The Neglected Child: How to Overcome Childhood Emotional Neglect

It has benefited. Now that the neglected children have grown up, they should learn more about self-help.

"Treat your children the way you would have your parents treat you." Parents blindly want to control and change their children, but they ignore their original intention. Everyone is an independent and unique individual, neither a dependency nor a clone. Qualified parents can also make mistakes, but those who often make mistakes are not qualified parents. Children will regard problems as their own misfortunes. The book writes that raising a child to grow into an emotionally healthy adult who can form healthy connections with others requires a certain amount of emotional interaction, empathy, and sustained attention from parents as fuel. Without this necessary emotional connection, children may still succeed, but they will feel empty inside, as if they are missing something necessary. They are distressed and struggling, but no one can see it.

Suddenly, it became clear to me why I was like this. The symptoms of emotional neglect are almost 100% and almost none of them are bad. Why didn't my parents say they love me before? Why didn't they say they love me earlier?

This book It helps me a lot Think about how to respond that will make your situation, your life, and the world around you better. With the nourishment of words, I am no longer sad or timid, but accept the changes in my life. Gradually, books healed the pain and gave me the courage to face life again. There is a saying: "Reading is a spiritual journey."

This book touched me very much, and the concept of "emotional neglect" it mentioned was really enlightening. The author's cases and experience sharing were also very real and helpful, which made me reflect on my own growth experience and relationships with others. I particularly enjoyed the section on rebuilding yourself, the exercises and techniques felt practical. I feel this is not only a book for people who have experienced emotional neglect, but also allows parents to better understand their children's emotional needs. All in all, highly recommended!

Emotionally unstable, really ignored by parents too much

It's a very good book, especially the emotional words at the end. I realized that people can have so many emotions. I always describe emotions as happy and angry. I call other emotions weird. I can't describe them. I don't know what's going on with me. It turns out that's the reason.

This book is very good, it finally made me find the reason why I always feel pain of emptiness. The interior of emptiness has an emotion about itself, and it can be a very strong and powerful emotion. It has every power to drive people to do extreme things just to escape it.

Some words touched me very much. Some parents were complacent and said that their children would be less worried, but in fact they were derelict in their duties.

I like it very much and it helps me. I cry when I read it. It turns out that I am emotionally empty and lack the company of my parents during the period of personality development. No wonder I always want to cry. I feel lonely. Oh, I see myself who was injured in childhood.

This is a very useful book, which now allows me to understand the reasons why some of my emotions and personality become like this. As early as a few years ago, I was in deep pain and couldn't extricate myself. It was probably the feeling of emptiness that I don't know how to describe but I always had. The pain and self-blame of not being able to achieve perfectionism. I felt guilty and angry at myself when I was having fun. It was also the helplessness of being treated as an adult too early. At that time, I could only learn to save myself and reconcile with myself. But now, after seeing the treatment method at the back of this book, which is very different from my current state, I suddenly feel that I am really powerful, I am really good now, and I must live a good life in the future.

Parents actually don't know that they have neglected their children, they just raise them in the way they love. A neglected child will neglect his children in the same way when he grows up. I think it has something to do with genes, and I hope that after education, the awakening will return to a boundary-based upbringing and not pursue perfection.

I have been deeply touched, and now I am starting to grow up, but I need to make up for and heal the damage I have done to my body and mind... Come on...

The author wrote it in great detail, I hope it will be useful\

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Very warm and practical, I like it

Understand emotions and find yourself

Super super recommended

Narcissistic, autocratic, widowed, good for you! No wonder it's so suffocating

Good book, it made me think about what I should do

Thanks to the author for letting me see myself more clearly

I finally understood where my heart ailments were, and found that I often neglected my children emotionally.

A book rich in examples illustrating emotional neglect.

Very good book, gave me a lot of inspiration!

The content in the book is simple, understandable, and empathetic. The logic is clear and the practical value is high.

A very good book. You can empathize with others and learn more about yourself and others. You can also learn knowledge, transform yourself, and benefit future generations.