Are you a princess? If you marry into my Wei family, you will have to restrain your temperament and take care of your husband and your children.
Are you a daughter? If you marry into my Wei family, you will have to give up extravagance and change into luxury, and be diligent and thrifty in running the household.
The standard diaosi soul travels through the Tang Dynasty, plays with beauties, stirs up the storm, plays chess with emperors, fights with powerful ministers, beauties in the country, between the palms...
A very nice book