This is the first domestic collection of life and death stories recorded by front-line funeral workers. It records the sad scenes that each of us and every family has faced, is facing, or will eventually face: leaving loved ones without saying goodbye, the elderly with dementia who always cannot wait for their children, the fear of people in the terminal stage of illness, the grief of losing a child in middle age...
After reading these cruel and sad stories, how should we live well?
We never know when death and disaster will suddenly come, but before that, we can learn to be an easily satisfied person and learn how to turn impermanence into the wisdom of the best farewell, because every day we live is so precious.
Reader comments
Although the funeral industry is not favored by the older generation, in recent years, it has attracted widespread attention from young people amid the social background of serious internal conflicts and high pressure. In China, where the fertility rate is low, the number of deaths gradually exceeds the number of births. Too many people have left this world, and their relatives are not ready to face the eternal farewell of life and death. The author uses a first-person voice to narrate the little-known stories behind this industry. I sincerely admire the fearless spirit of those working in the funeral industry.
There is only a thin line between life and death. I left without preparing anything or saying what I wanted to say. An impermanent life, a life that will never happen again, living happily every day is to be responsible for oneself.
Thanks to the author for using simple words to bring impact to the depths of the soul. After reading the first two chapters, I was moved and thought-provoking. What is touching is that even if someone is gone, the earth will still turn and the world will function normally. But the person he loves the most will still miss him all the time. At the same time, I also think about if one day I reach this moment, will I have any regrets, will I be reluctant to let go, or will I finally feel free?
The last two chapters are a bit like reading a story, without so much description of the people around the deceased. Anyway, thank you to the author for bringing such a good book.
I saw a different life and hope to see more stories from the author
There is a lot worth thinking about, and my heart calmed down inexplicably as I read it. It was interesting to read it carefully. What impressed me the most was the young deceased. His parents brought the little frog back, and I felt warm in my heart. I thought about giving up before. It felt a bit boring at the time, but I continued reading it later. I can't find a similar book now, which is a pity.
Very good work, good luck to the author✊
It's quite emotional. When people are about to die, they always have more clear thoughts than when they are alive. Everyone will grow old. How should we view death, how to survive, how should we treat the dead, and how should we treat the elderly? This book has the answers.
People who are engaged in special professions see and feel the world completely different from ordinary people. The author has taken an unusual path, seen through life and death, and can still live with a normal heart. His psychology is still very strong.
A great book, I seemed to have a deep understanding after reading it.
In life, you should enjoy yourself in time, and cherish the people in front of you!
After all, misfortune and fortune are uncertain, and unexpected events are unpredictable.
You can only live in the present. If you have wine now, you will be drunk now. Remember to cherish the people in front of you!
This book truly records the story of life and death, making people deeply feel the fragility and preciousness of life. The characters in the book are very real and their actions and emotions resonated with me. However, I kind of hate the person who is impatient with the family members. He should understand the feelings of the family members better. This book made me understand that I should cherish the people around me and live a good life.
I have a question, is the author telling real experiences or stories?
I felt very heavy after watching it
Life is like a dream, no question about right or wrong!
I finished reading it in one go. The writing is very realistic and the language is humorous in some places, but it is also thought-provoking if you think about it carefully.
The writing is simple, concise and sincere, and the people's hearts are righteous, transparent and kind.
Reveal the hidden and true dark side of the funeral industry!
Although the funeral industry is not favored by the older generation, in recent years, it has attracted widespread attention from young people amid the social background of serious internal conflicts and high pressure. In China, where the fertility rate is low, the number of deaths gradually exceeds the number of births. Too many people have left this world, and their relatives are not ready to face the eternal farewell of life and death. The author uses a first-person voice to narrate the little-known stories behind this industry. I sincerely admire the fearless spirit of those working in the funeral industry.
There is only a thin line between life and death. I left without preparing anything or saying what I wanted to say. An impermanent life, a life that will never happen again, living happily every day is to be responsible for oneself.
Thanks to the author for using simple words to bring impact to the depths of the soul. After reading the first two chapters, I was moved and thought-provoking. What is touching is that even if someone is gone, the earth will still turn and the world will function normally. But the person he loves the most will still miss him all the time. At the same time, I also think about if one day I reach this moment, will I have any regrets, will I be reluctant to let go, or will I finally feel free? The last two chapters are a bit like reading a story, without so much description of the people around the deceased. Anyway, thank you to the author for bringing such a good book.
I saw a different life and hope to see more stories from the author
There is a lot worth thinking about, and my heart calmed down inexplicably as I read it. It was interesting to read it carefully. What impressed me the most was the young deceased. His parents brought the little frog back, and I felt warm in my heart. I thought about giving up before. It felt a bit boring at the time, but I continued reading it later. I can't find a similar book now, which is a pity.
Very good work, good luck to the author✊
It's quite emotional. When people are about to die, they always have more clear thoughts than when they are alive. Everyone will grow old. How should we view death, how to survive, how should we treat the dead, and how should we treat the elderly? This book has the answers.
People who are engaged in special professions see and feel the world completely different from ordinary people. The author has taken an unusual path, seen through life and death, and can still live with a normal heart. His psychology is still very strong.
A great book, I seemed to have a deep understanding after reading it. In life, you should enjoy yourself in time, and cherish the people in front of you! After all, misfortune and fortune are uncertain, and unexpected events are unpredictable. You can only live in the present. If you have wine now, you will be drunk now. Remember to cherish the people in front of you!
This book truly records the story of life and death, making people deeply feel the fragility and preciousness of life. The characters in the book are very real and their actions and emotions resonated with me. However, I kind of hate the person who is impatient with the family members. He should understand the feelings of the family members better. This book made me understand that I should cherish the people around me and live a good life.
I have a question, is the author telling real experiences or stories?
I felt very heavy after watching it
Life is like a dream, no question about right or wrong!
I finished reading it in one go. The writing is very realistic and the language is humorous in some places, but it is also thought-provoking if you think about it carefully.
The writing is simple, concise and sincere, and the people's hearts are righteous, transparent and kind.
Reveal the hidden and true dark side of the funeral industry!
Very good to listen to, very rich in content.