One Person Is Just Right: Your Ability to Be Independent Determines Your Confidence in Life

"The movie "The Last of Us" taught us a truth: not being able to love is actually the normal state of life. The biggest dead end in the world is actually wishful thinking. Love cannot be forced. No matter what method is used, if the other person doesn't love you, they don't love you." In the past, I always felt that the reason I failed to achieve my goals was because I didn't meet someone who would study with me and encourage each other, or someone who loved learning and could pull me forward. Little did I know that I could become such a person myself. If no one pushes me, I push myself. If no one pulls me forward, I can walk step by step on my own, and don't give up even if I am crawling. I always feel that I have worked hard enough but still get no reward at all. After persisting for a few weeks or months, I feel that I am very good. If others get good grades, they think they are lucky. If you have poor grades, you will make excuses for yourself and say you have bad luck. These questions are not suitable for you. In short, they are envious of other people's goodness and hate themselves for not being able to achieve the goals they want, but they are always content with the status quo and are afraid of the hard work of the change process and remain indifferent. This book taught me how to learn from the excellence of others, do more and talk less, and don't ask other people's opinions when you plan to do something, because most of them will discourage your decision. Learn to enjoy solitude on days when no one is with you. You should read more books, improve your knowledge, and learn to be refined, even if it's just a gardenia on your chest.

What youth does not lack is confusion and confusion. Every chapter in the book can give me different inspirations. For a "paranoiac" like me, what is lacking is execution ability. At the same time, lack of hunger is also courage and confidence, so save money first, and rush when the time is right! As for love, I have never been optimistic about the concept of love on the Internet. The way of getting along between two people is tempered, because everyone has different personalities, so you can't even copy the online methods of love, right? I was inspired by more than a few points, and I couldn't figure it out at once. All in all, I would like to thank the author for this book, which solved my doubts and gave me new ideas...

I embrace loneliness as the most beautiful gift. Life is inherently lonely. I believe that we can meet like-minded people on the road of growing up in loneliness.

I was enlightened. This is the third book that deeply touched me after reading "To Live" and "So, Is It All Childhood's Fault?". The whole book is written about stubbornness and independence. If a person has an independent soul, he must not need anyone to pity him in any sad valley. The only one who can save himself is himself. He is the only unchanging savior in life, and one person is worth ten thousand words.

"Actually, you are not as weak as you think, but you are used to being cared for. If no one cares for you anymore, you might as well try to care for yourself." Work hard to become your own army

This book is very suitable for people who are confused and impetuous nowadays. It contains many practical truths. Although some of the examples listed are not comprehensive and reliable, they reflect some practical problems and tell readers what kind of mentality they should face. I may have doubts when I read this book again. I saw some people commenting that it only talks about problems but not what we should do or how to solve them. Everyone in society will have similar problems, but they are always different. How to choose and how to solve them is a personal exercise. Please don't be greedy and think that your choice will regret or make mistakes. No option in life is perfect or suitable for you. What we can do is to choose our own heart and adapt to the so-called option that suits us. Every decision is a test of the depths of our hearts. Please don't be afraid of failure. This book is not long, easy to read and can easily arouse readers' reflection. And in this book there is mention of failure and success. This is the part that cannot be deleted in the inspirational category, and it is also the most questionable part. The book emphasizes the difference between failure and success, and uses things around the author to prove the importance of persistence for those who want to succeed. Whether it is successful or not, I think it is just an opportunity, and when we choose the right direction, all we have to do is work hard and wait for that opportunity to appear. And once you give up, you have failed. [Top post][Top post][Top post][Top post]

After reading it, I feel a lot more enlightened. We must learn to endure the cold of winter, live like our own army, and decorate our lives with little fun in the smoke and smoke.

Loneliness is the carnival of one person, carnival is the loneliness of a group of people

At first glance, it seems like a chicken soup article, but in fact, the author's own arduous writing experience from scratch is worth thinking about and learning from. Some of the truths the author talks about are not difficult for people to listen to. Although it tastes like chicken soup for the soul, it will be very helpful for your future life and reduce detours. Although detours and tribulations will increase and enrich your experience, and the accumulation of a large amount of experience is the basis for your future success, the book clearly points out how to be smart, do things wisely, and how to deal with things at home and outside the home. It has profound insights. Life is a long road, don't waste time, strive to live a quality life, grasp the scale, your life will have shining points everywhere, live the meaning of life, and it will be full of sunshine and happiness!

True maturity: know the world but not the world, stay in the world and stay far away from the world

It's not that this book has deep truths, but that I see a gentle author who is also like a listener, giving you a smile of recognition and a sympathetic embrace after listening. A very comfortable book

If I had read this book earlier, maybe my life would have been different.

A very down-to-earth book. Yes, life is not smooth sailing. Ups and downs, sorrows and sorrows, joys and joys all need to be faced, accepted, and resolved by yourself. In fact, you will always be with yourself, so accept yourself willingly. No matter what you are, you are unique in this world. I wish everyone to be more happy😁😁😁

Live like one man's army. When you come, I accept it gladly, and when you leave, I remain calm.

If you can, be your own warrior. Before I read this book, I always felt it was unfair and I couldn't find the ideal person. After reading it, I felt grateful that it allowed me to spend more time with myself and make myself better.

The topic of blind dates is very controversial. When it was said that appropriate compromises could be made, I subconsciously wanted to refute, thinking what the author was talking about! But after reading it patiently, you can understand that in fact, most people need recognition and companionship from others, and in many cases the standards and requirements may not apply to the future. Life is changeable, and there are also many regrets. But it is precisely because of the change, because it is only once, and I don't want to do it later. Regret, so I personally feel that it is better not to be utilitarian and think about the unknown behind to lay the foundation for it, but try to make a decision that is meaningful, happy, and will not regret it, because you will always regret the decision of the previous second in the next second, and you will not be happy and meaningless.

You have to be a calm adult. Don't be emotional, don't miss me secretly, and don't look back. Live your own other life. You have to be obedient, not all fish live in the same sea. ——Haruki Murakami

The writer's text is delicate and his views are correct. I quite like this book. To a certain extent, it allowed me to think differently and enlighten me about my outlook on life, and it also relieved some of my anxiety. For example, when it comes to marriage and love, my first reaction may be to resist at first, because I don't want another person to disturb my life and slow down the pace of achieving my goals when I feel comfortable and just living a good life. But gradually as I read it, my reaction became that if the other person is as motivated and hard-working as me, and both parties can achieve mutual success and make progress together, then it might not be a bad idea to give it a try. For example, I originally hated the word blind date. I accept this word happening to others, but I don't allow it to happen to me. But after reading this book, I realized that blind date actually has its corresponding benefits. For example, I can at least get to know different people in this process, and I can also understand the red lines of my mate selection criteria more clearly and realistically. Moreover, what if I can find the right person in this process? Doesn't this greatly reduce my time cost? Life is a practice. I think it is a good thing to experience more things (including setbacks) at an age when you can maintain your energy and passion.

Lions and tigers are always solitary, while only foxes and dogs travel in groups. Humans are animals that are naturally afraid of loneliness, but humans themselves are also animals that can tolerate loneliness.

You don't understand me, I don't blame you. After all, life is a long road, and most of it is self-cultivation. People in the world are mediocre, just for a few taels of silver. But life is not just the present, but also poetry and distance. We are all working hard to live. We must first learn to love ourselves, to be alone, to pursue, and to love. Life may not be easy, so boldly love yourself a little more. Be a calm adult, be less emotional, think less secretly, look back less (after all, your eyes are in the front), and live your own other life. Not all fish live in the same sea.

When you know how to face the troubles of the world alone, when you understand that you can only be alone most of the time in life, you will finally understand that you should and must live as one person's thousands of troops.

Not being able to love is the normal state of life. Clean up your mood and start over.

You don't need to let go, and you don't need to let him leave your life completely. You just need to learn to put it aside, place him in a corner deep in your heart, leave it to time, and let time kiss that person goodbye." In the tormenting night, I was comforted. No one knows the torment in my heart. I say let it go, but in fact, only I know that it is not

To be honest, I have been very unhappy recently because of the salary cut at my company. I accidentally read this book. To be honest, it relieved my anxiety to a great extent. It's better than the best, but it's actually not the worst. The general environment is like this. When you can't change, you can only make peace with yourself and then find a way to deal with it. I have a side job, but do I really work hard enough? Have you made good use of your off-duty time? Have you been working hard? This book is easy to read. No one can succeed casually. Only through unremitting efforts can one achieve success. Not bad, recommend to everyone!

Not bad, not bad. This is the second book in my e-book career. It's very well written.

It's great. I felt very touched. I will definitely read this book a second time [note]

One person can also live as his own army🐴

I don't like loneliness, but I can tolerate it. Learning to tolerate loneliness is also part of growing up. Independent life also includes a part of loneliness. Accepting loneliness is one of the lessons of growth and independence [Chigua]

After thinking about it, I can only think of two words, thank you!

I came across this book when I was preparing to fall in love. It gave me the courage to get in touch with love. I knew how to fall in love and how to love someone. I also had the courage to not regret having a love even if I failed.