Accept Your Imperfections

Lu Meipo, a poet from the Song Dynasty, wrote this line in his poem "Snow Plum": "Plum plums are three times whiter than snow, but snow loses some of the fragrance of plum blossoms." Neither plum nor snow is perfect, but each has its own strengths, and so are we. It is precisely because of each other's flaws that we are unique and make up this rich and colorful world. This book uses beautiful and healing language to tell us that there is no need to compare with others, and imperfection is not terrible. It encourages us to learn to accept our imperfect selves, which brings comfort to our souls.

This book tells us that the shadow of the soul includes many levels, including timidity and greed. Selfishness, etc., These negative things exist in us, and we try our best to cover up and suppress them. These will not disappear as we cover them up, but will become hidden and inadvertently affect our sense of identity. We cannot try to escape them, we should face them, because they will bring us different valuable gains. Only when we face them can we know our true self and live a better and fulfilling life.

Each of us is imperfect. Living in this world is about constantly discovering that you are not omnipotent. But even though we are not perfect, we are also unique. So accept your imperfections. Don't dwell on your failures and shortcomings. Instead, look at your strengths and achievements. Let yourself become confident, self-respecting and self-loving. Everyone is unique in the world. Accepting our own imperfections will make us love this imperfect world even more.

This book tells us that the shadow of the soul includes many levels, including timidity and greed. Selfishness, etc., These negative things exist in us, and we try our best to cover up and suppress them. These will not disappear as we cover them up, but will become hidden and inadvertently affect our sense of identity. We cannot try to escape them, we should face them, because they will bring us different valuable gains. Only when we face them can we know our true self and live a better and fulfilling life.

The best cure is not to become something, but to know what you are and then embrace it. Because the sense of meaninglessness and low self-esteem are not caused by external crises, to a large extent it is part of our human nature. We are born to feel timid or lose self-control; because we know that there is darkness when there is light, and because we know that we will not be happy forever, we can become truly happy and live in this moment. Because there is no need for us to create a false persona and live a masked life every day, because such an operation will always pretend to be another person's perspective and lose one's own protagonist status. In fact, whether Internet celebrities or other people's children, they are just one of the characters that appear in life, and the protagonist of our world, the one who survives to the end, is only ourselves.

After reading this book, I was reminded of a sentence in "Mountain and Moon": "I know very well that I am not a beautiful jade, so I don't dare to think hard about it, but I half-believe that I am a beautiful jade, so I don't want to be mediocre and associate with rubble." As we grow, we need to constantly face ourselves, be willing to admit our fragility and shortcomings, and accept them. Only by facing it bravely can we free ourselves from the shackles of the heart and truly grow. Instead of always trying to make up for what cannot be changed, it is better to change your thinking and think about how to truly change. Seeing your imperfections, only by accepting them calmly can you move forward better!

The best cure is not to become something, but to know what you are and then embrace it. Because the sense of meaninglessness and low self-esteem are not caused by external crises, to a large extent it is part of our human nature. We are born to feel timid or lose self-control; because we know that there is darkness when there is light, and because we know that we will not be happy forever, we can become truly happy and live in this moment. Because there is no need for us to create a false persona and live a masked life every day, because such an operation will always pretend to be another person's perspective and lose one's own protagonist status. In fact, whether Internet celebrities or other people's children, they are just one of the characters that appear in life, and the protagonist of our world, the one who survives to the end, is only ourselves.

We live in a world of contradictions, truth, goodness, beauty and ugliness, black and white, right and wrong. We live in the sun, but otherwise we will experience shadows. This book tells us to face the imperfections in life and embrace our own fears and weaknesses, so that we can face the world truly and bravely. The author first tells us to say goodbye to the imaginary perfect self, break through the shackles of self-centeredness, and admit, accept and embrace inner flaws. Only in this way can we easily live a wonderful life.

This book tells us that the shadow of the soul includes many levels, including timidity and greed. Selfishness, etc., These negative things exist in us, and we try our best to cover up and suppress them. These will not disappear as we cover them up, but will become hidden and inadvertently affect our sense of identity. We cannot try to escape them, we should face them, because they will bring us different valuable gains. Only when we face them can we know our true self and live a better and fulfilling life.

This book touched me very much. We are not perfect, but we can learn to accept ourselves. As the book says, when we can embrace our fears and weaknesses, we can truly grow. I like the view of the unity of contradictions in the book, which reminds me of the book "Human Weakness". They both make me understand myself better. I think everyone should read this book and find their true self.

After watching it, I wanted to read it again, and finally I chose to watch it again from beginning to end.

I like the author's point of view, and it's a different harvest! Accept yourself, accept everything about yourself, it looks easy but is difficult to do! But I will try my best to accept our own mediocrity and bad temper, and then find our own breakthrough point, let ourselves go, and let others go!

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I really like this book and hope the author's wishes come true

It is beneficial to the growth of life, and the content is gentle in tone.

Tasting tea, it's bitter but sweet [laughing]

Suitable for highly sensitive people [laughs]

After reading this book, I finally had the courage to accept my shortcomings and admit that I am just an introverted, sensitive, naive, and stupid ordinary person. Although I am twenty years old, I am regarded as fifteen or sixteen years old, and I even regard myself as a child. I watched too many TV dramas some time ago and imagined that I could become a super entrepreneur, which led to depression. In fact, I did not accept myself. It is important to have dreams, but we must be realistic, accept our current situation, and constantly strive to get closer to it. Always look forward, accept that your progress is slower and take steps every day, as long as you are on the road. Thank you to the author for sharing the content, which has allowed many people like me to step out of the shadows and embrace their imperfect selves.

This is a book about accepting your true self and how to know yourself.

The concept is relatively positive and the content of the book is close to life and practical. It is worth reading.