Sanmao: Choose a Posture and Live Irreplaceably

I admire Sanmao very much and long for her life. Her heart is always like a child, lively and happy, and like an old man, steady, dignified and broad. I hope Sanmao can be happy in another world!

The first half of Chen Ping's life was like purgatory on earth, but happiness did not last long, and death may not be a relief. She can control her own destiny, but she cannot prevent death from coming to her lover. She had too much sadness and pain that was not understood and was turned into thousands of words. All she got in return was contempt and slander from the world. Chen Ping is also lucky. She has a father who has many good relationships, laying the foundation for her career and future; she has a tender mother who complains very little and only understands and supports Chen Ping; she has many close friends who are able to express her depression; she is talented and beautiful, attracting many people to "praise without comment". In the end, she decided to leave quietly and take control of her own death.

The writing is unpretentious and the content is engaging. The more I read, the more I want to know more about Sanmao's life. The loneliness that no one understands since childhood is heartbreaking. The simple and pure love with Jose is both enviable and regrettable at the same time. Life is always imperfect. Sanmao followed his heart and completed his life. I want to cry but I can't. Today happens to be January 4, 2022, 31 years since Sanmao passed away. I wish all people in the world can find their own destiny and stay together for a lifetime.

She has read poetry and books all her life and is loyal to love. I envy her parents and family who love her so much. She has lived an intellectual, sexy and extraordinary life.

After understanding Sanmao's life, my heart became calm. I can't express it but it seems that there are thousands of words in my heart. It's a pity that I don't have Sanmao's talent. I only have a sensitive and passionate heart like her.

San Mao, one of my favorite writers in high school. Reading her books was very relaxing, sincere and open-minded. However, as a young and ignorant person, I did not learn these excellent qualities. I just felt like her person and writing style. Free and willful. A woman with a wide range of friends, profound knowledge, and the wind.

This book tells the story of Sanmao's life, from an immature girl to a mature person and then to the vicissitudes of life. Each chapter is a portrayal of our lives. Cherish the people in front of you and cherish life. Every time I think of you, a grain of sand falls from the sky, and the Sahara is formed!

The moment she lost Jose, she might have had the idea of ​​committing suicide, but she still felt guilty about her parents and the guilt that Jose had waited for her for six years. She was waiting for a time, a time for her to let go of her parents and Jose... Be kind to every friend and relative around you, but forget about yourself... Are you and him reunited? [Almost crying]

The clouds are in the blue sky and the moon is bright; her life was originally a breeze and a bright moon. Coming from a scholarly family, she has been quiet and focused since she was a child, showing her ladylike qualities; however, a teacher and a man from a foreign land turned everything upside down, and her life was covered with There is a touch of tragedy; it can be said that Sanmao spent her life traveling all over the world, but she lived out her own attitude every day of her life, just like Heidegger's philosophy of living toward death. After traveling through thousands of rivers and mountains, she is still Sanmao.

Sanmao's life was lucky and bumpy. Fortunately, she had the love of her parents, relatives and friends. Unfortunately, she kept experiencing the death of her relatives and suffered from illness. I admire her bravery, talent, and independence, and respect her last choice. Now she and Jose should be living happily in another world.

The book introduces Sanmao's life, two marriages and three suicides. I think these are some important events that everyone knows about Sanmao. I didn't understand Sanmao very well before. His parents are cheerful, and his siblings are very considerate. They never criticize him harshly. He can do whatever he wants at home, so why is he still unhappy? Later I learned that Sanmao is sensitive and delicate, and happiness is easy but also difficult for him. Perhaps because of the time when he was autistic when he was young, he always dared to love and hate, and was not afraid of the world. This is the most admirable thing about him.

This book tells the reader about San Mao's life very completely, I like it very much! San Mao has an inexplicable charm that makes me particularly fond of her. I like her sensitive self-esteem, her bravery and independence, her maverickness, her learning ability and literary literacy, her wide circle of friends, her compassion, and her discovery of beauty in scavenging. But she was always lonely, probably because she became wise earlier and was too young to bear a period of depression. Her life was rough, but she was also happy. Her life was not broad but deep. She made friends, learned languages ​​from various countries, had loving and enlightened parents, a doting husband who gave her happiness, and was loved by many people. She also tried her best to treat her friends well. I can only say that human personality is very complex, and the reasons for suicide cannot be guessed and understood. I can only say that it is out of respect. I read it as a gift from a friend. Sahara's story fell in love with Sanmao's. I really like that kind of writing.

Life is a never-ending journey. Fortunately, we can choose our destination. Sanmao said goodbye to us in a hurry, leaving the world with endless memories and sighs. A rebellious childhood flies freely in the sea of ​​books; a young man thirsty for knowledge nourishes and grows in art; a middle-aged man chasing his dreams writes legends while exploring. To live and die for love may have been Sanmao's destiny. She was strong. Faced with the departure of her beloved ones one after another, she committed suicide several times to seek relief, but she still danced with her brushstrokes, turned grief into strength, and weaved dreamy fairy tales to the world. She hesitated, hesitated, and was reluctant to give up. Love, family affection, and friendship were always lingering around her, mending her broken heart, giving her the courage to live again and again, supporting her to sing while walking, feeling extremely happy and lucky. The beauty and sadness of the world are combined in one body, and the story is destined to not have a happy ending. I think that in another world, Sanmao joins hands with his lover Jose and rushes to new mountains and seas.

I choked up while reading... I read Sanmao's complete works intermittently in high school. At that time, I didn't understand why Sanmao chose to commit suicide to end her life despite her superior conditions and relatives and friends who loved her. Now that I have read this book, I have a new understanding of Sanmao's situation and life. At this moment, I seem to feel the twists and turns in Sanmao's life and her later helplessness in life. Perhaps ending her own life in her own way is the most romantic and happy way for her to pursue Jose... "Love once amazed her life, but in the end it couldn't withstand this torn silk fate. It only allowed her to blossom but not bear fruit. What she wanted to do was just be an ordinary woman, but it never came to fruition."

This book depicts Sanmao's life according to the timeline. In my opinion she is brave, kind, free and powerful. "People cannot understand life without experiencing long nights of crying." Her life was full of ups and downs with a certain tragic color. It was these ups and downs that gave her the courage to face life and destiny with increasing frustration. "Being in a barren desert, my heart is full of flowers." During her life in the desert, she gave lectures to Saharan women and treated them, painting the desolate life with bright colors and treating everyone with a kind soul. When I took a closer look at it in my spare time, I discovered that Sanmao's spiritual world was so rich.

The book introduces Sanmao's life, two marriages and three suicides. I think these are some important events that everyone knows about Sanmao. I didn't understand Sanmao very well before. His parents are cheerful, and his siblings are very considerate. They never criticize him harshly. He can do whatever he wants at home, so why is he still unhappy? Later I learned that Sanmao is sensitive and delicate, and happiness is easy but also difficult for him. Perhaps because of the time when he was autistic when he was young, he always dared to love and hate, and was not afraid of the world. This is the most admirable thing about him.

Sanmao's life was darkened by her junior high school math teacher. But it also gave me a life of freedom. Sanmao was happy because of Jose for 6 years, but she also believed that he would be miserable for the rest of his life. Sanmao committed suicide three times due to suffering, and he wrote many wonderful articles as a result. There are no detours in life, if not for taking the wrong path. We can't meet the lake behind the mountain or the Jose of our own life path.

The first time I read San Mao's book, it was the darkest moment of my life. I was defrauded of my real estate by an acquaintance, my depression recurred, and my old mother was paralyzed in bed. In order to prevent myself from being immersed in these bad emotions, I often visited the bookstore and accidentally saw San Mao's "How Many Flowers Fall in Dreams". As I read, I was fascinated by San Mao's words and felt her fate. Ups and downs, she cried for her love with Jose, and vented my emotions through her words, so I bought her book when I saw it. Her words seemed to have magic power, giving me an outlet for my emotions, and I seemed to draw strength from her words. Whether it is good or bad, it will eventually become a thing of the past. Time is the best doctor and will heal our wounds. She seems to have been pursuing her whole life, pursuing beautiful love, pursuing the original beauty of nature, and pursuing simple feelings between people. Isn't this what people have been pursuing all their lives?

I like this book very much. When I read it, I always wanted to cry because of Sanmao's experience. I appreciate Sanmao's bravery and uniqueness. She is like a flower blooming in the rain. She never bows to fate and insists on being herself.

It is easy to choose a posture, but it is difficult to live according to the chosen posture. Faced with the hardships of life again and again, Sanmao did not choose to escape, but faced them with strength. The shadow of childhood, the madness of chasing love, the happiness of marriage and the separation of life and death... Made her collapse every time. Fortunately, her parents accompanied her, supported her, comforted her, encouraged her, and were always by her side. The ones she should be grateful for most were her parents. I like Sanmao's independence and strength, and even more like her attitude towards death!

Let people understand Sanmao's life again. Sanmao, who has been exposed to literature since she was a child, was tortured by her junior high school mathematics teacher in her teenage years, which planted the seeds of melancholy in her heart. Sanmao's life was brave, strong, and lucky. She was surrounded by love and bravely pursued her life!

The Sanmao in the novel is affectionate and righteous, and she can follow the other person without hesitation for the sake of love. Although there were several relationships where she was entrusted to other people, fortunately, the appearance of Jose healed her. Jose's departure was hard to cope with. . . May you in heaven continue the fate of your past and present lives

No matter how good your parents, sisters, brothers, husbands (wives) are, they cannot understand your loneliness!

Sometimes I really envy Sanmao. She has parents who consider her own emotions and can bravely do what she likes.

Sanmao followed her heart from beginning to end and worked hard to live the way she wanted. She dedicated her life to freedom, and this was true until the end of her life. She didn't want to live a restricted life, so she sometimes seemed very willful. It was this unique personality that created her legendary life.

This book has a clear context and concise and moving language. It tells Sanmao's life experience, including joy and sorrow, moments of pride and sadness. The article is interspersed with literary figures and related deeds related to Chen Ping, which is worth reading.

This book made me see a different Sanmao, and her story is touching. The author's writing is witty and humorous, making me feel like I'm chatting with Sanmao. This reminds me of "The Story of the Sahara". They both show Sanmao's freedom and ease. I like Sanmao very much. I admire her strength and optimism. In contrast, I don't really like the tragic women mentioned in the book. Their stories are too sad. However, it also makes me appreciate my current life more.

Recalling this, I suddenly burst into tears. What is love? Why is it so bitter and painful? As long as I can still hold it, I will not give up until I die, and I will be willing to die.

She has experienced the coldest humanity, but finally received a warm heart. As she matures, she lives in love and heals the wounds she suffered in the first half of her life. She left without regrets, she just went to another world to find Jose.

When I was in junior high school, I read her "Sahara Desert" and was attracted by Sanmao's bravery and kindness. At that time, I couldn't understand the love between her and Jose. Now that I am almost 40 years old, I read San Mao's works again, and I have a deeper understanding. A woman who boldly pursues the life she wants, is brave, independent, dares to love and hate, and has a tragic life, her loyal love with Jose... As the story goes up and down, my mood also rises and falls. At one point, I felt like vomiting because of Jose's departure, and I almost suffocated because I couldn't breathe.