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" The pattern is seen in the small things, and the character is determined by the details. There is nothing in the world, everything depends on the human heart. Do what you should do, be grateful, be kind, and leave the rest to time and God." One day you will understand that it is never time that can truly heal you, but the time in your heart. Relief and structure, as long as you don't panic in your heart, even the world can affect you. You can be depressed, complain, or even collapse, but you cannot lose your ability to heal yourself. You must learn to stop losses in time. You don't have to win in life, but you must not lose to past mistakes and stupidity!

Only when the memory is cleared can new things be put in. This is a rule that is in line with everything. Only when there is an in and out is it in line with the laws of nature. It is very good. I have benefited a lot. I strive to achieve spiritual separation.

"Breaking Away" is a method that extends from the material level to the spiritual level so that we can live easily. This is the best of times and the worst of times. The best of times is when our material conditions are basically satisfied. The worst of times is when our spiritual needs have not yet caught up with materialistic desires and an overabundance of information. These tangible and intangible things come head-on into our lives and brains, satisfying our sense of security but also full of confusion and burden. Think about the things I bought with personal feelings because of impulsive consumption. One day in the future, it became my psychological pressure, just like a joke: I used to buy it and I was so poor, but now I think it is ugly. By the end of this book, I could no longer remember the specific details, but the words metabolism and flow lingered in my mind. I think they have been engraved into my brain. Only by untying myself and decompressing life can I go faster and farther.

Desolation is a book suitable for all people to improve the quality of life and personal taste. No matter what gender you are, no matter what age you are, no matter what industry you are in, you can get a lot from it. This book describes everything from the introduction of the vocabulary of severance, the acceptance process, to the actual operation of severance, and its simple vocabulary, making it easy for people to operate. Then it rises to the spiritual level, causing fluctuations in people's souls and producing effects. Finally, the release of the soul brings relaxation on the spiritual level. It embodies the philosophical thought of quantitative change and qualitative change.

What a quality book tells us is methodology, not operating rules. This book is beyond excellent. It goes from basic methodology to operating rules, and it is practical and effective. It is a rare masterpiece of high quality, and by extension, it has guiding significance for thinking about separation, separation, and even marriage in life. Could it be the good intentions of the Japanese author, and the translator of this book's translation is excellent, the language is fluent, and it is "spitting" with the theme of the book. …Worth recommending

This can be regarded as my second brush with giving up. I think just like the point in the book, whether it suits you or your needs is very important. The second time was also because I needed it. Last year, I watched "The Heart-pounding Magic of Organizing Life" and "The Ending" at the same time. In fact, I only watched most of "The Ending". This year, I chose the second time because I wanted to finish it all. More importantly, I also felt that I needed to make a further break. And the second brush did have the effect I wanted. I can see that I am now in the stage of giving up, and I can take further directions and methods. In fact, objects are only the concrete manifestation of abandonment, and what is invisible is more about our spiritual and ideological abandonment, taking control of our own lives, and gaining self-lightness and transparency. There are many similarities between these two books, but overall, the former focuses more on (specific) methods, while the latter focuses more on theoretical and conscious insights, but only the focus, both books include these. Finally, thank you to "Duan She Li" and the author for summarizing and sharing.

Watch it twice, each time to make yourself clearer

In this book, the author uses his own life practices and stories to show readers how to live in a simple and efficient way in an era of excessive pursuit of material things and possessions. She proposed the concept of "disengagement", aiming to help people better organize and sort out their lives, avoid unnecessary waste and stress, and at the same time have more energy to pay attention to and cherish the truly important things. If you are worried about how to have a more concise and efficient lifestyle, then this book is very suitable for you.

Break away from things you don't need and let in new things. Clean up the kitchen, room, old things, etc. According to the principles of separation, reasonableness and pleasure. Do not think about it for a long time. Do not save things that are not used for the future. Keep the space clean and tidy. Start from the small things around you. Be mentally clean. Do not remember the past or worry about the future. Live in the present.

It is a book that is worth reading and will make you feel better, make you feel more happy and relaxed, and give you enough space to calm down and live your life and face work or reality.

Realizing that there is still a distance between giving up and actually taking action. According to the author, start with small things and immediate things. I look forward to changes in my entire life, work, relationship status, and people's energy and spirit.

I feel that the most important thing that people should give up is their emotions. Life is only a few decades. Live the life you want, don't live in the eyes of others, have your own opinions, good living habits, good health, no internal friction, and self-confidence are more important than anything else.

Maybe I didn't understand enough. I only saw Grandma Yingzi's attitude and philosophy towards her life. It can indeed be reflected on herself and used in all aspects of life, but this is her story. There are a lot of things in it that I think are over-interpreted in order to make it look more deep, which is not what I like.

In this book, the author explains his unique viewpoints in a way that is meaningful, lively and interesting. After reading, I followed the author's method and took inventory of the objects around me. I really had too many things. My home was piled full of stuff. People in such a space would feel depressed and suffocated. However, I completely ignored the discomfort caused by this environment and kept adding things. Until today, I realized the power of "breaking away" and started to clear out those things that were no longer used but could not bear to be thrown away. This was undoubtedly a kind of spiritual cleaning. Throwing away excess things made me feel better.

I really like this book. I really like it. I have read it twice carefully. I have also put it into practice. Things at home are getting tidier and tidier. Thank you so much. I also bought the book Duan Sheli and read it often. I believe this book will change me a lot. If I look back in a year or two, I should have changed a lot.

Currently I am a practitioner of renunciation Pick out the things you don't need Can be put on the second-hand market and given to those in need Get rid of something that has the same effect For example, I have eight water glasses, all of which are used for drinking water. Discard the 5 and keep the three necessary ones. One room for work and one for home. The last one I will take with me when I go out We should return to the essence of objects She is for use, not for display as a vase. There are some things you don't have to have

From this we can understand the true meaning of "breaking away" and saying goodbye to all internal friction.

I recently finished reading this book. This book seems to have been published a long time ago, and many of the views on separation are still very popular today and are deeply impressed by people. The book shares a lot of useful information through some examples. Presumably some people can also see their own reflections in the people in the book. I think the essence of this book should be the last few chapters. I think the central idea that the author wants to express is also at the end of the book. Breaking away is not only about behavior, but also about sorting out the external objective world, but also sorting out one's own spiritual world. Before I read this book, I was practicing minimalism and slowly healing myself while giving up. After reading this book, I have a deeper understanding of the relationship between giving up and gaining, cherishing the space of life and cherishing the present. I think I will read this book again. [Laugh]

This book can help us master ways to improve our living environment, thereby further affecting our daily work and life. Cut off material desires, give up waste, and get rid of obsessions. What we deal with is not just the real objects, but the inner obsessions. When we learn to treat daily surrounding things with a detached mind, we can let our life enter the metabolic cycle and flow. The environment can feed back to our body and spirit, allowing us to live the life we ​​long for. Ps, I found that many books published by Tomato do not have high ratings. In fact, the book itself is very good and worth reading. The only drawback of this book may be that it was written by a Japanese

It's good, because after reading this book, I tidied up while reading. As a result, I tidied fewer things, organized them neatly, and my thinking became much clearer. Everything is known to be there. It's not like before where things were in a mess, and I would be irritated when I had to rummage around. Home is the most important place, and only by taking care of the home can you make more space for your thinking.

The most subversive thing in the book is the reconstruction of the "relationship between objects and self". The concept of "taking the current self as the axis" proposed by the author completely subverts the traditional "material axis" thinking. Just like those clothes in the closet that no longer fit but are kept because of "reluctance" to part with them, they not only occupy space, but also reflect our misjudgment of self-worth. When I was cleaning out my closet based on the criteria of "what I need now," I suddenly realized that those discarded clothes were actually a reflection of my past self, which was not confident enough and blindly followed trends. This process of "breaking up" is like the rebirth of a phoenix, allowing us to complete the reshaping of our self-image in letting go.

Yamashita Eiko's "Separation" is really an extremely useful tool book, not only for organizing space, but also can be extended to all aspects of life such as interpersonal relationships. The philosophical description of "Jian" is also enlightening. I once saw such a sarcastic sentence, "(If you want to stop being separated,) first stop being separated from the book "Desolation". In my opinion now, the person who said this sentence must have never read this book, and does not know how much practical and philosophical value this book is.

Starting from household chores that everyone can practice, the philosophical thoughts are concretely explained in a simple and easy-to-understand way, which is great! After reading, I realized that everything starts from the "heart", and through the separation of the spiritual and material levels, the heart can be made cleaner, brighter, and more joyful!

Very well written! It was recommended by a famous female star, and I took the time to listen to it. I felt that it was a book of enlightenment. Breaking away from renunciation is actually an exploration journey of enlightenment and continuous enlightenment. . This process allows us to understand ourselves more clearly, forge ourselves, and become our original and adequate selves. Let yourself shine brightly! Beautiful soul! It is highly recommended, read it and practice it!

It took me two weeks to read "Breaking Away", and I simply practiced some of the methods while watching it, that is, intentionally controlling the entrance, trying not to buy things I don't need, and then getting rid of useless things in my home to stay away from the nostalgia and nostalgia for them. Now I feel that the space is more spacious and my mood is much more comfortable.

The process of renunciation is the process of cultivating oneself, making oneself more free, confident, open-minded and clear-minded!

From the "detachment" of the external environment to the "detachment" of the inner soul, in this process, people become more and more clear about what they want? Some things and emotions are very important to you at the time, but as time changes, it may need to come to an end. If you keep carrying it and only increase it, it will be like the last straw that breaks the camel's back, and one day you will have no strength. Life is full of perseverance, relax and live freely, and we will eventually meet our true self and become the person we want to be.

After reading this, I am slowly giving up and changing my life bit by bit.

This book made me understand what true separation is. It's really great and worth reading.

I have benefited a lot from reading this book. Life is a process of constant subtraction and constant "cutting off and leaving". Only when you give up can you gain, and when you leave can you get together. The author's open-minded and self-satisfied concept helped me get out of the extremely anxious stage in my life, regroup, and start again full of energy. In fact, we should always reflect and introspect, take inventory of all the people, things, and things around us, discard unimportant things and unnecessary burdens, and make way for truly important and meaningful things, so that life will be easier and more satisfying.