When You Are Busy and Beautiful, Why Worry About Gains and Losses?

The author of this book is great. It covers ordinary and common things, but when we need to make a decision, we always hesitate, are afraid, or even shrink back. But the author uses simple and straightforward truth to tell you that if you can't fall in love, break up. If you like something, buy it. The worst is to try again. There is no obstacle that you can't overcome. When you see that the battery of your mobile phone is less than 10%, there is no point in being anxious. You have to charge it one by one, and the same is true in life. These are small things in daily life, but these small things can also affect our emotions. "Busy and Beautiful" is a prescription medicine prescribed by the author Liang Shuang to all women. It is specially designed to cure your entanglements, confusion, glassy heart and overthinking! The summary is very accurate! I just think too much. Busyness is not about just focusing on work, but cultivating the ability to live a more exciting life no matter who you leave; beauty is not about having an empty bag, but knowing how to appreciate yourself, enjoy life, and dare to be yourself.

There is a saying that I like very much. It is hard to endure hardships, but my heart is really blocked. I have to learn to please myself. Life has given us too many roles. We don't need to ask ourselves to be perfect in everything. There is no perfect score in life. Be kind to yourself, do something you like, and reduce stress for yourself!

There are a lot of real life experiences and truths in the book, which can help us avoid detours. I am very happy that I have already experienced some of the things mentioned in the book in my life, but I am not able to express them in such a standard way to friends and the like. The author's excellent language expression skills make seemingly complicated truths easy to understand, and I learned something. I am very happy. It is a very good book.

It's a pretty good book. You can do meaningful things when you are anxious. Although people say you don't work for others, you work for yourself, so that you can have a better life in the future, but I don't quite understand it.

This is a book that I especially recommend, and I was lucky enough to finish reading it at the wonderful age of 20. It would have been better if I had discovered it earlier, and it is worth reading again and again. The author writes about personal external beauty, inner strength, self-discipline, behavior, mentality, habits, interpersonal relationships, emotional status, outlook on life, and the workplace... She gives many examples, which are generally easy to understand. They include what she has experienced and felt in her life, about the people around her, what she has seen in other books, and the summary of some issues that we know but have not thought deeply about. This book opened the door to another world for me, like I had an extra key in my hand. Book lovers, be sure to read it carefully, Feifei highly recommends it! ! If you have time, you can brush it up twice.

The author of this book is great. It covers ordinary and common things, but when we need to make a decision, we always hesitate, are afraid, or even shrink back. But the author uses simple and straightforward truth to tell you that if you can't fall in love, break up. If you like something, buy it. The worst is to try again. There is no obstacle that you can't overcome. When you see that the battery of your mobile phone is less than 10%, there is no point in being anxious. You have to charge it one by one, and the same is true in life. These are small things in daily life, but these small things can also affect our emotions. "Busy and Beautiful" is a prescription medicine prescribed by the author Liang Shuang to all women. It is specially designed to cure your entanglements, confusion, glassy heart and overthinking! The summary is very accurate! I just think too much. Busyness is not about just focusing on work, but cultivating the ability to live a more exciting life no matter who you leave; beauty is not about having an empty bag, but knowing how to appreciate yourself, enjoy life, and dare to be yourself.

A book with very upright views. Whenever I feel like being decadent, I will be filled with expectations and motivation for the future when I think of this title. The content is also suitable for newcomers who have just entered the workplace. Like it👍🏻

I wrote many comments while reading this book, because what the author said deeply inspired me and I learned a lot of useful knowledge. From the outlook on emotions to the outlook on life, from study to work, every bit conveys the author's life experience, and also gave me profound inspiration. I recommend this book! !

1: Clean yourself and your home every day. Beauty is not only external, but also internal. Be strong and beautiful! 2: Never give up on yourself, in every aspect. Stay curious and yearning for the world 3: Maintain self-discipline and learn to gain a sense of accomplishment. The improvement and enjoyment of the unity of body and mind. 4: Give yourself a sense of small rituals in life, and don't let your heart dry up. Don't be too grand and superficial, just keep your true feelings in mind 5: Get up 30 minutes early, exercise, eat, think about the plan for the day, and set off soberly and without panic. Lunch break is also important 6: Travel often, spend time alone seriously, and invest in yourself 7: Negative interpersonal relationships should be broken up in time. Never live in other people's emotions and never be dominated by emotions. Speak and act well. Learn to slow down your speech and lower your voice when you get emotional. 8: Refuse to twist, don't worry about the unknown, the past and the present 9: Live a prepared life 10: Grow upward and refuse to seek stability. Make money well and live well 11: Don't complain about one thing more than three times, solve it and face it 12: Mature people make choices, immature people react, learn to take the initiative 13: Learn to look at problems at two levels in the workplace, think more, and summarize more

A book that is very worthy of repeated consideration and well worth reading. I had a hard time reading the last chapter, maybe because I am not a working person. You can learn a lot from this book, and what you like about it is: when you hate a person, don't rush into the emotion of hating him to torture yourself, take the essence and discard the dross, learn from his advantages and throw away his shortcomings.

Talk less, do more, complain less, understand more, twist less, and be more calm. Open up the pattern, narrow the circle, and hope that everyone can live a more wonderful life!

The tone of the book is relaxed, and it is more like having a long conversation with a close friend. We are like old friends, talking to the author.

This is a book for women. In essence, in order to cope with the social crisis faced by contemporary women, that is, the loss of their own sense of meaning and the inability to seek support, it is also a continuation of individual independent modernity. The author believes that they need to get "busy" first. Busy here refers to having your own business and using your own time for personal improvement. The first priority is definitely the ability to make money. On this basis, women must find ways to balance their lives and become beautiful mentally and externally. Such women no longer depend on anyone materially or spiritually, their souls become full, and they no longer worry about gains and losses.

It's great. I really hope everyone will read it. There are many things in his book that make people realize. It's the saying on the Internet that appearance is justice, which makes people feel uncomfortable. However, this book acknowledges this statement and also proposes an advanced version. Improvement in appearance is justice, and there are many healthy lifestyles that are worth learning for us girls. It also gives some small examples, such as Haruki Murakami, etc., Which is also very helpful for us to accumulate some common sense. Moreover, this article is not long and is suitable for fragmented reading📖

It's a book that I couldn't help but read in one sitting. The author's writing style is really delicate. Although it is an inspirational book, it is not boring at all. The author has given us a lot of practical suggestions and methods. These methods can be incorporated into our lives and work to better guide our lives and work, making our lives better and work smoother. It is really beautiful. I have underlined many sentences from the book and copied them all [laughs]

This book will be on the bookshelf for a long time. After reading it, I felt like I saw a lighthouse in the fog of life. It not only pointed out the clear path, but also made me see my shortcomings. The dizzy and repetitive life day after day made me feel like a walking zombie. Look at yourself outside the circle of life, examine yourself from a high altitude, adjust yourself in time, determine the life you want, and strive for it. Regardless of success or failure, it is clear that living soberly is the meaning of life. Thanks to the author for publishing the book, I recommend all female friends to read it [smile].

I haven't read such a good article in a long time. Every article is enlightening and can be regarded as a bit of light during the confusion. The author's growth mentality is a good reference for many girls who have no goals and are in the period of anxiety and confusion, especially those with unstable personalities like me who are erratic, prone to random thoughts and easily affected by emotions.

It's so late to meet you, thank you to the author. Well enlightened. There are many very practical and operational methods in the book that you can directly learn from. For example, women should be strong and beautiful, busy and sassy. For example, self-discipline, eating light and healthy, going to bed early and getting up early, etc. Recently, I suddenly made up my mind to exercise and diet for two weeks. I don't feel any discomfort. I deserve a better version of myself and want to return to my previous good state.

This book is so good. It taught me how to deal with people, family and marriage, etc., And I benefited a lot.

This book is attractive. After reading it, I feel suddenly enlightened and my life and work are no longer so stressful. After reading the book a hundred times, its meaning will become apparent. I believe you may gain something different when you read it a second time.

This book is also very helpful for students who have just entered the society. It has reference points whether in life or work, whether in love or friendship. Reading it repeatedly will also give people unexpected results.

There are many self-help books, but the wording and examples in this book are very unique. I really want to get to know this author.

The author is a thoughtful person in life, who can present every bit of life to readers, and share his own good practices with readers without reservation. He is a writer with great love. At the same time, she also gives some inspiration to those of us who encounter small troubles in life. She is one of our good teachers and helpful friends.

I really like this book and recommend it to all girls! ! ! There are many things that women need to know, and it is a female growth story. We should live for ourselves and reduce unnecessary anxiety. Live hard and stay in a good mood [blowing kiss]

It can be seen that the author is very sincere and his views are very close to life. They are all very practical summed up by the author's careful observation of life. I hope I can also change my roughness and change my cowardice that I don't want to change. Spot inappropriate language and reverse the confusion caused by inappropriate language. Think about the problem across two levels.

The writing style of this book is relaxed and smooth, the writing is concise and clear, and it uses simple words to tell profound truths. The storyline is close to life and easy for people to relate to. Through his own experience and insights, the author tells us to be independent and pursue a busy and beautiful life. This book is like a good medicine, making us more brave and determined when facing the difficulties in life.

I feel that it speaks to my heart. The author talks about the problem and proposes solutions. It feels very meaningful to me and I can learn a lot.

It's very healing and can open people's hearts.

The book cites many thought-provoking views, from focusing on oneself to focusing on family, partners, friends, and the workplace, which can be improved based on one's own actual situation. At present, we are insisting on external image management and sports, and we are also paying constant attention to other aspects.

The writing is so good, very direct and authentic, and the views on the problem can be said to be "to the point". There are many constructive suggestions. You can try to solve your own problems according to your own situation and sublimate yourself! Every sentence is useful and has many resonances.