May You Not Have to Please Anyone

In fact, excessive self-reflection will not bring progress Advantages and disadvantages are never absolute and cannot be separated clearly. In a sense, the advantages are the disadvantages. In the same way, right and wrong are not absolute. When a certain critical point is reached, right and wrong may alternate. Truth is only valid for a certain period of time. Many times it is not us who make mistakes. If a person who has been working hard and treating others sincerely cannot live a decent life, then in addition to being self-indulgent, there must be something wrong with some aspect of society. Accept this imperfect self. What kind of people do what kind of things, and what kind of things they do become what kind of people they are. This is the law of life. There are many reasons for unhappy life and unsatisfactory career, and personal reasons are only part of them. Do not exaggerate them to cover all problems. Sometimes, you just meet a scumbag, or this environment is just not suitable for you. You can think of specific solutions. It is your choice whether to leave or stay. But don't look too closely at yourself for the reasons. There is a limit to everything, and nothing is too much. The same goes for introspection. ▷Accept yourself and like yourself ▷Don't always hide in the identity of "victim" and be a weak little white rabbit Whatever doesn't kill you will eventually make you stronger. Even if you are a victim, get out into the sun as quickly as possible. ▷Cultivating your own character is the most expensive cosmetic you can buy for yourself Being kind to others is not only conveying your kindness to others, but also repairing the hole in your own heart. ▷ There is one thing that people should learn throughout their lives, and that is to learn to be kind to themselves. Because you are the most important person in your life. Only those who know how to love themselves know how to deal with others. Only when you know that the most important person in your life is yourself can you find the right rhythm of life. Whether it is myself or my friends, life is more or less beginning to enter another time and space, with poetry and distance, but also more and more hesitation. The older I get, the more I realize that self-help is more effective than asking for help. No matter how many important people you have in your life, don't forget that you are the most important one among them.

Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance! Only by loving yourself well can you be able to love others. Life is a practice, accept the good and the bad, don't embarrass yourself, just take your time!

The world is bright and grand, may you always be happy, above your little world! May you love yourself forever, be confident and never be anxious or confused, because confidence is the answer to the king's style, the foundation of success, and the characteristic of the strong! Remind me again, I hope you love yourself, my dear baby [blowing kiss]

I started reading it last night and finished it today while on the road. I think this book is "a bowl of crystal clear chicken soup" that can both nourish you and shine into your heart. It doesn't make much sense, but every sentence resonates with you. If you feel that you are not good enough, please open this book and read on immediately; if you feel that you are great now, then maybe you haven't met it yet. Maybe today, maybe tomorrow and the day after tomorrow. One day you will meet it, be nourished, and become a better version of yourself.

First of all, I would like to thank the author for guiding me in my thoughts, allowing me to realize my self-ideology more clearly. Thank you. Finally, I would like to ask if the name of the lady whose name begins with the letter in the book has been forgotten by the author [laughing awkwardly]

This book talks very well. Don't neglect to please yourself because of other things. Life is inherently contradictory. It's up to you how you view, choose, and solve things. Loving yourself is what life should be like. [Send heart][Send heart][Send heart]

This book made me feel very much. We often please others and neglect ourselves in various relationships. The author Ma Yan lets us understand through words that loving yourself is the most important thing. As the book says, "It is more important to please yourself than to please others." Her words are concise and powerful and can touch people's hearts. I recommend it to friends who are confused. Reading this book may help you find the way forward.

Love yourself, don't blindly follow the trend, listen to what others say

How much love can a person who doesn't love himself have towards others? Just like the title of this book, you don't have to please others, live for yourself. The author writes about the importance of self-love in many ways. Draw materials from life and write about the differences between people who know self-love and people who don't. Break through the secular world and create new things, and not be bound by "marriage" and so on. Echoing the reality of self-love and lack of self-love from film and television authors. So, learn to love yourself from now on!

The short stories in the book are all true portrayals, treating the sweetness in life as rewards and the bitterness in life as experiences. People are all experiencing growth... Don't look at the results, enjoy the process...

How you view yourself is how others will view you

I was very moved after reading this book. She said that if you want others to love you, you must first love yourself.

Yes, yes, I thought it was about love and friendship at the beginning, but I didn't expect that the real truth lies behind it.

"You Don't Have to Please No One" truly speaks to the "people pleaser" personality. Many times, it is not necessary to grovel to please others and wrong yourself. Only by truly loving yourself can you love others better. A confident woman is the most beautiful, even if she has nothing to offer, she still looks arrogant [Like]

It's very interesting and I like some of the sentences in it. Huge benefits

I am 70 years old this year and this book has benefited me a lot! I hope more women read this book.

Faces come from the heart, and every time you have an evil thought, there will be traces of evil on your face. Be positive and optimistic and maintain a positive spirit. Be a high-energy optimistic person🌹🌹🌹

Thank you author, I feel the same.

It sounds pretty good

Loving yourself is something that requires lifelong learning

Be a person who loves yourself

You are the protagonist

To put it bluntly, if you love yourself, love should also be based on being able to do better.

I don't know how to describe it, but it looks very powerful.

It is very important for everyone to learn to truly love themselves and know how to love themselves. If a person lives well for himself, then the people around him will be well!

I gained a lot after reading it

Women's books, expressing yourself, are not attached value, but the expression of self

Thank you to the author for your spiritual food and giving me strong psychological strength! Recommend to friends.

You must have a clearly stated goal, know how to please yourself, follow your own heart, have a strong heart, and love yourself. You must not wander around in an alley and just take things as they come.

It's a very good book. It's a very suitable book for women. I read 98% of the content word for word, and I benefited a lot from it.