This book is a guide for living in harmony and understanding in society. It is a model reading book for the historical survival game. It includes: Honest people are always outside the circle, the world is "judging people by their appearance", being the boss with glory is worse than being the second child, seeking power in the "peaceful breeze and drizzle", being a man cannot be too gentleman, the future is "borrowed", keeping one account in one's mouth, one account in one's heart, being tactful but not tactful , Learning to be "stupid" is more difficult than learning to be "wisdom", the choice must be straightforward, advance and retreat must be quick, suffering losses is also a blessing, using hard moves to gain power, relying on soft laws to manage, failure to follow the rules is the biggest unspoken rule, etc. Twenty-one chapters, each chapter uses classic historical stories and wonderful comments, connects theory with practice, from phenomenon to essence, analyzes and elaborates in detail the role of unspoken rules in promoting human life.
Hidden rules are a supreme survival strategy, a kind of wisdom that uses darkness as if it is clear, a skill to take the initiative in life, a victorious strategy, a philosophy of life that can advance and retreat freely, a flexible way to respond quickly in times of crisis, and a successful mentality to achieve success in life. This book will teach you how to identify unspoken rules, how to circumvent and use them to act wisely and wisely, and teach you to see the true face of unspoken rules and find ways to circumvent and understand them, so that you can protect yourself in the dangerous jungle of human nature and achieve success faster and more smoothly. Being familiar with the unspoken rules is the foundation of survival and the means of development; only by learning and applying the unspoken rules can you avoid detours and achieve success.
This book not only explains the hidden rules wonderfully through historical stories, but also integrates readability, interest, thought, philosophy, knowledge, etc., So that readers can gain the mindset to achieve great things after understanding it, and provide readers with a comprehensive and rich feast of historical wisdom.
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If I can have 999 times of good luck in this life, I am willing to share 997 times with you, leaving only two times for myself: once to meet you, and once to accompany you forever!
It talks about many hidden rules, and each one is explained with historical allusions, making it easy to understand. But knowing is one thing, applying is another. I think if you want to learn to use it, you must grasp the "degree". On the one hand, there is "perspective". From the historical allusions cited in the book, we can know that interpreting the same historical allusion from different standpoints and different angles can lead to different unspoken rules. Therefore, before applying unspoken rules, you need to have a clear positioning of yourself and select applicable unspoken rules. On the other hand, there is "degree". I believe you have heard that past is never enough, and things must be reversed at their extremes. When applying the latent rules, you must grasp the dimensions, have a ruler in your mind, and have a measure in your actions. Only then can you seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and have a smooth life.
Failure to abide by the rules is the biggest unspoken rule in Chinese history. Because orthodoxy pays attention to etiquette, justice and integrity, but civil society has its own set of operating rules. If you don't understand the profound meaning and act rigidly, you may not be able to have both sides in China's humanistic society. This book tells the story of those talented people in history who were well versed in the hidden rules, such as Sima Yi and Cao Cao; and those who are rarely heard of, such as Sima Dekan, Han Yongxi, etc. They rely on their talents without letting go, handle things tactfully, and ultimately achieve the overall situation. If we learn from them, our lives will also have its own destiny.
Hidden rules are a kind of rule that is not explicitly stipulated, but is ubiquitous, widely recognized by people, and plays a practical role. If you want to be like a fish in the social world, deal with it calmly, protect yourself, and succeed, you must understand various unspoken rules. This book tells various interesting stories in history and explains the unspoken rules one by one, showing various successful survival arts. The unspoken rules such as honest people being bullied, openly suffering losses and secretly gaining, openly admitting defeat and secretly competing, and begging for help is not as good as clever stimulation, etc., Have very high reference significance and are worth learning.
Hidden rules are a kind of rule that is not explicitly stipulated, but is ubiquitous, widely recognized by people, and plays a practical role. If you want to be like a fish in the social world, deal with it calmly, protect yourself, and succeed, you must understand various unspoken rules. This book tells various interesting stories in history and explains the unspoken rules one by one, showing various successful survival arts. The unspoken rules such as honest people being bullied, openly suffering losses and secretly gaining, openly admitting defeat and secretly competing, and begging for help is not as good as clever stimulation, etc., Have very high reference significance and are worth learning.
As the saying goes, honest people are easily bullied, but scheming can lead to great success. This sentence coincides with Liu Shuang's point of view. This book provides insight into the fate of historical figures, analyzes personal characteristics and behavioral habits, and summarizes extraordinary but very applicable unspoken rules for living in the world. Instead of saying that Liu Shuang is introducing us to the way of life and hidden rules of historical figures, it is better to say that he is using the rise and fall of historical figures as examples to spread and convey the ways of life that he has summarized, so that people will readily accept his views and put them into practice.
Hidden rules are a kind of rule that is not explicitly stipulated, but is ubiquitous, widely recognized by people, and plays a practical role. If you want to be like a fish in the social world, deal with it calmly, protect yourself, and succeed, you must understand various unspoken rules. This book tells various interesting stories in history and explains the unspoken rules one by one, showing various successful survival arts. The unspoken rules such as honest people being bullied, openly suffering losses and secretly gaining, openly admitting defeat and secretly competing, and begging for help is not as good as clever stimulation, etc., Have very high reference significance and are worth learning.
This book is very interesting. It explains the hidden rules through historical stories, allowing us to learn the skills of dealing with others while reading easily. As the book says, "hidden rules are actually relative to 'no rules' and 'explicit rules.'" Understanding these rules can help us survive better in society. For example, it is said in the book that "choices must be straightforward, and advances and retreats must be swift." This sentence really makes sense. Just like my feelings for you, if I like you, I will pursue it straightforwardly without being sloppy.
The first book in a century, a good book, a good book,
This book is not just an introduction to history, but more importantly, it reveals the impact of history's hidden rules on society and individuals through rhetorical techniques such as metaphor and parallelism. Through rich historical cases and vivid stories, the author allows readers to deeply understand the connotation and application of historical hidden rules. This kind of analysis of the hidden rules of history can not only help readers better understand history, but also provide some useful enlightenment for contemporary society and personal life.
This book is not just an introduction to history, but more importantly, it reveals the impact of history's hidden rules on society and individuals through rhetorical techniques such as metaphor and parallelism. Through rich historical cases and vivid stories, the author allows readers to deeply understand the connotation and application of historical hidden rules. This kind of analysis of the hidden rules of history can not only help readers better understand history, but also provide some useful enlightenment for contemporary society and personal life.
Taking history as a mirror can help you improve your vision. But don't over-interpret it.
The content is very good, I benefited a lot after reading it, thank you to the author, thumbs up
Use historical facts to teach people today.
It's a must-read book and it's great if you can listen to it and read it. If you have memory loss, reading the text will deepen your impression.
A must-see for a group of frauds
Classic story, fascinating
Very useful. I understand a lot of principles of life and work, and also avoid unnecessary risks in society.
If I can have 999 times of good luck in this life, I am willing to share 997 times with you, leaving only two times for myself: once to meet you, and once to accompany you forever!
It talks about many hidden rules, and each one is explained with historical allusions, making it easy to understand. But knowing is one thing, applying is another. I think if you want to learn to use it, you must grasp the "degree". On the one hand, there is "perspective". From the historical allusions cited in the book, we can know that interpreting the same historical allusion from different standpoints and different angles can lead to different unspoken rules. Therefore, before applying unspoken rules, you need to have a clear positioning of yourself and select applicable unspoken rules. On the other hand, there is "degree". I believe you have heard that past is never enough, and things must be reversed at their extremes. When applying the latent rules, you must grasp the dimensions, have a ruler in your mind, and have a measure in your actions. Only then can you seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and have a smooth life.
Failure to abide by the rules is the biggest unspoken rule in Chinese history. Because orthodoxy pays attention to etiquette, justice and integrity, but civil society has its own set of operating rules. If you don't understand the profound meaning and act rigidly, you may not be able to have both sides in China's humanistic society. This book tells the story of those talented people in history who were well versed in the hidden rules, such as Sima Yi and Cao Cao; and those who are rarely heard of, such as Sima Dekan, Han Yongxi, etc. They rely on their talents without letting go, handle things tactfully, and ultimately achieve the overall situation. If we learn from them, our lives will also have its own destiny.
Hidden rules are a kind of rule that is not explicitly stipulated, but is ubiquitous, widely recognized by people, and plays a practical role. If you want to be like a fish in the social world, deal with it calmly, protect yourself, and succeed, you must understand various unspoken rules. This book tells various interesting stories in history and explains the unspoken rules one by one, showing various successful survival arts. The unspoken rules such as honest people being bullied, openly suffering losses and secretly gaining, openly admitting defeat and secretly competing, and begging for help is not as good as clever stimulation, etc., Have very high reference significance and are worth learning.
Hidden rules are a kind of rule that is not explicitly stipulated, but is ubiquitous, widely recognized by people, and plays a practical role. If you want to be like a fish in the social world, deal with it calmly, protect yourself, and succeed, you must understand various unspoken rules. This book tells various interesting stories in history and explains the unspoken rules one by one, showing various successful survival arts. The unspoken rules such as honest people being bullied, openly suffering losses and secretly gaining, openly admitting defeat and secretly competing, and begging for help is not as good as clever stimulation, etc., Have very high reference significance and are worth learning.
As the saying goes, honest people are easily bullied, but scheming can lead to great success. This sentence coincides with Liu Shuang's point of view. This book provides insight into the fate of historical figures, analyzes personal characteristics and behavioral habits, and summarizes extraordinary but very applicable unspoken rules for living in the world. Instead of saying that Liu Shuang is introducing us to the way of life and hidden rules of historical figures, it is better to say that he is using the rise and fall of historical figures as examples to spread and convey the ways of life that he has summarized, so that people will readily accept his views and put them into practice.
Hidden rules are a kind of rule that is not explicitly stipulated, but is ubiquitous, widely recognized by people, and plays a practical role. If you want to be like a fish in the social world, deal with it calmly, protect yourself, and succeed, you must understand various unspoken rules. This book tells various interesting stories in history and explains the unspoken rules one by one, showing various successful survival arts. The unspoken rules such as honest people being bullied, openly suffering losses and secretly gaining, openly admitting defeat and secretly competing, and begging for help is not as good as clever stimulation, etc., Have very high reference significance and are worth learning.
This book is very interesting. It explains the hidden rules through historical stories, allowing us to learn the skills of dealing with others while reading easily. As the book says, "hidden rules are actually relative to 'no rules' and 'explicit rules.'" Understanding these rules can help us survive better in society. For example, it is said in the book that "choices must be straightforward, and advances and retreats must be swift." This sentence really makes sense. Just like my feelings for you, if I like you, I will pursue it straightforwardly without being sloppy.
The first book in a century, a good book, a good book,
This book is not just an introduction to history, but more importantly, it reveals the impact of history's hidden rules on society and individuals through rhetorical techniques such as metaphor and parallelism. Through rich historical cases and vivid stories, the author allows readers to deeply understand the connotation and application of historical hidden rules. This kind of analysis of the hidden rules of history can not only help readers better understand history, but also provide some useful enlightenment for contemporary society and personal life.
This book is not just an introduction to history, but more importantly, it reveals the impact of history's hidden rules on society and individuals through rhetorical techniques such as metaphor and parallelism. Through rich historical cases and vivid stories, the author allows readers to deeply understand the connotation and application of historical hidden rules. This kind of analysis of the hidden rules of history can not only help readers better understand history, but also provide some useful enlightenment for contemporary society and personal life.
Taking history as a mirror can help you improve your vision. But don't over-interpret it.
The content is very good, I benefited a lot after reading it, thank you to the author, thumbs up
Use historical facts to teach people today.
It's a must-read book and it's great if you can listen to it and read it. If you have memory loss, reading the text will deepen your impression.
A must-see for a group of frauds
Classic story, fascinating
Very useful. I understand a lot of principles of life and work, and also avoid unnecessary risks in society.