Zai Zai said: Love must hurt and be hurt by others, because you have to love deeply. How to penetrate the bone marrow? It has to be sharp, penetrate deeply, and then you can tell the other person that I am deeply involved. In my novel, a girl and a rock guitarist fall in love at first sight. He said she was stupid. He has no money, no household registration, and no diploma. He said why do you like me? But she was moved by his music. Behind the Huangpu River is the gray sky. He said I would leave because of love. She didn't understand, but she nodded anyway. They spent a year together, and the boy really left, in the winter when it was all festival time. He said, I want a passing love. Once you have loved someone, there is a mark on you that cannot be removed. This is the love I have experienced.
Having written two novels, are you trying desensitization therapy? I thought I could finally live a good life alone. In March last year, I burst into tears while listening to Xu Wei's "Always Walking" and "In the years of youth, we can't help ourselves". That's the singer we all love. A flower is still beautiful even if it falls on the mud.
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He has no money, no household registration, and no diploma. He said why do you like me? But she was moved by his music. Behind the Huangpu River is the gray sky. He said I would leave because of love. She didn't understand, but she nodded anyway. They spent a year together, and the boy really left, in the winter when it was all festival time. He said, I want a passing love. Once you have loved someone, there is a mark on you that cannot be removed. This is the love I have experienced. Love must hurt and be hurt by others, because you must love deeply. How to penetrate the bone marrow? It has to be sharp, penetrate deeply, and only then can I tell the other party that I am committed to it.
This is a very in-depth work, which conducts an in-depth exploration of the psychological activities in the interaction between the sexes.
Men's pursuit of novelty, uncertainty and other characteristics will indeed lead to unstable behavior in relationships and even harm to themselves and others. It's understandable that women also have strong emotional reactions when they discover a man has been unfaithful. However, we also need to understand that this kind of revenge will not solve the problem, it will only make the situation more complicated. Honesty, respect and understanding are very important in interactions between the sexes in order to build a healthy and stable relationship.
Throughout their lives, women must learn from men's emotional independence and their ceaseless pursuit of their own happiness. They must constantly improve their living abilities and comprehensive qualities to make themselves more independent, confident, sparkling, and live a wonderful life.
Women do naturally seek stability, but that doesn't mean they can't pursue their dreams and goals. Women can also pursue their own careers and hobbies just like men, and they must also have their own opinions and independent thinking in family and relationships. Both men and women should respect each other's personality and characteristics, understand and support each other, and work together to create a better life.
With delicate writing and a touch of sentimentality, every girl recommends reading this book. The room in the book looks at girls going from falling in love, breaking up, falling in love, breaking up, and suffering from emotional pain. Is what is in the room love or desire? It's hard for us to tell. In fact, we are all girls in the book. We must first learn to love ourselves before loving others, and then love others. The writing is very realistic, with a desire for lust, being moved by others, and a desire for love. The writing is very good and makes people immersed in it at one glance, unable to put it down.
Love can hurt people, because when we haven't grasped the essence of love, it turns into a vent of desire, and becomes an infatuated love and hatred between men and women that is constantly being cut and sorted out. For example, Jia Chun and Huadong. Women's emotions themselves are too abundant. Although most of them play passive roles in relationships, their persistence in feelings is terrifying. They seek various external methods to enhance their charm. They also do divination tests just to find the right man. But on the contrary, men do not believe in prophecies. The only dictionary in their lives is conquest. What kind of sparks will be sparked when two such different types of people gather in one room? A woman who is willing to give everything for love is destined to be injured, but the key question is, can she truly grow from the injuries she has suffered?
A person is a room. This is a room that can move by itself, and we can control which person is allowed to live in it and which person is allowed to move out. Such rooms are very big, but we don't stay in each room for too long, just like people will leave and say goodbye one day. The appearance and furnishings of every house are different, just like everyone's appearance and character are different. These rooms have their own privacy, just like people's psychological activities under the surface.
Without love, there is no hurt, without desire, there is no disappointment. No one likes loneliness, they are just afraid of disappointment. What is in the room is the transformation of a girl into a woman, and it is also a history of a woman's growth. She does not want to be hurt by the outside world, but she is hurt again and again, and history repeats again and again; a girl can never escape the word love, born out of love, and tolerant because of love. She falls in love with others before she has learned to love herself, and they will not become the girl's support. In the end, she still has to learn to love herself.
Zai Zai said: Love must hurt and be hurt by others, because you have to love deeply. How to penetrate the bone marrow? It has to be sharp, penetrate deeply, and then you can tell the other person that I am committed to it. Once you have loved someone, there is a mark on you that cannot be removed. In the novel, a girl meets a rock guitarist and falls in love at first sight. He said she was stupid. He has no money, no household registration, and no diploma. He said why do you like me? But she was moved by his music. Behind the Huangpu River is the gray sky. He said I would leave because of love. She didn't understand, but she nodded anyway. They spent a year together, and the boy really left, in the winter when it was all festival time. Listen to "In the years of youth, we can't help ourselves".
This book is very real and made me see the cruelty of love in reality. The heroine Nan is very sympathetic, and her persistence in love is heartbreaking. I hate the character west, his evasion and irresponsibility are infuriating. This reminds me of Naoko in "Norwegian Wood", who also suffered for love. This book is somewhat similar to "Norwegian Wood", both of which make people feel the complexity and helplessness of love.
It's very well written, exciting and realistic, and makes you want to put it down.
Look, come on!
Awesome, I like it.
Good novel, thumbs up.
Very interesting and rich in content!
I thought the storyline and writing were good
Good book, I listen to it every day, I will definitely finish it, I have collected it
He has no money, no household registration, and no diploma. He said why do you like me? But she was moved by his music. Behind the Huangpu River is the gray sky. He said I would leave because of love. She didn't understand, but she nodded anyway. They spent a year together, and the boy really left, in the winter when it was all festival time. He said, I want a passing love. Once you have loved someone, there is a mark on you that cannot be removed. This is the love I have experienced. Love must hurt and be hurt by others, because you must love deeply. How to penetrate the bone marrow? It has to be sharp, penetrate deeply, and only then can I tell the other party that I am committed to it.
This is a very in-depth work, which conducts an in-depth exploration of the psychological activities in the interaction between the sexes. Men's pursuit of novelty, uncertainty and other characteristics will indeed lead to unstable behavior in relationships and even harm to themselves and others. It's understandable that women also have strong emotional reactions when they discover a man has been unfaithful. However, we also need to understand that this kind of revenge will not solve the problem, it will only make the situation more complicated. Honesty, respect and understanding are very important in interactions between the sexes in order to build a healthy and stable relationship. Throughout their lives, women must learn from men's emotional independence and their ceaseless pursuit of their own happiness. They must constantly improve their living abilities and comprehensive qualities to make themselves more independent, confident, sparkling, and live a wonderful life. Women do naturally seek stability, but that doesn't mean they can't pursue their dreams and goals. Women can also pursue their own careers and hobbies just like men, and they must also have their own opinions and independent thinking in family and relationships. Both men and women should respect each other's personality and characteristics, understand and support each other, and work together to create a better life.
With delicate writing and a touch of sentimentality, every girl recommends reading this book. The room in the book looks at girls going from falling in love, breaking up, falling in love, breaking up, and suffering from emotional pain. Is what is in the room love or desire? It's hard for us to tell. In fact, we are all girls in the book. We must first learn to love ourselves before loving others, and then love others. The writing is very realistic, with a desire for lust, being moved by others, and a desire for love. The writing is very good and makes people immersed in it at one glance, unable to put it down.
Love can hurt people, because when we haven't grasped the essence of love, it turns into a vent of desire, and becomes an infatuated love and hatred between men and women that is constantly being cut and sorted out. For example, Jia Chun and Huadong. Women's emotions themselves are too abundant. Although most of them play passive roles in relationships, their persistence in feelings is terrifying. They seek various external methods to enhance their charm. They also do divination tests just to find the right man. But on the contrary, men do not believe in prophecies. The only dictionary in their lives is conquest. What kind of sparks will be sparked when two such different types of people gather in one room? A woman who is willing to give everything for love is destined to be injured, but the key question is, can she truly grow from the injuries she has suffered?
A person is a room. This is a room that can move by itself, and we can control which person is allowed to live in it and which person is allowed to move out. Such rooms are very big, but we don't stay in each room for too long, just like people will leave and say goodbye one day. The appearance and furnishings of every house are different, just like everyone's appearance and character are different. These rooms have their own privacy, just like people's psychological activities under the surface.
Without love, there is no hurt, without desire, there is no disappointment. No one likes loneliness, they are just afraid of disappointment. What is in the room is the transformation of a girl into a woman, and it is also a history of a woman's growth. She does not want to be hurt by the outside world, but she is hurt again and again, and history repeats again and again; a girl can never escape the word love, born out of love, and tolerant because of love. She falls in love with others before she has learned to love herself, and they will not become the girl's support. In the end, she still has to learn to love herself.
Zai Zai said: Love must hurt and be hurt by others, because you have to love deeply. How to penetrate the bone marrow? It has to be sharp, penetrate deeply, and then you can tell the other person that I am committed to it. Once you have loved someone, there is a mark on you that cannot be removed. In the novel, a girl meets a rock guitarist and falls in love at first sight. He said she was stupid. He has no money, no household registration, and no diploma. He said why do you like me? But she was moved by his music. Behind the Huangpu River is the gray sky. He said I would leave because of love. She didn't understand, but she nodded anyway. They spent a year together, and the boy really left, in the winter when it was all festival time. Listen to "In the years of youth, we can't help ourselves".
This book is very real and made me see the cruelty of love in reality. The heroine Nan is very sympathetic, and her persistence in love is heartbreaking. I hate the character west, his evasion and irresponsibility are infuriating. This reminds me of Naoko in "Norwegian Wood", who also suffered for love. This book is somewhat similar to "Norwegian Wood", both of which make people feel the complexity and helplessness of love.
It's very well written, exciting and realistic, and makes you want to put it down.
Look, come on!
Awesome, I like it.
Good novel, thumbs up.
Very interesting and rich in content!
I thought the storyline and writing were good
Good book, I listen to it every day, I will definitely finish it, I have collected it
A well-written book, silky and delicate