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Explore more →A Book Where You Can Learn Real Skills
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Increase Knowledge and Improve Your Own Books
Books about architecture, computers, etc., Don't be emotional.
Books That Students Should Read, In-Volume Essentials
Mathematics, Chinese, English, chemistry, physics, biology, geography, history, ancient poetry...
Nobel Prize for Literature, Mao Dun Literature Prize, Lu Xun Literature Prize and Other Literary Works
I want to read a book similar to "One Sentence is Worth Ten Thousand Sentences: Collector's Edition".
Easy-To-Understand Learning Technology Books
Masterpiece! ! ! a Chinese and Foreign Classic Book! ! !
Literary Masterpiece, (ㆁωㆁ)
I Beg You to Read Secretly During the Summer Vacation, and Book That Will Kill Your Classmates at the Beginning of the School Year.
Psychology! ! I Really Like It, Please Read It! Girls Like Psychology
I want to read a book like "Murphy's Law: Learn a little bit of psychology every day". Please recommend some psychological articles. I really like them. I hope to recommend some psychological books. I really like to read them. Please, guys! ! !
A Book That Can Help You Learn and Increase Your Knowledge
Knowledge that can increase (useful, practical), interesting and not boring
I Read Secretly During the Holidays and Became Obsessed with My Classmates' Books.
I would like to read a book similar to "How to Read a Book".
What Are Some Books to Improve Your Emotional Intelligence and Speaking Skills?
"The joys and sorrows of our day often depend on our words and interactions."
Why Not Read Classics?
Recommend some good books that are meaningful, influential and well-written.
Worth Reading Literary Works
Keep it for the record and look at it again when you have time.
Full of Useful Information: All-Round Learning Book
I Want a Book with Frequent Golden Sentences
The author writes very well in this book, every sentence is full of copywriting
Learning Books
It's the kind that has depth and can be seen through.
The Protagonist Is a Big Luo Jinxian, and Was Found by the Survival Game
It's better to have more words!
It's a Very Healing and Quiet Book to Read.
Have You Ever Read a Book That Allows You to Gamble Your Life with Qi Xia?
I want to read a book similar to "Game Theory".
I Want to Study (Internal Volume), Please Recommend a Book
High Emotional Intelligence Speaking Skills
I want to see content similar to "Be a woman with good eloquence and high emotional intelligence". Is there a book with high emotional intelligence that can be used in various situations?
Learning Books
If you are tired of reading romance, just read it to learn. Everything is OK. Focus on learning! ! !























































































It really explains the causes of the psychological problems of depression very clearly! I have never read such a good book, "The Wind in the Willows". I read it many times when I was a child. At that time, I did not discover the psychological problems of toads or badgers. This book successfully taught me how to face my own self-blame, grievance, resentment and discomfort. It helped me stop panicking and learn to look at things rationally. This is really a good book!
It's a good book. After reading it, I felt relieved, as if I had let go of something. Mr. Frog has lived a better life, and I should also try hard to read the book. It's very heartwarming [Like] It's really good
It's a good book. We must learn to reconcile with the past and ourselves. The game of life is about trying different ways of playing. Sometimes I feel really weak. I feel that I am a little bit similar to a toad, but most of them are not the same. But you can learn some ways to deal with things from it.
I hope all patients with depression can come out of it. It is a very good book. I am also a patient with depression. After reading this book, it caused a lot of reflection. The more I read it, the more interesting it became.
A great book, better than I expected. The story of the book is very exciting. I was a little confused at the beginning, but in the end, the conversation between Mr. Toad and the heron and the gathering of friends made me very happy after reading it, and I also understood a lot *^_^*
Thanks! Watching it helped me a lot. I watched it in parts, and I finished it in a few days. It is best to watch it in the dead of night when everyone is quiet! The most touching thing is that it's good for me and it's good for you!
This book is really interesting. It is narrated in a conversational style. From the beginning, Toad experienced depression and low self-esteem, child psychology, to the final self-confidence and generosity. The coordinates of life, "I am good, you are good", are inner emotions that do not need to be explained. From the beginning, he was afraid of the other person's denial, strict, and the please-pleaser personality was afraid of the other person's anger. He used his funny behavior to create fun for others. In the end, he dared to refuse and was not afraid of denial. After changing his mind, he discovered that life is also very interesting, and many things are not actually what he thought.
This book is narrated in the form of a fairy tale, but in fact it has profound meanings of life. It gradually and deeply guides us to think about our current positioning, make breakthroughs after determining our positioning, bravely choose what we want to do, and provide guidance for some future behaviors. In addition, we also need to pay attention to some details in daily interactions, learn to listen, learn to be tolerant, and learn to treat everyone around us with a life attitude that is good for me and good for you. This will not only help promote the development of interpersonal relationships between individuals and others, but also benefit personal physical and mental development. A very cute and in-depth book!
A friend casually recommended it and I watched it right away. I was very touched while watching it. I can sympathize with Toad's depression. Many of Heron's words deeply shocked me. I really like the dialogue between the two, which can always create some profound insights that hit the depths of my soul. Seeing Toad change little by little and get out of depression and become brave and mature, I would be so happy that I would be moved to tears. This is a powerful book that can help people clear away the fog and walk out of the haze and heal people's hearts. It is worth reading again and again.
At first, I saw it while watching videos, and then the sister talked very well, so I came to watch it. But when I first watched it, I actually couldn't understand it. But as time went by, I slowly started to understand it a little bit. There were some things that I felt I could relate to when I watched it. When the psychiatrist was enlightening the toad, he was actually enlightening me. I think it's very beautiful and worth watching. Well, I can let my heart relax slowly and slowly like Mr. Toad.
This is a great book and I learned three things 1. Child status 2. Parent status 3. Adult state When you become a child, you can only cry, surrender, and be someone else's slave. When you become an adult you can only be a normal person And when you become a parent you can blame the whole world! I can abuse and reprimand others without restraint. This is the life I want and the goal I strive for!
It's very healing, very warm, and also very joyful to watch. This is a good book, without gorgeous words but full of emotions. During several interviews with Mr. Toad and Dr. Heron, I gradually came to know myself. Maybe loving myself is the first important thing I need to learn, take it easy and live a life full of hope. I hope everyone can pursue the things they love
This book is really good. I cried when I read it. A true friend is one who does not sarcastically embarrass others, does not slander others with words, and Toad comforts his good friends every time, even though they are the ones who hurt him with their words [almost crying]
A very good psychological healing book! It happened to save me when I was most depressed and anxious! Grateful! I have learned a lot and tell myself every day: Get rid of the "Hello. I'm not good" state, and don't force yourself to have too many bad emotions! I feel like I'm pushing myself hard every day! Maybe I should slow down and take a look. No need to follow along like that. If you fall behind, you will fall behind for a while. Adjust the back and then follow up. Try to let yourself learn "It's good for me, and it's good for you"! Come on💪 Still need to study! Need a second brush! Recommended to start! I hope everyone who is anxious right now can come across this book. Let it heal you!
Now that I have read part of it, I feel very deeply. Because this novel can really make me think deeply, heal and guide me, and let me unconsciously assume the role of Mr. Toad. I can truly realize and think about many of my emotional shortcomings here. My own sensitive injuries and shortcomings, and the various scars left behind, are really taken into account here. The author's description is so wonderful that it can easily make people immersive and trigger a series of thoughts.
I have the patience to continue reading, and I have read to the end. The most impressive thing among them may be the child state, the parent state, and the adult state. Although sometimes in real life it is not that simple, just like the life of a toad. Maybe I have not read any fairy tales like The Wind in the Willows, but but , this is really the basic state. Once it is clear, you will build more social common sense and social skills on this basis. It is very cool. In this work, after the characters of several small animals, river rats, weasels, and old men are added, the instillation of psychological knowledge is not so rigid. I like it very much.
It took me two or three days to read it carefully and I was very moved. I opened this book based on the situation I faced myself. The humorous language and unique characters made me very patient to read on, and the concepts involved in the article were also understood with various appropriate metaphors that were very easy to understand. The problems of each character and the content of each interview made me realize the nature of what I had never thought of or had a vague awareness of. Even if it is not enough to solve all bad situations, I already have some support after reading this book and thinking about it. Bless everyone to become a complete adult.
This book is great, really great. It shows many features in the form of a story. After reading it, I decided to buy the paper version as a collection. First, as a quasi-psychological counselor, I can roughly understand what counseling is like, learn the inquiry skills, and also learn new psychological knowledge. Secondly, the heron asked the toad, I think many times I can put myself on the toad's body, recall my own life, and then ask myself, which will help improve myself. Third, I have re-understood the meaning of "emotional intelligence". I think there will be a relatively more accurate direction for improving emotional intelligence in the future. Fourth, by analyzing the self-state of people around you, you can come up with relatively correct ways of coping. Benefited a lot! Thanks for this book.
I would like to call it a must-read for contemporary people. The character of Mr. Toad alludes to most people in real life. It advances the story through dialogue and asks people to think. It shows us Mr. Toad's transformation from "I'm not good, you are good" to "I am good, you are good". At the same time, it also interestingly narrates the knowledge of psychology through the character of Cangjiu.
This is a gentle and simple psychological healing fairy tale. Combining psychological knowledge with fairy tales, we can understand part of the knowledge of psychology while watching relaxed and cheerful fairy tales, find ourselves from it, and seem to be doing a psychological consultation and inner exploration for ourselves. The three core concepts in the book: child ego state, parent ego state, and adult ego state impressed me deeply, and I felt that I could apply it to each of us to carry out our own state projects. Another particularly deep impression is the theory of life coordinates and games. Using the coordinate system allows us to easily understand the causal relationship corresponding to each state, and it seems that we can perform mathematical reasoning. Mr. Toad's state changes from obedience at the beginning to repetition and resistance at the end, and he finally finds his goal in life. It is a warm and inspiring fairy tale that is also very healing.
Acceptance is the best medicine to save a person. Any drama about suffering must be a false script that is illusory and disillusioning until it is well and truly understood. When one day I can truly treat myself with a peaceful mind will reconcile with this world Everyone's edges and corners should be respected It should also exist generously Gentle and firm response is the best channel to happiness May we all express ourselves freely do what you want Dare to be your true self and you will receive more respect!
Every character in the book is vivid and unique, just like us in life. Everyone is his own protagonist, not someone else's foil. Although Mr. Toad is the main line of the story in the book, his friends are also very delicately portrayed, and they are people with different personalities. Everyone has their own personality, there is no distinction between good and bad. The biggest gain is the sentence "I am good, and you are good" in the book. When everyone envy others, others also envy you. Don't feel inferior, don't be inward. Love yourself, love yourself first and then love others.
The descriptions are very realistic and humanely complex. Each animal has a character arc and a complex and diverse personality. It can be well introduced and understood. Maybe we also experience their doubts and troubles, and we can be healed by reading this book.
It's beautiful and will make me think about my own situation. Maybe I will read it again one day, but obviously this book is worth it.
This book is really good to read, but I didn't get a deep understanding of some of the emotions. When Mr. Toad went to see a psychiatrist, I was also thinking about the same problem, and there seemed to be other confusions. However, I am not in a hurry. Slowly exploring myself is the ultimate goal. I recommend it!
Mr. Toad went to see a psychiatrist. It's a very empathetic book. When you can't hold on, you may find unexpected surprises if you open it and read it. In life, you have to learn to decompress yourself. If you can't get out of your inner haze or step out of the so-called strange circle, you have to open it and read it. This book is for those who dare not express themselves. The idea is that it is a self-rescue for people who are trying to get rid of the character formed by their original family. Sometimes it is not the matter itself that determines the matter, but your attitude and state of mind towards it. I hope everyone who reads this book can find their own poetic world and "be themselves".
This is a very good book. I started reading it yesterday and finished it today. Although I don't remember much of the content in the book after reading it, I plan to take notes. I think I can better understand myself by using the knowledge in this book.
Especially suitable for those who suffer from internal friction, I would like to share a few sentences that I think I like in this book: 1. You don't have to accept emotions when they come. Try to reject them. 2. When getting along with others, allow yourself to be yourself, allow others to be others, and seek common ground while reserving differences. 3. People who are truly emotionally intelligent and in an adult state have very strong self-awareness, can manage their emotions well, and can get over sadness and frustration. What is even more valuable is that they know how to restrain impulse and delay gratification. 4. Although destiny may sometimes be destroyed by flying stones and arrows, I believe that there are more flowers of water and trees, and the lovely ones are even sweeter.
The concept is clear and step-by-step. It is a very good book. It gave me a new understanding and understanding of psychology and human nature. From almost ten or so interviews, from childhood to now. Every day and every stage has different gains and insights. Different stages have different thoughts and ideas. Live your life seriously, no matter what you do, you will have some regrets. It is impossible for people to have youth and the perception of youth at the same time. The best time is now. Only your knowledge and your abilities will not betray you.
After reading it, it is humorous and interesting, and the narrative is told from the perspective of a toad in an anthropomorphic way. From a bad state to a final recovery state, we learn from each other during the conversation and begin to understand the factors in our own behavior.