Solitude: Thoughts When Alone

Friendship will disappear. Love is not your own wings. Life must be in your own hands. The sense of security is given by yourself. You have to walk your own way to have memory and direction. Never be led by others. Never become a vassal of others. 2024.4.30 17:57

Loneliness is the carnival of one person, carnival is the loneliness of a group of people [Like][Like][Like]

Being alone can help people learn to think, calm down and find their true feelings about things, and they can also learn many principles of life and ways of living.

After reading this book, I benefited a lot. The easy-to-understand examples in the book made me understand a lot of truths. No matter what I do in the future, I have to think twice before doing anything. Especially the benefits that being alone brings to me can make people calm down, think and understand. It is very worth reading!

The first book of this year is still rooted in the heart, exploring the importance of the heart. In this complex society, understand the importance of being alone and listening to the heart, understand the necessity of separation, spend time on unnecessary things and people, focus on yourself, and enjoy being alone. We are social animals and cannot do without social interaction. We need to maintain reliable relationships appropriately, distinguish between friends and interests in a normal way, do not mix things up, and live a good life. You ask me why I do this, leaving a piece of pure land for myself. What is a friend? When you are in trouble, some people will take advantage of his behavior, and some people will keep it a secret. Protect yourself and prevent the harm from being too great. Don't forget the pain he caused you just because of a little concern. Remember, you can do things, but some people can't be close to each other. Even if you ignore or exclude you in the end, you must protect yourself. A person can be beautiful. I wish you all a safe and smooth 2026. Remember to take good care of yourself. Come on.

This book made me pretend to be myself in my heart

It is a good book about growth and maturity on the road of life, reflecting the author's in-depth thinking on what he encounters in life. [Like][Like][Like] This is a book that has greatly enlightened my life and benefited me a lot.

Maybe a person's life will be really good, from being confused at first to gradually liking to be alone later. From the beginning, parents need to give instructions on everything, and later on, you make your own choices. The world never revolves around you alone. You need to be alone and you also need to be independent. Everyone's energy is limited. And being alone is to make yourself better off. Finally, I hope that I will live better and better, and I also hope that you will live better and better.

"Solitude" is a spiritual guide written for contemporary people. It cleverly separates "solitude" from negative loneliness and reshapes it into a positive ability to nourish the soul and return to oneself. The book not only provides a psychological buffer zone to deal with the noisy world, but also guides readers to complete deep thinking and self-reconstruction in silence. In this era of over-connection, it is like a sober reminder: Learning to live with oneself is perhaps the rarest and most important self-healing power of modern people.

We know that sometimes it is difficult to make friends, and the distance between people seems very far. Some cases of intrigue have forced oneself to set up an extra line of defense. In Chinese culture, the spirit of making friends lies in "correcting mistakes and encouraging good deeds." This is the value of friends. Criticism and self-criticism, mutual correction and understanding when mistakes are made, mutual correction of mistakes or shortcomings, mutual learning and encouragement, and common development are true friends.

This book resonated with me a lot, especially after having children. We are always busy socializing and taking care of others, but rarely leave time for ourselves. The importance of solitude mentioned in the book made me realize that we also need to listen to our inner voice. Just like Thoreau found the true meaning of life at Walden Pond, we can also better understand ourselves in solitude. This book not only provides space for thinking, but also gives me the courage to try to get along with myself. I think this is a very enlightening book.

I very much agree with the author's point of view. Only when you are alone can you truly know what you want and calm down to think about what you want. The content of this book is very dialectical and allows people to learn to be alone, but it is not only necessary to be alone, but also to have friends. Getting along with friends around you will give you a different feeling. In short, one person is good, and a group of people is also good. Only when you have a rich heart can you feel true happiness.

Life is long, please leave more memories for yourself

In this impetuous social life, it is really difficult to calm down. After reading this book, I feel that it says a lot of things that we also know, but few people can do it. Knowing does not mean doing it. It takes about 21 days to form a person's habit, but it takes a long time to change a person's habit, so we all need a good attitude and good living habits

After reading this book, I have benefited a lot. I have understood the true meaning of being alone. When I am alone, I can reflect on myself, learn to accept my shortcomings and deficiencies, face my problems bravely, do not live in the past, and run forward bravely and actively...

Very real and sincere

In this book, the author uses easy-to-understand and unpretentious words to introduce us to the beauty of being alone. Although being alone is a simple word and a simple behavior, it is not so easy for modern people to be alone. Especially being alone with yourself!

Very good, worth reading. Being content and knowing where to stop is happiness.

It felt like there was a period of time just like the one described in the book, which was particularly beautiful.

Okay, give me inspiration

After reading it, I feel much more enlightened.

A good book with easy-to-understand content and good examples.

I've finished reading it. It's a very good book and worth recommending👍👍👍

Being alone is a person's carnival. I agree with this sentence. I think this book is a beacon when a person is alone. A cup of tea, a book, and a sofa are my own world.

Great article, great article, great article! ! !

This book is very good and worth owning

It's done in one go and well-founded.

Said it from the heart

Full of positive energy, I like it

Soothes one's mood