In the same situation, different ways of speaking will have completely different effects. In this case, why not choose "a way of speaking that benefits yourself"?
This book adopts the method of specific scenarios + examples to explain in detail the two ways of speaking that have completely opposite effects of "benefit" and "loss" in situations such as work, love, family, and making friends. And 15 speech templates are selected from them. Just apply them and you can easily change your interpersonal relationships!
By transforming "impaired ways of speaking" into "beneficial ways of speaking", bad interpersonal relationships can be improved and new opportunities will be ushered in. Whether you are learning "profitable ways of speaking" or recognizing your "impaired ways of speaking," this book can help you.
In addition, this book also specifically conducts questionnaire surveys based on people aged 20-60. Each speaking skill has a corresponding favorability and dislike index, which is of great reference value.
Reader comments
The same meaning, different expressions, give people different feelings. When we express it in a better way, it can make people feel like a spring breeze.
We usually don't even notice some of the ways we speak, but after reading this book, we discovered that as long as you change the way you speak, you can make people more willing to communicate with you, and at the same time, you won't offend them.
The way of expression in this book is very simple, which makes people understand it at a glance. The arrangement form is also very simple and relaxed.
No matter which country you are in, the way you speak is important. This book is very down-to-earth, and most of the cases in it have been encountered in my own life. I still feel that my own language has damaged me more often, and I have never considered this issue before. Grateful
It's very specific, and the examples are concise and clear. I'm not good at interpersonal communication. I hope that through this kind of book, I can greatly improve myself. It's hard to change your habits, but if you try slowly, you will definitely be able to change them! Come on.
I have slowly felt the importance of language since I entered society. Why is EQ said to be more important than IQ? The charm of language and logical expression is everywhere. If a person's way of talking can make people feel like spring breeze, I think his popularity will not be much worse. Why do we have no friends and do not have good relationships with others? I think most of the reasons lie in our usual way of speaking and conversation. I have many problems myself, and I need to change them!
This book is really practical! I especially like the content about speaking skills. Just like what the book says, just changing the way you speak can make a huge difference in how you feel. I feel that I am the second type of person. I speak too directly. I need to learn more methods from books in the future. Moreover, the book also mentioned many cases, which allowed me to understand more clearly what to do. My favorite character is the author. I feel like he understands the troubles of us housewives very well.
Like a mirror, it shows my shortcomings
Oh, oh, oh, you can fix the way I speak.
Helpful, improving
Many of the contents in this book provide guidance and learning for my current life. Some of them are not applicable, but you can also read them and draw parallels.
The same meaning, different expressions, give people different feelings. When we express it in a better way, it can make people feel like a spring breeze. We usually don't even notice some of the ways we speak, but after reading this book, we discovered that as long as you change the way you speak, you can make people more willing to communicate with you, and at the same time, you won't offend them. The way of expression in this book is very simple, which makes people understand it at a glance. The arrangement form is also very simple and relaxed.
No matter which country you are in, the way you speak is important. This book is very down-to-earth, and most of the cases in it have been encountered in my own life. I still feel that my own language has damaged me more often, and I have never considered this issue before. Grateful
It's very specific, and the examples are concise and clear. I'm not good at interpersonal communication. I hope that through this kind of book, I can greatly improve myself. It's hard to change your habits, but if you try slowly, you will definitely be able to change them! Come on.
I have slowly felt the importance of language since I entered society. Why is EQ said to be more important than IQ? The charm of language and logical expression is everywhere. If a person's way of talking can make people feel like spring breeze, I think his popularity will not be much worse. Why do we have no friends and do not have good relationships with others? I think most of the reasons lie in our usual way of speaking and conversation. I have many problems myself, and I need to change them!
This book is really practical! I especially like the content about speaking skills. Just like what the book says, just changing the way you speak can make a huge difference in how you feel. I feel that I am the second type of person. I speak too directly. I need to learn more methods from books in the future. Moreover, the book also mentioned many cases, which allowed me to understand more clearly what to do. My favorite character is the author. I feel like he understands the troubles of us housewives very well.
Like a mirror, it shows my shortcomings
Oh, oh, oh, you can fix the way I speak.
Helpful, improving
Many of the contents in this book provide guidance and learning for my current life. Some of them are not applicable, but you can also read them and draw parallels.