When You Reach Middle Age, I Hope You Can Live the Way You Like

I can't give it five stars, I don't know what's missing. . Maybe I didn't understand it. It's like walking into a big room and thinking about the simple yet meaningful and profound paintings hanging on its walls. But no. I don't know why after reading it, I felt that the writing was empty but good. Can't even remember what I read. There is no emotion, no sadness, and no loneliness that the author has mentioned countless times. This is a wonderful feeling. After I finished reading, I also excerpted what I thought was good, but what did I read? Lonely? It's a strange feeling when the clock is over. .

It is thought-provoking, with a blend of philosophy and human touch, deeply rooted in people's hearts and resonating with others.

I was attracted by the title of the book. Middle-aged people, some are old and some are young. You can neither stay with your parents to take care of them, nor can you accompany your children to grow up. Every day I repeat the work I am familiar with but don't like. I get very angry when I get scolded and can't talk back. Don't be impulsive easily. All the burdens of the family are on you, even if it's a particularly bad day, and you may collapse as late as you want. But when the alarm goes off the next day, you have to get up. I don't have any big ambitions now, I just want to live the way I like, just like the title of the book, middle-aged people, cheers.

The writing is very real, and the various expressions of middle-aged people can be vividly experienced. I forget to pick up a pen and don't know where to start. I envy someone who can speak and write. When I see his witty words, I always want to write them down. But after reading this book, my mind went blank. I just think his writing is very good and worth reading.

There are all kinds of vicious social attitudes towards middle-aged people from greasy middle-aged men and menopausal women; and if you really reach this age, you will know that your physical strength and energy are not as good as before, and your voice and smile are not as sweet as youth; the only knowledge you have is still in danger of being eliminated. ; At this time, there is no such great desire for eating, drinking, having fun and spending time. Really reliable middle-aged people at this time pay attention to continuous growth; they need to continue to grow with the times and see where their feet lead, so that they can see themselves, the world, and all living beings. Living a decent middle-aged life starts by reading this book.

When a person reaches middle age, it is equivalent to reaching a fork in the road in life. At this age, there are old age and small fatigue, and there are also old age and small wealth. The best preservation in the world is to keep making progress and strive to become a better person. This is more important than anything else. This is also the meaning of middle-aged life. At this age, the personality tends to be more perfect and impartial, and things will be more mature and stable than when they were young, and they will make relatively more rational and prudent decisions. The character is also more calm, and the mood is neither impatient nor impatient. In other words, people in middle age have learned the golden mean.

The book is a good book, full of stories and narrating life! Easy to understand, humorous and generous! Support! Support!

At this age, we can already understand some of the author's views. The seemingly endless story telling has actually happened around us. It turns out that many things are not nonsense, but we have not encountered them yet. In fact, many people live into middle age and are dissatisfied and dislike themselves. Both their spiritual world and physical functions have changed. They gradually understand their parents and can find their shadows in themselves. We devote everything we have to taking care of our children, in large part because we hope they can complete our unfinished goals. I very much agree with the author's shift of attention to themselves. Middle-aged people need to live for themselves.

I think the author's writing style is very sharp and humorous, not trivial and warm. They are all about middle-aged people in their thirties and the trivial things around them. It seems like he is right next to me, with the same circle of friends, the same friends, and children. Marriage may not be as thrilling as it was when you were young, and some people get sidetracked by the boredom. You may not be able to appreciate what is in the book until you are middle-aged. Middle-aged people are advised to read more and tell yourself that you are not alone. When you are busy, it is time to give yourself a vacation occasionally, and then return to reality and live your life as you should.

People often say on the Internet that middle-aged people are the mainstay of the entire society, but they are also the hardest generation in the entire society. They are old and young, and they bear many heavy burdens in life. Middle age is an important stage in one's life, and it is also a time to re-examine one's life and pursuits. At this stage, we may have achieved some life goals, but we may also face various challenges and changes. At any time, living the way you like has become an important desire.

I have reached middle age, but my thoughts and emotions have not yet reached that level. Sometimes I feel a lot of pressure, some are old at the top, some are young at the bottom, and some are in the middle. Sometimes I feel that I am childish, ridiculous, and irresponsible. There are many contradictions.

Some of them didn't agree with it, so they put it down and didn't read it in the middle, but listened to it one after another after that. There is gain and enlightenment, and there are rewards and demands in life. The perceptions are different, but they are all life, It makes people have seven emotions and six desires, they can't stop, they want to die... As long as you are not dead, you are alive!

This book is very real. The author uses humorous language to write about the entanglement and unbearability of middle-aged people, which resonates with me. The character Lao Wang next door in the book is very interesting. Although his jokes are a bit vulgar, they also reflect some realities. The author's writing style is witty and sharp, making it a pleasure to read. However, some of the content may be a bit disturbing, but it is still worth reading!

It is very realistic, can capture the reader's heart, make them feel the same, and is worth pondering!

It feels good in the front but not so good in the back. Maybe I am not middle-aged yet and have no experience.

When a person reaches middle age, the process of transformation from an immature girl to a mature youth to a profound middle age is carried out step by step. There is youthfulness, passion, calmness, and perseverance. He has learned to think, be independent, and be alone. Living well is the way to go. The book thoroughly analyzes middle age and encourages us to go on bravely and live the way we like!

Very interesting, I laugh and think at the same time

I feel like I learned nothing.

Okay, let's see if he curses or not curses 666

Midlife is full of crises and opportunities Middle age is greasy and fat, middle age starts from scratch Tribute to the beginning of middle age

Look at the whole process of your life

Comments on the last resort of middle age. Excludes family, human relations, and trust caused by other than money. People are divided into groups, and none of the author's friends started over because of money. It can be regarded as a white paper on marriage for the high-income class.

I like this book very much. It depicts a middle-aged person very realistically and touchingly.

The writing is so real for a middle-aged man, and his own experiences can make him think about his current situation. It turns out that many of them are social phenomena. People change, so sometimes things don't go the way we want.

The writing of this book is sharp and humorous, making people have endless aftertaste after reading it carefully! It vividly displays the life of middle-aged people in front of readers, and they will never tire of it! Worth collecting!

I think this book is very good, very vivid, and the metaphors are appropriate. I really want to read other works of the author.

Very practical!

I have feelings before and after, like it 👍

As a middle-aged person, I was deeply enlightened after reading this book. I hope all middle-aged people can read this book when they have doubts for the rest of their lives! I give this book a 10 and recommend it to people of all ages!

The writing style is my favorite... Humorous but without losing depth...