Highly Difficult Conversations: Advanced Edition of "Can Talk to Anyone"

Reading books is a kind of dialogue with the spirit. Those things are worth changing. Those things we did not do before, reflect on ourselves and learn to deal with others better. This book is about not being afraid to communicate, trusting others, learning to listen, finding a sense of security to communicate, and respecting other people's opinions. Everyone has independent thoughts, and there are deviations in output during integration. You can learn to listen and retain your own opinions. After all, we have different education, growing environments, and social backgrounds, and we look at problems differently. Standing from the other person's perspective and having multiple perspectives, you can also maintain your good emotions and agree with the other person's ideas. Instead of forgetting your own ideas, it may be correct to stand from his perspective.

I think the author's ideas about maintaining interpersonal relationships are very helpful and inspiring to me. Especially you can't change others, you can only change yourself. You can influence other people's opinions and behaviors of you through your own changes. Human energy is limited, and it is impossible to value everyone equally. When time is limited, you have to choose things that you value more to maintain the relationships and feelings that you think are the most important. I hope my interpersonal relationships will get better and better~😇

There are many effective methods mentioned in it, which are of great benefit. When facing difficult conversations, be sincere, be able to listen, and don't try to change others. You can only change yourself and influence others. Learn to handle your emotions and don't let them become a trigger that makes the conversation difficult. To prioritize relationships, don't neglect your truly important relationships for the sake of less important relationships. Learn to communicate in different ways with people of different personalities. When listening, try to understand the other person rather than trying to convince them. Take the initiative to seek feedback from close family and friends and respond to feedback to improve yourself. Be a kind person and be kind. Keep your family in mind. Learn to respect others. There are many more, and the book talks about many effective methods.

This book is really useful! The author Mike Bechtel is a great person and he shares many communication skills in the book. As the book says, "Effective communication is the key to healthy relationships." I feel that learning these skills can make my communication with others smoother. Moreover, the book also teaches us how to chat with various difficult people, such as people who want to quarrel whenever we talk. I think this is very helpful to me. I recommend you read this book too!

A must-have for Sheniu, a Bagua artifact

People have different direct individual differences. Only when facing difficulties can communication solve problems.

It seemed like he said something, but also seemed like he didn't say anything at all.

Difficult conversations require certain skills.