Everyone wants freedom, but freedom is not always a good thing, especially when we don't really understand its exact definition.
In terms of the understanding of freedom, Kant's understanding is very worthy of reference - freedom is not about doing whatever you want, but about self-mastery.
Jobs said, where does freedom come from? It comes from self-confidence, and self-confidence comes from self-discipline!
The meaning of self-discipline is to encourage you to restrain yourself, restrain and change uncontrolled indulgence, rely on strong willpower and persistence to formulate your own set of principles for doing things, and establish a stable and regular rhythm and order. Only in this way can a person gain true freedom. This kind of freedom not only includes financial freedom, career freedom, spiritual freedom, and life freedom, but also includes your freedom in love and marriage.