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After all, Zhenai. Com understands the art of language. Many cruel facts are easier to accept through the processing of language. It is worthy of being a professional player, and it has a firm grasp of the audience's psychology.
As an organization for professional matchmakers, Zhenai. Com has endorsed the content of the book with big data. With the support of big data and massive experience, this book has enlightenment and practical guidance.
From the perspective of male reading experience, many contents in the book have a female flavor, but this is not a problem. I think it is a manifestation of gender asymmetry in book writing.
The differences between men and women are by no means due to acquired discipline as some views say. In other words, acquired differences between the sexes are an extension of the innate differences between the sexes in the objective world under the influence of historical, political, economic, cultural and other factors.
Personally, I am not used to pleasing women. In other words, except for some men with special talents and special circumstances, most men do not have the skills to please women - after all, men and women are born different, and their perception and experience of the world are even more different.
Even with gender reassignment surgery now available, it still doesn't allow any transgender person to truly understand how their changed gender perceives and experiences the world. Therefore, whether men learn to please women or women learn to please men, it is the result of nurture.
It's just that women are born to be emotionally sensitive in relationships, and it's easier to learn to please men, while men are naturally slow in this regard, and it's more difficult to learn. People often talk about empathy. When a person learns to please the opposite sex, then he/she already has the preliminary empathy skills.
This is also the reason why people who are good at dating do well. After all, to put it bluntly, the world is made up of people, and people of the same sex have already graduated on the road to learning to please the opposite sex. Ingratiation is the basis for establishing trust in the exchange of interests. If you know how to please, have trust, and go smoothly with the exchange, you will naturally not do badly.
Closer to home, flattery goes both ways. One-way flattery cannot be accommodated downwards, and failure to do so willingly will naturally lay the foundation for disharmony.
As the saying goes, when two people fall in love, at least one person knows that it is not an accident.
I finished reading "The Perfect Single" by the author [Zhenai. Com] at 11:50 on June 22, 2024. This book currently has a score of 8.4.
This book explains the psychology of love using real cases from Zhenai. Com, which resonates with me very much. Just like Maggie in "I May Not Love You", many girls understand that the so-called "pure friendship" is just an excuse for ambiguity. The ideas in the book are sharp and refreshing. It is also very inspiring for me as a newly married person, and it makes me understand better how to maintain a good marriage relationship. Recommended to all girls!
The only bad thing is that the catalog is not ready, so I can only read one book! But the content is closest to the facts, with many examples and easy to understand! Very interesting!
Summary: If you find someone who likes you, there won't be so many pressing matters, regardless of gender.
It is a very practical book, and many of the mistakes I made have been made by me. I have learned from it and will read it again carefully when I have time.
Gender relations is an important course.
After all, Zhenai. Com understands the art of language. Many cruel facts are easier to accept through the processing of language. It is worthy of being a professional player, and it has a firm grasp of the audience's psychology. As an organization for professional matchmakers, Zhenai. Com has endorsed the content of the book with big data. With the support of big data and massive experience, this book has enlightenment and practical guidance. From the perspective of male reading experience, many contents in the book have a female flavor, but this is not a problem. I think it is a manifestation of gender asymmetry in book writing. The differences between men and women are by no means due to acquired discipline as some views say. In other words, acquired differences between the sexes are an extension of the innate differences between the sexes in the objective world under the influence of historical, political, economic, cultural and other factors. Personally, I am not used to pleasing women. In other words, except for some men with special talents and special circumstances, most men do not have the skills to please women - after all, men and women are born different, and their perception and experience of the world are even more different. Even with gender reassignment surgery now available, it still doesn't allow any transgender person to truly understand how their changed gender perceives and experiences the world. Therefore, whether men learn to please women or women learn to please men, it is the result of nurture. It's just that women are born to be emotionally sensitive in relationships, and it's easier to learn to please men, while men are naturally slow in this regard, and it's more difficult to learn. People often talk about empathy. When a person learns to please the opposite sex, then he/she already has the preliminary empathy skills. This is also the reason why people who are good at dating do well. After all, to put it bluntly, the world is made up of people, and people of the same sex have already graduated on the road to learning to please the opposite sex. Ingratiation is the basis for establishing trust in the exchange of interests. If you know how to please, have trust, and go smoothly with the exchange, you will naturally not do badly. Closer to home, flattery goes both ways. One-way flattery cannot be accommodated downwards, and failure to do so willingly will naturally lay the foundation for disharmony. As the saying goes, when two people fall in love, at least one person knows that it is not an accident.
I finished reading "The Perfect Single" by the author [Zhenai. Com] at 11:50 on June 22, 2024. This book currently has a score of 8.4.
This book explains the psychology of love using real cases from Zhenai. Com, which resonates with me very much. Just like Maggie in "I May Not Love You", many girls understand that the so-called "pure friendship" is just an excuse for ambiguity. The ideas in the book are sharp and refreshing. It is also very inspiring for me as a newly married person, and it makes me understand better how to maintain a good marriage relationship. Recommended to all girls!
The only bad thing is that the catalog is not ready, so I can only read one book! But the content is closest to the facts, with many examples and easy to understand! Very interesting!
Summary: If you find someone who likes you, there won't be so many pressing matters, regardless of gender.
It is a very practical book, and many of the mistakes I made have been made by me. I have learned from it and will read it again carefully when I have time. Gender relations is an important course.
Awesome👍🏻, makes sense