Have Something to Look After in Old Age

It is a book that is very real and close to life. Many children do not understand why the old man is partial. From the old man's perspective, there is a lot of concern and helplessness, just like he has to compromise time and time again when facing his eldest son's "love sickness". This is the perspective of the parents, no matter how hateful and evil the eldest daughter-in-law is. At the same time, I also realized the simple quality of being indifferent to the blood of my family, no matter how much money I spent. After reading this, I understand the thoughts of the elderly better. In fact, if we are filial and filial, they will never live as soberly as us, because we are not old enough to understand their feelings, so we don't need to ask them to think or do what they want, as long as we follow it.

The main idea of ​​this book is very clear, the emotional color is also very clear, and the language style is plain yet poetic. The rhythm of this book is a bit strange. The first half of the book is filled with the kind of suppressed sadness that comes up one after another. The later part becomes more vivid and a bit perfunctory, giving people the feeling of an abrupt end. The feeling of being old and helpless is exaggerated in the previous part very well. It is very sad and angry. That is to say, the national policy to help the elderly should be part of the main purpose, but it seems very hasty, making the readers only remember what a miserable way. Li Cuiling's image creation is a bit extreme, emm, I feel like she is an absolute bad guy, emm, if you want to raise the common issue of elderly care, Li's presence is too strong, and the reality is not that strong. I think the best characters in the book are Du Lianshan and Qiu Mei. I can see that these two characters are growing and changing. The other characters are either stationary, such as Li, or they are very tool-like, and they suddenly become different, like they are rescuers. After reading it, I felt pretty good. It can be said that it depicts a relatively ideal solution to the elderly care problem, such as the development of hometown industries, nursing homes, etc. The people in it are cold and warm, and there are all kinds of things in the world.

I like this book very much. It describes the ups and downs of rural life. I also like Du Qiumei's tenacity to fight hard and never admit defeat in the ups and downs of life. Like it very much.

Qiu Mei really did her part! A hero among women, filial, generous, dedicated and smart. Such a woman really has no shortcomings. The good ones are too good, the bad ones are too bad, and the old man is too biased.

This book is so wonderfully written, the sentences are fluent, interlocking, and exciting. It is a good book worth reading.

It is a very down-to-earth book that reflects the actual problems of elderly care in real life, but the reality is more cruel. For example, the elderly in rural areas now have no pensions, and their children do not have stable jobs. Living in a nursing home can only be a dream.

Really down to earth writing. Although my wife was from a landlord's family, she was indeed a good helper in running the house, but it was a pity that she passed away early. The eldest son is disabled, incompetent, and impatient. Married again to a selfish and selfish woman who brought trouble to her family. The younger son is smart but selfish and only cares about himself. Qiulan is kind but weak and unscheming. What I admire the most is Qiu Mei, who dares to love and think, is kind-hearted, honest and tolerant. The old man has old ideas and concepts. When suffering comes, he only thinks of his son. If it weren't for Qiu Mei, how would the family survive?

It's so wonderful and truly reflects the various issues of elderly care.

Overall, the book is good. When I read it, I had a strong sense of involvement. I was indignant at the inaction and disorderly behavior of the elderly, saddened by the unfilial behavior of my children, helpless at the suffering of life, and saddened by the indifference and selfishness of human nature. It should be said that the book's description of suffering makes people lose their desire to get married and have children, lose confidence in life, and make people full of fear of old age. But the ending is surprisingly perfect. Some people's changes are not transitional. The turning point is too fast, unreasonable and difficult to accept.

The writing is so good, it speaks of the integrity and perseverance of rural people. Du Qiumei is a hard-working and good woman who has witnessed the earth-shaking changes in the countryside. Thanks to the author for writing what resonates with the voices of hundreds of millions of farmers.

The novel was well written and attracted me. I basically read it in one sitting. I felt a lot about life in the 1980s. I liked Du Qiumei's way of doing things, and I also cried because of her hardship (especially when she didn't even have a place to live). Fortunately, the ending was that she founded a nursing home for the elderly, which contributed to Du Lianshan and that era. Thanks to the author! ! !

The author writes very realistically. Everyone hopes that someone will take care of them when they grow old. But. A lot of things didn't go that smoothly. I just hope that I can live a good life. Don't bother your loved ones too much.

The writing is good and realistic. I read it in one sitting. I just felt that it was too difficult for their family in the past few years. Li Cuiling was also too hateful and selfish. After everyone's continuous efforts, she finally got better. Qiu Mei, who is down-to-earth and willing to work, also made a comeback.

This book is really good, because poverty writes people's greedy and selfish nature deeply into the bones. What is raising children to prevent old age? It is purely raising children to provide for old age. The best nursing home is ultimately a nursing home.

This book tells the story of two generations' retirement, which is very real and touching. The characters in the book are very vividly portrayed. For example, Han Yuzhi's kindness to Du Lianshan reminded me of the sentence "You treat me as your ancestor, and I treat you as my treasure." The author's writing style is concise and smooth, making people feel like listening to a friend telling a story, which is very cordial. I think this is a book worth reading as it makes us think about the important issue of retirement.

This book is well written, without any messy obscene words, and it tells a real story, which is worth reading.

The storyline is compact, twists and turns, fascinating, full of tears and laughter, and the characters are vivid and vivid. It's more exciting than watching TV [laughing]

Wonderful and vivid description of rural life

The characters are vividly drawn, the plot has ups and downs, there are many good words and sentences, and the sentences are smooth. It vividly expresses the difficulties of ordinary people's lives. Even future generations are striving to maximize their own interests. It seems that having money in one's own hands is the way to go.

The end finally allowed me to take a breath! The ups and downs of the story are full of negative energy. The family is so difficult. I have always hoped that Jianshe Construction could become famous in Shenzhen to help this broken family, but it has repeatedly disappointed me, which makes my heart feel cold! Fortunately, the ending did not disappoint me. Well written! The writing is fluent, but some people's explanations are not very clear. For example, Liu Cuiling is selfish and can give everything she has to her father when he is sick. Her father-in-law is sick and has no money but no punishment at all. It is too confusing to understand the hatred.

Wonderful and interesting. The plot of the story has ups and downs, The character creation is very unique, Very life-like and closely integrated with the background of the times

The content is wonderfully written, the characters are unique and individual, and it is a true portrayal of rural people living in difficulty. It is close to life and has rich and colorful content. After reading it, it is worth reading.

The extremes of human nature are vividly written. In each character in the book, you can find the prototype that has appeared around you. Good book, five stars.

I finished reading it in one sitting. It was really good-looking, with a compact plot and vivid characters. Nice.

Nice to listen to and supportive of, very true to the writing, highly recommended

The content written feels as real, relevant and touching as what is happening around me. Good books are worth listening to and reading to feel the bitterness, hardship, beauty and happiness of life.

It was so well written and a true reflection of the life of rural farmers since the reform and opening up. I read it in two days. There is sympathy, anger, touching and joy in reading, but when the characters in the work are at their most difficult, I always feel that there is hope! I really got into character.

This is a relatively realistic novel that often happens in life. The author uses exquisite writing to describe the daily life of the helpless group living at the bottom. The characters are vividly described and the images are lifelike. It is a very good-looking novel. Give the author a big thumbs up👍🏻

It's so down-to-earth, the characters are vivid and come to life on the page Create characters with unique characteristics, keep up with the situation, and have a strong imprint of the times

Very delicate writing. Also very close to life