If You Take It Too Seriously, You Will Lose.

This book tells me: the lotus becomes more solemn and pure because of the mud; the salmon becomes more courageous because of swimming against the river; explorers are not afraid of dangers and difficulties, precisely because they can challenge their physical limits; Zen practitioners are not afraid of sore legs and numb feet, and they are also challenging their inner bad habits. In real life, many people are used to complaining, complaining when encountering troubles, complaining when encountering grievances, complaining when encountering difficulties... As everyone knows, if you complain too much about life and vent too much in life, life will return it to you in full. This is the law of life.

What makes life unsustainable is not the huge problems and catastrophes, but the trivial things. When you worry about everything and take everything personally, then those little things will become the straw that breaks the camel's back. There will always be some little troubles in life. If you care about them, you will be farther and farther away from a happy life. On the contrary, those who are open-minded tend to go longer and more peacefully.

It truly, vividly, objectively and profoundly describes the real human nature in real life! It inspires the understanding and awakening of human nature in real life! This book is very wonderfully written and has benefited me a lot. If I like it, I can use it more in my life!

A common and universal principle of life. By not being too serious, you can resolve the barriers that exist in interpersonal relationships, put down unnecessary mental burdens, and create a harmonious atmosphere for yourself. The author of this book teaches readers to be open-minded and not stick to trivial matters, think big, not get hung up on non-principled trivial matters, and become broad-minded people. This is very important. Many emotional problems and diseases are caused by being too serious. Letting others go is actually letting yourself go.

This book has benefited me a lot! It taught me not to be too serious when facing various problems in life, but to have a broad mind. Some of the ideas in the book are very enlightening, for example, people who are not serious are more tolerant and understanding of others. However, I kind of hate the parts of the book that always make sense, it feels a bit stiff. Overall, the writing style of this book is relatively simple, and the writing style is not bad. It is very suitable for a boy like me who is in love to read, and it can help me better deal with feelings and things in life.

"Endure the calm for a while, and take a step back to open up the world." As the saying goes, when you conflict with others, being strong will not achieve the desired results. In ancient times, there were "Six Feet Alley" and "Sleeping on firewood and tasting courage"; today there are the extraordinary achievements of Moro Lewis. These all illustrate that throughout the ages, calmness in times of trouble and knowing how to advance and retreat can lead to harmonious coexistence. This book can help us develop an open-minded attitude towards life, be able to communicate with others with ease, and become a broad-minded person.

Very good. I like it very much. Very useful to readers.

The language of this book is simple and plain, gently telling readers that on the long road of life, they should not take everything too seriously, learn to deal with it indifferently, and pursue a simple life attitude. Through examples and explanations, the author tells us that the great wisdom of dealing with the world without taking things seriously is a wisdom based on a broad mind. "The sun rises in the east and sets in the west. There is a day of sorrow and a day of joy. If you don't get into trouble, you will feel comfortable both physically and mentally." People who are not serious about everything can start from the overall situation, start from small things, and end up with the big picture; people who are not serious about everything do not care about others in everything, and can be open-minded; people who are not serious about others will be more tolerant and tolerant, and more understanding and understanding. Learning not to take things too seriously can make our lives more comfortable.

Good

A very good book worth reading.

A book to read all the time When you encounter troubles, read it and listen to it, and you will feel better! This book has become my mentor! Thanks to the author [like][like]! ! ….

Real and objective, multi-dimensional description, clear structure, clear and empathetic explanation

Rich content, good book.

Rich content, I like to read it

The author ✍️ writes very well 👍 I like reading

A very good book, worth recommending and very helpful to me, thank you author

I have been reading this book for several days. I can't help but read the wonderful parts. I like its positive and inspiring sentences.

A very good inspirational novel

Help me find my shortcomings

A friend recommended this book to me ten years ago. At that time, I always felt that I didn't have time to read it. Now that I have read it, I regret that it was too late.

As a person in his fifties and sixties, his life is trapped by emotions. Listening to this book has opened up my wisdom, allowing me to stop internal friction and start a new life. I am grateful for meeting [Admiration].

It's a very good book. I have emotional problems and I feel much better after reading it.

Well, it's philosophical, I read every chapter at least twice.

A book worth reading. It was of great help to me and helped me change many shortcomings.

This book can help people understand how to make choices in this bustling city.