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Partial excerpts from this book—— #In your alone time, let you become the builder of your own world. #There is a kind of loneliness that I originally thought was difficult to find someone who can share my pain with me, but later found that it is even more difficult to find someone who can share my joy. #She never takes the initiative to call me, but every time I call, she picks up the phone within less than one ring. Every time I finish calling her, my mother will call to praise me and say that grandma is very happy, but she doesn't know what to do, so she can only call my mother to share the joy. #Most people will not work in the same place for a lifetime, and most people will not work in the same position for a lifetime. All our accumulation is to lay a stable foundation for the last position in life, so every opportunity to gain experience is particularly important. #Where a person can go in the future depends not on imagination, but on what you have done and how well you have done today. #Waste your time on the most important things. #If you stop, that's rock bottom. If you're still going, it's uphill. This is the best explanation I've ever heard about a low point in life. #I often feel that once a person reaches a certain stage, life will start to subtract you. It will take away some of your friends so that you know what is important. It will take away some of your dreams so that you can see what you can achieve.

See mountains, see the world, see all things, see sentient beings, see yourself. Two or three years passed by, and summer came again in a hurry. Some people saw each other again, while others never saw each other again. Time knows people, and you can't understand a person without seeing anything.

Slowly enjoy your own time in your own world. I will no longer be timid in the face of loneliness. I will learn to slowly shine my own light and slowly illuminate myself! People who can stand on the earth with their own strength are brave people, and I want to be such a person.

The author used 33 growth stories to explain 33 kinds of loneliness and also brought me 33 kinds of feelings. Reading this book is like a monologue between myself and myself. It turns out that I am not alone in loneliness, everyone is experiencing it, or has experienced it. The loneliness we are experiencing is called confusion, and the loneliness we have experienced is called growth.

There are no flowers and applause in the world. Loneliness is a required course for growth. We must learn to accept our own loneliness, let ourselves know ourselves better, accept ourselves, and seek a more perfect self...

So, what is loneliness? I think loneliness should be - we were lucky enough to meet each other in the vast sea of ​​​​people in the world, and we have left traces; it should be - even though I have experienced wind and rain, I am still the same young man, and my heart has never changed. To be honest, I don't understand loneliness. Maybe it's because I'm still young, or maybe I've experienced too little. But I want to stay with loneliness, because it will be our lifelong friend. May I be drunk with loneliness one day in the future! My loneliness is glorious despite defeat😂

Although your loneliness is a failure, it is still glorious. Loneliness is a required course in life, used for self-examination and finding yourself. Loneliness is not the same as loneliness. I hope you and I can find ourselves in the years and shine in our own world.

When I was young, I didn't know what loneliness was, but I always talked about it in a way that I was trying to express my sorrow for new words. Now I just understand that no one can share the feeling of loneliness with me, but it is something that everyone has. When walking alone, slow down and enjoy the beautiful scenery. Being alone is a universe of its own. The story ends and life goes on. 🍃

The second time I read this book, I can't remember the first time. I even forgot to read the book when I read the title. I only know that I have experienced a lot before I can appreciate the taste of the book. Come on, stranger, the meaning of life is to find yourself, don't ignore the fragile "kid" in our hearts, and ask "him" how he feels. Life should be like letting a bird fly, not the sword we hold in our hands. He is free (the corner of his mouth is slightly raised, shaking his head) or freedom and loneliness coexist. I used to think that the word loneliness was a derogatory term. Most loneliness comes from others not understanding, or not wanting others to understand and making oneself unique. Maybe it's the same now, but the difference is that most loneliness comes from not caring about whether others understand or not, but paying more attention to the "him" in your heart and touching your head. This is also a kind of growth. Your loneliness is glorious even in defeat!

I am lucky enough to read such a book at this age. It empathizes and inspires me. Thank you.

What is growth? Growth is the process of knowing oneself. What is loneliness? Loneliness is facing constant challenges and confusion in the process of growing up. A sense of superiority arises. Enjoy solitude

At first we thought that as long as we were different, we would attract the attention of the world. Later, we searched all over the world, but what we were looking for was you who was just like me. I like these two sentences very much. Of course, there are other things I also like in the whole book, so I won't list them all. In short, I felt great after reading this book.

"Loneliness is a noun with no clear answer, the embodiment of multiple emotions, and many things that a person must face. The loneliness we are experiencing is called confusion. The loneliness we have passed through is called growth." This book describes all kinds of loneliness that you may encounter in life, including the loneliness of coming to a new study on the first day of school and getting familiar with the new environment, the loneliness of going home alone after graduation and setting foot on the high-speed train, seeing a doctor alone, watching movies alone, entering the workplace alone, and negotiating with others. Life is a lonely journey. In solitude, we learn to grow.

It's a great book. I first read it in junior high school. At that time, I felt it was very beautiful and powerful, and it made me full of fantasies about the future. Now, this book brings me more insights and strength! Just like a gentle big brother whispering about his experience, hesitation or joy... Maybe I will face many choices in the future, and I hope I can be so open-minded!

Loneliness is not scary. The scary thing is that you are afraid of loneliness. Loneliness is black. He doesn't hate you, why do you hate him? Loneliness and loneliness are not the same concept. Loneliness is your choice. Try loneliness. Face loneliness. Get used to loneliness. Grow up with loneliness.

I personally think this book is very good, and it is similar to my experience. Just like what is said in this book, "Injuries are all given by others, but pain is all your own." "Only by letting go can you accept it; only by accepting it can you gain new strength." "When you are alone, you can become the builder of your own world." Highly recommend everyone to read it! ! !

Being lonely is something that each of us will inevitably experience. Maybe it's the time when you just left your parents and wandered alone in the city; maybe it's the years when you face the pressure of life in middle age and have nowhere to vent, and you suffer silently; maybe it's the loneliness of being unaccompanied in old age. Loneliness will eventually accompany us throughout our lives, and we must have a correct understanding of loneliness, changing from "Loneliness is that we are the only one left in the world." To "Loneliness is that we can become a world by ourselves." Only then can we better adapt to loneliness.

Human beings are born lonely, and humans live in groups. Don't be afraid when you feel lonely, loneliness is normal. When you make peace with loneliness, you will find that everything is just like that, and you can just understand yourself.

Loneliness is never shameful, only those who think loneliness is shameful are shameful.

I'm just a lonely person, but there's no shame in that! After reading this book, I finally have some honest words to explain it, which resonates very much! Many years ago, I thought there was a difference between loneliness and loneliness, but I couldn't express it in precise words. This book gives us the answer. We are all alone, no matter how beautiful you are on the outside.

There is a saying about loneliness that I remember clearly: people are born lonely, but I didn't feel it too deeply at that time. But as time goes by, I find myself getting more and more lonely, as if you are the only one in the world, unable to describe it in words, no one understands you, and no one can empathize with you. It feels so bad but I don't know what to do. Now I understand that I am not the only one in the world, there are many people like me. As the author said, loneliness is not terrible

This book gave me strength when I was confused and lonely, letting me know that I am not the only one in the world who is lonely, and also taught me how to deal with loneliness. Therefore, words can change people's lives. And I am very lucky to have encountered a work that changed my life

This book was first recommended by a friend of mine. Maybe he and I both have a touch of sadness, so reading this book is very suitable. It really allows us to understand where the loneliness in many situations comes from and how it is treated, and it slowly transforms into our own understanding. And different authors' views on loneliness have opened up new horizons for us. Some people regard loneliness as shameful and regard it as a bad emotional existence. However, loneliness has its most real sense of existence. Because of loneliness, we can enjoy real life. Because of loneliness, we will pursue what we want more. Loneliness never seals ourselves in an isolated island, but allows us to stand at the top and understand the truest self more clearly. Let us learn to grow in loneliness together.

This is a book about life philosophy. Read other people's life experiences in advance and learn about the media work and life of the TV station. Sometimes I think about the word loneliness because I feel lonely and desperately want to find like-minded people. This book gave me a deeper understanding.

This book is like a caring friend, soothing our lonely hearts with warm words. Liu Tong uses his unique perspective and delicate emotions to make us feel the loneliness and persistence in life. There are no annoying characters in the book, and each story is like a reflection of ourselves, making people relatable. I like Liu Tong's writing, which is true and profound, allowing me to constantly reflect and grow while reading. This is a book worth reading again and again, it brings me new insights and strength every time.

This is a book that can comfort lonely souls. Like it very much.

The author's writing is so good, and it feels like he is writing about it. I was the same when I was in school and when I first entered society. I had very low self-esteem and wanted to please others to realize my own value. I was always very lost and felt so lonely. It turns out that we are all like this. From being different, we finally find that many people are struggling. Your loneliness is glorious despite defeat.

After reading the whole book, I have an indescribable feeling, which is the feeling that is related to what the author expresses. I can only use the author's sentence, your loneliness, although it is defeated, it is still glorious.

Yes, we must learn to adapt to loneliness and enjoy loneliness. Until later you will find that we are not alone.

There are people, and you are lonely everywhere; there are no people, and you enjoy every inch of it.