Live Life the Way You Want It to Be

My favorite sentence in the book: A British man once said this famous saying: "The reason why people are uneasy is not because of what happens, but because of their thoughts about what happens." In other words, the acquisition of interest is the personal psychological experience, not the thing itself.

There is a sentence in the book that I particularly like: because it is simple, it is happy, and because it is easy to satisfy, it is happy. If you can keep your childlike innocence forever, you can make that innocence and romance eternal. I especially like this sentence and have benefited a lot. Recently, I feel like I am a waste and I envy others who have this. "Happiness and unhappiness are not determined by the amount of personal property, status, or career." Yes, happiness is around you, you just need to use your eyes to discover it and feel it with your heart. It is happiness to have relatives and be happy together, it is happiness to have a lover to accompany you throughout your life, it is happiness to have friends who care about you; you are tired after a day's work, and it is happiness to go home and have a delicious meal with your family; it is happiness to drink a cup of tea in the hot summer, and it is happiness to drink a cup of hot coffee in the cold winter; it is happiness to see the little flowers blooming on the roadside, and it is happiness to see the green buds of the saplings...

There is a person in the world who is both closest and farthest from you; there is a person in the world who is both closest and farthest from you; there is a person in the world who you often think of and who is easiest to forget, and this person is yourself! Everyone is different from everyone else and has their own shining point, because you are you and no one else. If you are happy, everyone will appreciate your authenticity. You are beautiful because you are suitable. You are unique because you are suitable. You have temperament because you are suitable. Trust your own vision! Flowers represent beauty, fragrance, blessing, joy and happiness. Take control of your own mood. Don't wait for others to send you a good mood. You can also give yourself a good mood. In fact, being kind to yourself is not that complicated, it's just about letting yourself find simple and true happiness. Really, happiness is everywhere, as long as we have a pair of eyes to discover happiness and a heart to feel happiness. Happiness is like this, it lies in giving and receiving. If we want to have our own independent personality and complete life, then be yourself! Don't be too ambitious and imitate randomly. Everything in the world has its own strengths and weaknesses. Life is a process, whether it is difficult or easy, dull or brilliant, depends on the choice, pursuit and creation of life, and the premise of all this is self-knowledge. The reason for failure in life is often that the person involved does not know himself. This is the painful lesson and heavy price. That's why there is an ancient saying: "It's important for people to know themselves." Time passes by at your feet, and the pace of progress is constantly catching up with the target ahead, step by step, getting closer and closer. Even if you are close at hand, you still need to march hard step by step.

This book takes care of every bit of our lives, and also puts forward the author's own opinions. It has a certain guiding effect on the trivial matters in our lives. After reading it, there will be a lot that cannot be expressed in words, but at the beginning, there is a sense of profound enlightenment. It uses the most ordinary language to write about the reality of many people.

Although there are some things that may not be possible, after reading this book, I learned how to find fun in boring work and daily life.

Many times we talk about it, as if we accidentally turned into the person we hated when we were children, and lived like ordinary people. But what this book tells us is that life is a wilderness, not a track. Every life can be lived wonderfully, but there will be times of pain and helplessness in every life. The key is that we must accept our own lives psychologically, learn to be relieved, calm down, truly fall in love with life, and learn to love ourselves.

I listened to the whole book and read it again. I thought it was so well written and so real. I give the author a thumbs up 👍

The past is forgotten like smoke, and my heart is selfless and wide. Life is hard, forget the pain, remember the happiness...

This book is like a dear friend, sharing the wisdom of life with you. It tells us that what life looks like depends on our own choices and efforts. The stories and perspectives in the book were real and resonated with me. I especially like the book's point about changing yourself. Only by defeating yourself first can you overcome difficulties. All in all, this is an inspiring and courageous book worth reading!

Clear understanding and benefited a lot.

Very nice. I excerpted every subtitle. I'll look at it later when I'm not interested.

This book is very good and I have benefited a lot from it

Rather than saying it is relief, it is better to say it is helplessness and compromise┑(￣Д ￣)┍

A good book, I feel calm

The world is no longer noisy, and the heart is no longer impetuous; the chest can accommodate hundreds of rivers, and a person can stand a thousand feet tall, like a dragon playing in the water, like a horse flying in the sky; you can stand straight without support, and don't climb too high;

The whole book gave me a very good feeling. It also teaches us a lot of life philosophy, which is good.

A very good book, you will know it after reading it.