Intimacy: How to Get the Love and Love You Want

A partner who is afraid of intimacy is sometimes like a fish. The more anxious you are to get close to the other person, the easier it will be for her to wander away out of fear. Maybe a better way is to be a stable mountain: don't be impatient, give her warm and firm support, and accompany her to overcome the fear in her heart. This kind of love without any sense of oppression will give the other half a sense of security.

It reveals the relationship between the opposite sex in a profound and simple way. It is very subtle and requires management, a sense of distance and a sense of proportion. Lovers are not everything in life. Good lovers can nourish each other, grow with each other and make progress together. At the same time, do not have too many expectations and suspicions about the other half. You must know that everyone is actually an independent individual with his own thoughts and opinions. When two people can come together, they are actually harmonious but different, seeking common ground while reserving differences. Only when you find a point where two people feel comfortable getting along can you feel the joy of love instead of endless internal friction and worries.

The mentioned points and solutions are really good. But I think in real life most people are products of their environment and are more prone to emotions. What we need is not only skills, but also knowledge reserves and cognition. What is needed more is patience and self-improvement.

Establish a correct view of love and emphasize equality between men and women. Both parties are independent individuals and their feelings are mutual. One-sided dedication cannot last long. Overcome inferiority, anxiety and fear, and achieve mutual success. There is no cultural inspiration

Very good, I feel this book is suitable for women!

This book is very practical! It is like a love guide, directly pointing out various pain points in love and providing corresponding suggestions. I think it can not only help single people find their way, but also allow couples in love to understand each other better, and even help frustrated people restore their relationship. Just like "The Five Love Languages" I have read before, it also has a similar theme and has benefited a lot. I believe this book will become a love guide for many people!

Intimacy has always been an important topic in life. I think I am really suitable to read this book because I am in a situation where I know little about intimacy and want to understand it, but I can't find the right person. The book writes, "We usually ignore, doubt or deny our essential self-confidence. Even though the existence of the self is more obvious, it is related to the current predicament and is deeply involved in inner dramas and obsessions. However, human nature is not affected by the existing environment or personal persistence. Therefore, the self Letters feel like emptiness, and we are afraid of this. "I simply understand this fear as people's fear of loneliness and absolutely knowing themselves. In the process of knowing oneself, loneliness is inevitable, and knowing oneself is a difficult process of self-analysis. But only by truly knowing yourself can you choose an unparalleled soul mate for yourself.

Using specific cases as a guide, we analyze the problems in detail and put forward valuable opinions. Some of them are quite inspiring! I found that many problems are fundamentally caused by inferiority complex deep inside (ﾉ_<.)🔨

Long-term pain is worse than short-term pain love yourself Everything else is just clouds and experiences It doesn't matter right or wrong

The regulations in this book are clear and there are many real-life cases, but it lacks a sense of reality.

Good book, helpful to open the book

It's worth watching, it's very inspiring to me and I learned a lot

Many case studies

Not bad. You can read it.

It's useful, keep learning, it's worth brushing up more

Good very good

Very well written and very helpful

Learn more, make more progress

It's very beautiful. It calmed down my impetuous mind.

It's very useful to me. I have little experience in love, so I don't understand many things. I really learned a lot after reading this book.

After reading it, I feel much calmer and can look at my own mood and the other person's mood calmly. But if you zoom in on the details more and open your heart, you can stay with us for a long time.