Make a Living First, Then Find Love (Hardcover)

Life is a practice. Choice is important, but giving up is also important. When you are silent in the ocean of knowledge, what you give up is the feasting and feasting in secular life, and what you get is a spiritual world full of books and extraordinary insights. Whether you choose or give up, the most important thing is to be clear about your own needs. When you come to this world to travel, you must first be worthy of yourself, then you can be worthy of your family, etc., And be willing to become the self you know best and the self you love the most. If you bloom, butterflies will come. Thousands of mountains are snowing at dusk, but the begonias remain the same. I hope not to be disturbed by the years and remain calm and sad.

Because I have been reading romance novels since I was a teenager, and I have become too involved in my own life and feelings. So I have no thinking ability, I have short-term thoughts, and I think everything is very beautiful. After going through one marriage after another, I realized that there was something wrong with my thinking. I saw Teacher Li's book on this app and realized how naive I was. After reading Teacher Li's book, although I didn't particularly understand it, I still had some insights.

Because I don't read much, I read it over and over again. The stories and examples are very simple, and they are all things in life. They are easy to understand. I thank the author and hope that I will gradually become stronger.

Be financially independent as capital, do not rely on others mentally, know how to weigh the pros and cons when encountering problems, and keep your emotions stable. Never forget to improve yourself to become a better version of yourself, and live out the person you want to be. Actions are always greater than dreams, and there is no end to down-to-earth efforts. I believe that all good things will slowly come to you, as you wish!

Ever since I approached the threshold of middle age, I began to subconsciously reject chicken soup-style articles. Reading didactic books is nutritious, but I read Teacher Li's book and benefited a lot. This book has chicken soup, but it analyzes the problem from a female perspective and gives solutions to the problem. As she said, she gave chicken soup and a spoon to drink the soup.

Read it carefully, it is very touching. When you are in your thirties, there are always some past events that linger in your mind. Along with every bit of your current life, loss, anger, and unwillingness lead to lingering thoughts and never really change. Throw away those obsessions and never forget them. I continue to enrich myself, and now it suddenly dawns on me that a truly good book is just like a kind and kind wise man checking in on the chaotic and unclear people. Learn to let yourself go, learn to reject the bad emotions that have been tied up for a long time, and make your life better and better in the future. --Thank you author!

When I saw this book accidentally, I thought it would be full of poisonous chicken soup for the soul, but after reading it carefully, I discovered that there is a new world in the book. I have been confused recently, about love and life, and after reading this book, I feel a little relieved. Yes, we must first understand ourselves and what we want, and then understand others. I hope that when we are in a period of confusion, we can all calm down and settle down.

It's very rewarding and should be read by girls of all ages. There is a lot of life wisdom in it. When you are confused about love and marriage, you should first think about what you really want. I think it is very important to think clearly about your ideal life first. Making blind choices with your eyes closed and wandering around in confusion can easily lead to a broken head. There are already a lot of injuries waiting for us in life, so it's important to cherish yourself a little!

This book is really great, and the content is also very exciting. Every time I have a quarrel with my family, I read a book. Reading can really calm down my mood quickly. People should look forward, learn to love themselves, be an elegant, confident and independent woman, and be able to live a good life without relying on others, cheer for yourself! Come on, every woman who works hard to live!

Some of the views are summarized very realistically, and the thoughts can be clarified. You can read it over and over again when you are confused.

In fact, the author has always claimed in the book that what he writes is chicken soup! But this is one of the books that made me insist on reading it. Regardless of whether it is chicken soup or not, it has an ear-splitting effect after reading it! Reading a quality book is like a collision with the author's thoughts. For me, this is a very useful book. As a perceptual little fool who has survived in this strange yet familiar world for more than thirty years, some of the author's unique insights in the book are worthy of our careful consideration and reflection! As a recommended book for women's awakening, I hope that more female friends will have the power to see the truth clearly and grow upward after reading it!

My focus is more on myself. I care about whether I am comfortable or not, far more than whether I look good or not. The positive result is that people will be comfortable only after they are comfortable. After they are comfortable, they will naturally look good. After they look good, they will tend to be confident and friendly to others, thus forming a virtuous circle of interpersonal relationships. After letting go of comparing myself with others, I discovered that many of the worries in my life came from meaningless envy and comparison. [Like][Like][Like][Like][Like][Like]

Maybe the women around the author are all very good, and they all want to marry rich men. So the starting point is a little bit that. Nowadays, many women are not fully awakened yet. They don't care about the money, they only care about his love and being nice to him, and then ugh

Women should make a living first, then seek love. True nobility does not mean being better than others, but being better than yourself in the past...

The content is super exciting and worth reading.

Really recommend! I have been listening to publishing books on Tomato for a while. I have listened to all kinds of books, and there are many good books. But this book is closer to life for me, and it gives me guidance on how to plan my confused mind and life. I have not finished listening to it yet, so I will finish it first, and then I will read the whole book slowly and carefully several times.

This book is very relevant to life and resonates with people. It is one of my favorite books to read this month. If you are confused, I strongly recommend - "First make a living, then find love". At any time, make a living first, never forget your original self, live towards the sun, and continue to grow, this is the essence of life...

I especially like her description of independent women, which emphasizes the importance of self-excellence and inner strength. Moreover, some of the methods and techniques in the book are also very practical, just like a bonus spoon, which can benefit people a lot. However, it would be better if there were more specific cases! All in all, I highly recommend this book!

Telling the voices and dilemmas of many women, girls must learn to grow up!

It is well written, not just chicken soup for the soul, but a practical and useful guide for women.

This book contains friendship, love, growth, success, happiness, etc., And enlightens us in the areas we care about most. We cannot be the heroine of the world, but we can strive to be the second heroine, the heroine in our own world. Make peace with yourself, fall in love with yourself.

I like it so much. This is the second time I have read this book. Women must learn to make a living first and then find love.

Every time I read the author's book, I can't stop reading it. The content is rich and beautiful. Worth reading.

I really like reading the author's book. The examples in the book are both close to our lives and easy to understand. The language is very warm and makes people naturally feel empowered. Thank you😊

I agree in some places, but when it comes to love, I still don't agree. It's still too much chicken soup.

Very interesting, very rewarding

Real and objective, touching a lot, 10 more times

Learned a lot and benefited a lot I hope we can all love ourselves well, find our true self, and not lose ourselves in love. If you are in deep adversity now, I hope you will always have a positive heart. You don't have to be an excellent person. Being yourself is the coolest thing. Know that you are worth it!

A very practical book that has benefited a lot.

It gives many meanings that women need to work hard, not for anything else but for themselves to bloom like a flower! Women don't only have love, they also have to work hard to live a more exciting life!