while a person who is cared for in the family will view the care given by others more rationally. This book describes the mechanism and manifestations of the influence of the original family from a psychological perspective, and then proposes ways for us to cut the umbilical cord, get rid of the negative influence of the original family, and achieve self-achievement.
Each chapter touches people's hearts directly and explains it thoroughly.
The book helps us analyze the causes of character defects and how to repair them. It is written by a foreign author, but the translation is very good. I recommend everyone to read it. If you are a child who is poisoned, I hope it can help you save yourself. But I recommend every parent to read it, so as to reduce the root cause of harm to children! After reading this book, I wanted to share it with everyone right away. It took me several days to read it. I didn't want to miss any chapter. I highly recommend it.
Some of the cases and solutions mentioned in the book made me understand that the influence of the original family on people is profound, but we can change it through self-awareness and hard work. I especially hate the behavior of labeling people. This book tells us to get rid of those negative labels and memories. The storyline was very real and made me relate to it. I recommend you read it, you will learn a lot!
Mental health education
Very useful for people with psychological trauma
Theory and cases go hand in hand, making it interesting to read.
Explain clearly, willing to listen
I can't understand [crying] my question
The influence of our original family on us is very good
It's a very good lecture. I want to continue listening. I've benefited a lot!
Great, I like it very much
Very useful. You can correctly analyze the pain you suffered in your family of origin.
It taught me a lot and is worth reading. It has the magic power to keep people reading.
Meaningful and worth seeing