The Complete Collection of Love Psychology (Super Value Platinum Edition)

Love is the eternal theme in human life. Everyone longs for love and hopes to be immersed in love and feel the happiness of life. No one is born to fall in love, and no relationship is destined to lead to successful marriage. Only when we stumble and stumble on the road of love can we gradually understand what kind of relationship is suitable for us and what kind of emotional style we want. In love, there is no best, no better, only the most suitable. No one is perfect, and the same goes for love. Two people have their own strengths and weaknesses in character, so we have to constantly work together and tolerate each other, so that our love will be sweet and long-lasting. What you get used to in love is the shortcomings of the other person, allowing yourself to adapt to them. Love is a psychological need, but it is not everything in life. Only a woman who loves herself, cherishes herself, and feels sorry for herself can be cherished by a man. Love requires pleasing each other. If we cannot please ourselves while pleasing our lover, then we should at least learn to please ourselves first. Because only those who know how to love themselves can love others better. No matter how good it feels to be in love, you still have to face your true self. When you are in love, knowing how to respect yourself and safeguarding your personal rights and personality independence is the expression of respecting love. Be kind to yourself, love yourself more, and love yourself as much as you love others. Everyone has their own different life experiences and situations, and the people they associate with and come into contact with are different. Different people, different living environments, and different attitudes towards love. Everyone's outlook on life is different, so people choose to treat love differently. When people have similar values, views on money, preferences, etc., It is easier for them to have a good impression of each other. The higher the similarity in people's attitudes and behavior patterns, the easier it is to like each other; conversely, it is difficult for two people with very different hobbies and behavior patterns to develop a relationship. Age is not the dividing line for love. The real secret to finding true love and keeping it alive is not in the hands of fate or timing. It lies in your own ideas and actions. Don't be bound by worldly views, respect, considerate, praise and tolerate your lover, give him space, communicate with him, and wander in romantic love with him forever. Only by loving each other's vulnerability can we maintain our respective dignity; only by surrendering each other's sincerity can we gain the respect we need. Love should be two-way. Although loving someone means appreciating the other person's strengths and tolerating their shortcomings and accepting them completely, rather than requiring perfect performance from the other person. Love is the contribution of both parties, which is not only emotional but also material. True love is a feeling that has space and allows for mutual heart-to-heart communication. When falling in love, objectively and rationally examine and evaluate your relationship and life with the other person, and do not act emotionally or impulsively. This will make it easier to avoid love traps. A happy marriage is based on loving and being loved. Marrying for the sake of getting married will not achieve a happy and happy marriage. A happy family cannot be bought with money. It is a precious emotion hidden deep in people's hearts. This feeling can be felt at any time and anywhere. It has nothing to do with money. True family happiness can only be realized when you truly understand the value of life. Love bought with money will not last long, but love cultivated with sincere feelings will bloom forever. Love is as passionate as fireworks, but also fleeting like shooting stars. Pure love cannot be bought with money, true love can only be exchanged with sincerity. Marriage is definitely not measured by money. Only when you truly feel the goodness of the other person will you find that love is so simple. Marriage is the fruit of love that has gone through the baptism of wind and rain and the test of time. Marriage entrusts two people with their longing for a better life, and also entrusts the sincere blessings of all relatives and friends. Marriage is plain and trivial, with daily necessities and daily necessities, but it is also full of ups and downs. But that's what true marriage is like, sealing the best memories into your own memories, and using the warmth of memories to feel your daily life. Follow your own path, don't be a money worshiper, and don't be fooled by money. Marriage is like the snow on the city wall or the moon under the lamp. It looks beautiful, but it is also illusory. After all, it is not worth giving up the entire peach forest for a small illusory tree. Therefore, it is a blessing to be able to find a person who has love in his heart and fall in love, because this will make our life more fun and meaningful. In life, love is important, but it is not the only one. Love is just a branch that stretches out diagonally on the green tree of life. She has reason to become the life that grows most lushly and opens the most beautifully. However, it is not life itself. For love, it does not mean that you have reason to give up other important tasks in life. Real life is not only pure and ethereal, beautiful and tempting, but also desires and struggles, trade-offs and helplessness... This is complete. In modern society, women must be independent. Mental independence is one aspect, and material independence cannot be ignored. As a professional woman, you should not regard men as your financial support, but your career as your most gorgeous background. Such women can best show the style of women in modern society. No matter when or where you are, others are unreliable and they cannot support you for the rest of your life. The most important thing is to become financially independent only if you have the ability to survive. Don't be dazzled by benefits, don't "lose your virginity and regret it for eternity", have some self-respect. People who respect themselves respect themselves. The road is under your own feet, and your destiny is in your own hands. Grasp the steering wheel of your life. No matter when and where you are, you can be calm and calm in every stage of your life.

There is a feeling that many of the concepts in this book are written around society's discipline of women. Something felt vaguely wrong. But it does work. Because this is how society works. There are also some points that make sense, such as having a common goal, giving each other space, etc. I am still not suitable for marriage, only for love. Anyway, I feel quite uncomfortable when I see some concepts. 🤡

Love is a science. Some people's love is smooth all the way. They are born with the ability to love. But some people always make the same mistakes on the road of love, going back and forth, but never getting a good ending. If we want to learn to love others, we must understand how to express our love and understand some of the phenomena and problems in love. Only by understanding can you be prepared. "Age is not the dividing line between love. The real secret to finding true love and keeping it fresh does not lie in the hands of fate or timing. It lies in one's own ideas and actions."

Reasons why men and women fall in love: Personality factors, image factors, like-looking attraction, like-minded attraction, like-speaking attraction, environmental influence, love impulse, suspension bridge effect (fear will increase people's lust), male excellence plot (difficult to take the initiative, fear of losing arrogance), beautiful women (loneliness), (love at first sight) animal instinct, primacy effect (first impression effect), obstruction (leading to resistance and deepening love feelings), aesthetics (external beauty (huge influence), inner beauty, aesthetic illusion can compensate for other deficiencies), etc.

In fact, whether it is love, work, study, or life, it is actually dealing with people. The difference is that love means conquering each other and empathizing with each other. Aren't you studying so much just to find someone suitable and reliable? This is about discernment and discernment. After all, some people are very good at pretending, hiding, or simply cheating on food, drink, money, and sex. Overall, this book gives some young people a lesson to think more carefully and not to be deceived! Because it's too young. . . .

I feel like this is written for women,

There are many technical answers in the book, and real-life examples are also given to let people experience different solutions.

Times are developing, thoughts are changing, and concepts are developing. The backward views on love and marriage can no longer keep up with the needs of young Chinese groups in the new era. The traditional family form is also gradually being replaced. For this book, we must read it comprehensively, dialectically accept it, and use it to divide it into two parts. Analyze the contradictions from different perspectives, abandon the dross of traditional love relationships, promote the development of new love relationships that are conducive to the development of the times, economy, and society, promote the establishment of happy, equal, and harmonious marriage relationships, and make our contribution to alleviating the pressure on people's lives and the aging of the population.

Based on my years of experience picking up girls, the author is right. Why is the comment section so polarizing?

I didn't expect that this was the book I read for the first time, [laughing][laughing]

Anyone who can watch this should have a very positive view on love. When self-interest is involved, there will naturally be resistance, which is understandable. We must read this book objectively and rationally. We can learn from the good aspects and skip the bad aspects.

The content is very close to reality. It is quite impressive to love others first, love yourself first and recognize that you are unique and worthy of being liked by others. The following part about how to resolve and enlighten yourself after a breakup is the most useful module for me, and I am willing to share it with more people.

I think girls should also take a look.

Love is a science. Some people's love is smooth all the way. They are born with the ability to love. But some people always make the same mistakes on the road of love, going back and forth, but never getting a good ending. If we want to learn to love others, we must understand how to express our love and understand some of the phenomena and problems in love. Only by understanding can you be prepared. "Age is not the dividing line between love. The real secret to finding true love and keeping it fresh does not lie in the hands of fate or timing. It lies in one's own ideas and actions."

Loving, being loved, and being in love are all gifts and abilities. If you don't have talent, you can only learn this skill. This book teaches us the skill of love. It tells us that if two people love each other and follow the laws of psychology, they can approach their own happiness step by step. Love is the product of the heart. If you don't understand the heart, there is no such thing as love. Only by understanding the psychology of love can we build and maintain better intimate relationships.

I listened to the entire book from March 2 to March 3, 2023. I was originally looking for how to start chatting with girls. Here are some tips on how to start a relationship and then get married. I didn't understand it at the beginning. I have been reading fantasy novels for 13 years and have some impressions on each one. But is this type of book really my shortcoming? ? ? I didn't understand. Maybe if I find her, I might read it again.

Love is the apple in the Garden of Eden, which makes people flock to it. Some people pick sweet fruits, and the juice in their mouths is sweet; some people pick sour fruits, which are bitter and astringent. So, what is the secret of love? This book will teach you how to see through your lover's mind at a glance and overcome obstacles to get true love. This book systematically explains the methods and techniques of getting along between the sexes from the aspects of psychological differences between the sexes, the psychology of the relationship between the sexes, the psychology of mate selection, and the psychology of love. It can provide countless men and women who are troubled in love with the right direction and protect your love.

Falling in love is an essential part of life, but do you know how to fall in love? I believe many people don't understand. Many young couples who have just fallen in love are not not in love, but they quarrel over various trivial matters and misunderstandings, and eventually part ways. Come read this love psychology book, and you will interpret the other person's love for you from his actions, actions, and eyes. After reading it, you will find that behaviors that you did not understand before can now be understood clearly. In short, if you want to fall in love or are in love, this book is a must.

A very practical and instructive book

As the book says, "Love is the product of the heart. If you don't understand the heart, there is no such thing as love." If you can understand more about the psychology of love, you can better grasp love. Moreover, the examples in the book are very typical and the suggestions given are also very practical. It is worth reading!

It's too long. It took me three days to finish it.

It's so practical, like it, like it, thank you, the author of Pig Pig👍👍🤟🤟🌆🌆

The author is a woman, and this book is mainly written from a female perspective and is suitable for women to read. Some views on love are not very positive, and it is recommended to treat them dialectically.

There is still a lot to gain

Very instructive

Loving, being loved, and being in love are all gifts and abilities. If you don't have talent, you can only learn this skill. This book teaches us the skill of love. It tells us that if two people love each other and follow the laws of psychology, they can approach their own happiness step by step. Love is the product of the heart. If you don't understand the heart, there is no such thing as love. Only by understanding the psychology of love can we build and maintain better intimate relationships.

Not bad, there are still some gains.

Very realistic concept of love!

Lots of case studies, very useful

It is told in great detail, and some points are broken down using fairy tales. Very easy to understand