Life Needs Loneliness

There is a passage at the end of the book that deeply touched me - "Some people are born with good cards, but due to a bad mentality, such as blindly comparing, being too demanding, not knowing how to cherish..., They neither get what they want, nor lose what they have. In the end, the gains outweigh the losses and regrets." We always ignore the happiness we already have because we see the happiness that others have, and ignore the truth that "no one is perfect" - no one will be happy in all aspects of life. So no matter whether we get good cards or bad cards, we should pay more attention to the happiness that we already have, instead of always focusing on the good things that we don't have yet. We would rather hold on to what we have than always looking forward to what we don't have, because in that case, you may also lose the happiness you have. Then you will be the only one to bear all the regrets and sadness. All the incomprehension and other people's sarcasm are the punishment that you don't know how to cherish.

In terms of fate, whether you are familiar with someone or a stranger, they all have a certain fate with you. According to analysis, a person will meet approximately 29.2 Million people in his lifetime. The probability that two strangers will meet is only about 5 in 10 million, and the probability that two people will know each other is only 3 in a billion.

Audrey Hepburn once said: "Charming lips come from kind and friendly words; lovely eyes come from being good at seeing the good in others; a slender figure comes from sharing food with hungry people; beautiful hair comes from children's hands often touching it; and elegant posture comes from walking with knowledge." A true beauty must be beautiful both inside and outside.

One night, I was enveloped in loneliness and didn't want to do anything. When I couldn't calm down, I came across this book. As I read it slowly, I felt a little bit at peace with the loneliness. I even felt that I was lucky to be able to enjoy the time alone. I am grateful for the encounter and the healing [Love]

Please live with a rich heart This sentence suits me so well

After reading this book, I feel that my own situation is too small, and I need to readjust my mentality. Don't be emotional in anything you do, welcome every day with a smile☀️, and know how to be grateful

A good book is not about the exquisite writing, but the wonderful content, 👍🏻

This book starts from several topics. First, loneliness. When you are born alone, you are the most loyal partner. Take good care of it. No one stays with you longer than you. Second, we pursue love throughout our lives and achieve understanding, communication, companionship, and responsibility in love. In the long-term process of talking nonsense with each other, it is also a kind of connection. Trivial matters are also the lubricant of our emotions. Cherish each other. Third, do not do things that are far beyond your own abilities. Your abilities must be worthy of your desires. Otherwise, it will only add endless troubles, and go step by step towards your goal; fourth, let go, abandon people and things you don't need, and give yourself more time and healing; fifth, spend more time with your important people, satisfy their desires as much as you can, and have a clear conscience; sixth, don't be anxious about the past, don't be internally consumed by the future, living in the present is the best day, this is what we can control; seventh, let it go if the milk is spilled, otherwise we will lose the ability to be happy. Overall, I have learned a lot. I hope to slowly integrate the concept into my life, live a down-to-earth life, love my family and lovers, do what I need, work and live well, don't have too many desires, and the most important thing is to be happy.

It has solved my recent panic state and helped me understand a lot of truths. It is really important to have a good attitude.

The structure is clear, the examples are simple and practical, and the writing is very contagious.

In life, you must learn to take everything lightly!

I read a sentence and I believe it: No matter who you meet, right or wrong, he is the person who should appear in your life. This is not a mission, nor is it accidental. Whether you make each other happy or create regrets is entirely up to you.

Throughout our lives, we are looking for a harbor to dock.

Yes, I like it very much. The content is also very good. I started reading it today since yesterday. I have no time to read it with my children. I finished it on New Year's Eve at 17:07 pm on January 28, 2025.

Women must support themselves, improve themselves, and heal themselves, which is a lifelong practice

It allowed me to gain a lot of knowledge that I didn't understand before, and it helped me understand some things, which was really helpful to me.

Walking on the road alone, basking in the sun, listening to music, and blowing in the wind is more conducive to thinking and meditation.

Although it feels a bit like chicken soup for the soul, it feels quite useful.

Come here for peace of mind and meditation. Many of the author's ideas in the book are simple and practical.

The author cited many real-life examples, and in some cases he had to admit that he himself had been tricked. The layout is orderly and the titles are appropriate. A book well worth reading.

The content is down to earth, very real and simple, very good

The content of the book is very good and very healing. It can give you answers to problems you cannot solve and can enlighten you.

This book is good and speaks from the heart.

Life requires loneliness, because loneliness can help us understand ourselves more deeply. Some bad emotions, such as anxiety, may be a bit repulsive at first, but if you think about it carefully, it is still very beneficial. Appropriate anxiety and appropriate loneliness are all good for us. You must have goals, ideals and strive for them. Don't believe in genius. Only hard work can achieve something. Believe in hard work. Even if you fail, you will have no regrets in this life.

This book made me feel a lot. The book mentions that loneliness is the foundation of life, and we must learn to enjoy loneliness. As the book says, do what you like and don't be disturbed by the outside world. I really like the experience of the reader in the book who dared to try and finally found something he loved. This book also made me understand that there is no fixed pattern in life and we should bravely pursue our dreams.

The writing is deeply rooted in people's hearts and makes me feel like a Pelican Enlightenment. Everything I didn't understand before suddenly becomes clear.

I quite like it. There are many reasons that I don't understand, but I always feel that it has value. It may take time to interpret my unknown.

As the saying goes, I have benefited a lot.

This book solved a lot of my current problems, thank you very much

Not bad, keep going, keep going, keep going