Childhood Secret

As a preschool educator, I particularly like this book. In today's era, we don't pay enough attention to children and preschool education. Reading this book made me feel the importance and profoundness of preschool education. Children have inner growth, which is not what we adults think we are. The secrets of children are yet to be discovered. Children's education issues are what we should pay attention to and explore. I recommend parents and teachers to read this book with a heart of curiosity and love for children, and they will benefit a lot!

Looking at this book from the perspective of teenagers, there are many truths in the book that parents of the previous generation were not aware of. I think it is a very valuable thing for our generation to be aware of it. However, due to the wrong education methods and neglect of the previous generation, many people in this generation are afraid of marriage or even do not want to get married. I hope that such works will continue to be discovered and excavated by science, so that more people can realize how important it is to pay attention to mental health, especially from an early age. My parents were not competent parents. They just believed that if you have material things, you don't need to give them spiritual energy. After reading a lot about psychology, I found that this was completely wrong. Hopefully if I have children in the future, I won't continue to pass on errors with errors. This book is definitely worth reading for everyone who wants to be a parent and is about to become a parent. Although not much can be understood by everyone, the criticism will surely make you deeply realize how important you are to your child.

The author Montessori is an early childhood educator and the founder of the Montessori education method. Her book "The Secret of Childhood" reveals the secrets of children's psychological development and elaborates on her concepts of children's education. The content of this book is divided into three parts: the characteristics of children's psychological development, the distortion of children's psychology, new methods of children's education, and the relationship between children and society. As a parent, I have a deep feeling after reading this book. Children's growth is affected by many factors. How we help children grow is a lifelong issue for parents.

This book mainly writes that children have their own characteristics and calls on adults not to regard children as their own private property. Children need to think for themselves, and they have inherent laws of development. For example, children have spiritual embryos, absorptive minds, and sensitivities. Montesseau used his own practical cases in the "Children's Home" to present to us various psychological aberrations in children and their effects. Parents are called on to change their education methods and realize that children have the right to fight for their own rights and the responsibility to integrate into society. We should try our best to create a good environment to guide children's growth. By the way, Montessori's children's home case is very interesting. Her Montessori education method is still used for reference. Montessori advocates that children develop themselves in "work". Froebel's gift is also mentioned here. The gift is a toy that children can use to develop their own cognition. This book just deepened my understanding of the ideas advocated by two educators. Montessori advocated using teaching aids to allow children to develop themselves at work.

When my mother-in-law does something bad in front of her children, she always says that children don't understand anything. Do children really understand nothing? No, she will see it, maybe she won't do it, but the mark left on her heart will one day restart and explode. Isn't this why we always have conflicts with our parents when we grow up? If children are not raised well during childhood, it will cause great hidden dangers in the future. I don't want my children to receive the same kind of education I received when I was a child. It is said that lucky people are healed by childhood throughout their lives, and unfortunate people are healed by childhood throughout their lives. I want my children to be healed by childhood throughout their lives.

The adult world is not easy, but every parent can truly love their children and don't lose their temper with them because of the pressure of life. They have worked hard for a long time to come into this world. They have nothing but us [love] [love] I apologized for my unreasonable tantrum with my child because I was tired. Children must be encouraged more. Children with defects are actually very distressing. Don't magnify the children's shortcomings infinitely.

The epoch-making educational masterpiece of the 20th century transformed the traditional adult-centered education into a child-centered one, and reached a new level of human liberation. The external reward drive of traditional education has been abandoned and turned to cultivating children's internal autonomy. The teacher is only responsible for light guidance, and must maintain a sense of order. Well, the most important insight I have gained is the unity of human spirit and body. We have completed the preliminary unity of spirit and body in early childhood. However, if the outside world is full of criticism and denial, then we will doubt ourselves and doubt ourselves. The outside world denies our physical behavior, and our physical behavior is controlled by the spirit, which means that it denies the spirit. If the pain continues to deepen, the mind's control over the body will gradually be stripped away. In order to escape the pain, the mind will perform some actions, such as. Cutting off part of the control of the body, that is, perception, creates the so-called loss of reality. He will feel that time has become faster or slower. In short, he seems to be farther away from the world. This is dissociation. If the pain continues to deepen, then. The spirit may be divided into multiple parts, and one part of the spirit is allowed to bear the pain, then this is a split personality, that is, schizophrenia. To sum up, it is a pity that people's pursuit of the so-called sense of order, that is, the so-called truth, is necessary. The world is a cruel world, and the way of heaven is ruthless. Although we have established extraordinary science and explained many things in this world through a lot of efforts, the arrival of suffering is always unpredictable. Earthquakes will take away countless lives, and volcanic eruptions will not pay attention to human cries. Which one will come first, happiness or accidents? Although people will predict some things based on knowledge, life is always not as good as we want. People pursue a sense of order, and this world has no order and is unpredictable. Eternal pain comes from this, and our world comes from this

Lucky people are healed by childhood throughout their lives, and unfortunate people are healed by childhood throughout their lives. If you receive poor upbringing in childhood, especially in early childhood, your entire life will experience ups and downs. For example, some people will become very low self-esteem, hesitant to accept the love of others, and their hatred of others will be infinitely magnified. I have already experienced unreasonable upbringing by my parents, so I hope that my children can be treated reasonably without leaving any childhood pain. These are the reasons why I read this book.

The author is Montessori, the founder of the Montessori education method. I have heard about the author for a long time and this is the first time I read her book. The effects of childhood can last a lifetime. Montessori believed that parents should not overly interfere with their children's behavior, such as when children perform repetitive actions or behaviors. As adults, when we find that a child's behavior is inconsistent with ours, we can easily preconceive that we are right and correct the child, without realizing that our behavior interferes with the child's growth.

A child comes into the world with a brand new life, and the child's spiritual psychology is the most important thing Children should be independent individuals rather than appendages of parents. Let children make mistakes, let children fall, and let children have the consciousness to make their own decisions. What we have to do is to help analyze and guide. Come on, I hope that parents will become better and better and more aware. Children in the world will be happier every generation. They will come out of the twisted mud and take root in the beautiful nature. We just let him fly, treat the child as an adult, respect his first decisions and ideas, and let him fly freely.

Montessori's views are very inspiring. She emphasized respecting the natural development of children, which I very much agree with. However, I kind of hate the parent character in the book who always overprotects his children. He always prevents his children from exploring the world on their own, which actually hinders their growth. In short, this is a book worth reading. It will make you understand your children better and also make you reflect on your own education methods.

The author of this book is Montessori, the founder of the Montessori education method. I have heard about the author for a long time and this is the first time I read her book. The effects of childhood can last a lifetime. Montessori believed that parents should not overly interfere with their children's behavior, such as when children perform repetitive actions or behaviors. As adults, when we find that a child's behavior is inconsistent with ours, we can easily preconceive that we are right and correct the child, without realizing that our behavior interferes with the child's growth.

It is of great help to the healthy physical and mental development of children. As the saying goes, you can see the essence through phenomena. This book discovers the development process of children's psychology through children's behavior.

Invaluable educational reading material

There are many things that can be learned from, but they should also be viewed dialectically and absorbed according to local conditions after careful consideration.

This book is well written and worthy of parents' careful reading and study.

Worth pondering! Raising children is the lifelong responsibility of parents. Parents need to have stable emotions. Observing and cultivating children from a child's perspective should yield different gains!

Children are their own guides

This book really made me discover a lot of shocking ideas, which shocked me deeply.

Very good, super beautiful

It's too late to watch, I wish I had seen it earlier The more I read, the more I realized what an unqualified parent I am. I recommend parents to read this book.

After watching it, I feel like a child who hasn't grown up yet [eating melon] [eating melon]

A lot of useful information for educating children

To understand children's psychology, parents must read!

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Worth thinking about, a very good book

It is of great significance to children's development and worth recommending👍

A very good book, you can read it carefully