Many times, honesty is synonymous with stupidity and ignorance; many times, saying that a person is too honest is tantamount to mocking him as a big fool. You may often feel headaches and depression about the following problems:
●Having been content with the status quo because of fear of taking risks;
●Opportunities are missed again and again due to lack of initiative;
●Because I want to do everything by myself but fall into isolation;
●Because I hope to cover everything but often get crazy about small things;
●Because of self-imposed limitations, one lives a mediocre life;
●The gain outweighs the gain because of worries about losing face;
Do you know why? It's because you are too honest.
"If a worker wants to do his job well, he must first sharpen his tools." Before solving the problem, he must choose the appropriate way of doing things. If you do things too honestly, no matter how hard you work, it will not help; on the contrary, if you are more thoughtful and think a few more steps when encountering problems, you can easily solve the problems you encounter. There is only a stubborn mentality that cannot be changed, and there is no poor destiny that cannot be changed.
Reader comments
Everyone is feeling their own value, because this is the focus of life.
Many of the situations mentioned in the book are very similar to his, such as settling for the status quo because of fear of taking risks. But in fact, with a little more effort and more thought, many problems can be easily solved. I think this book is not only suitable for honest people, but also suitable for each of us. It allows us to better understand how to get along better with people in real life and how to seize opportunities. I have recommended it to him and hope he can be inspired! 🤗
The structure is clear and in line with logical thinking.
The definition of an honest person is not a derogatory term, but a need for re-planning of thinking. In this book, I still find my own image. I hope that people who have suffered losses and are bound by morality can read more of this book, open their minds, and redefine their lives. We need to continue to learn in order to meet a better version of ourselves. Yes, we are often constrained by perfectionism. We can lower our own requirements first before we can grow in the criticism of others. We don't have to criticize ourselves harshly. We need to recognize ourselves first so that we can truly be recognized by those who recognize ourselves, rather than meeting the needs of others. Morality is better for restraining us, but it cannot be the criterion for not competing and not getting ahead. Then we will feel uncomfortable. Obviously the most we do is not get what we deserve, so we still have to fight for it. Opportunities are not waiting for them, they are created. The goals should be clear and prioritized. Everyone's energy is limited and there are many interference factors, so they need to be specific and pay more attention to your inner existence. I hope you can face yourself. Work is an opportunity to train yourself. Don't miss any opportunity to grow. This is the fastest way to make progress and exercise, and to sum up experience. Therefore, proactive and serious people always take the first step when opportunities arise. Interpersonal relationships are also very important. Don't look at the superficial relationship. Helping yourself once is also your best response. If you know how to endure grievances, your heart will become stronger. Cherish every gift in life and treat everything with a grateful heart. You will encounter many setbacks. On the road to success, it will not be just once. It requires more training to have a stable mentality. I hope we can all live the way we like.
I have read two works by Mr. Fish in the Water, they are really good.
Really well written
The language is concise and clear, and the content is easy to understand. Full of useful information.
Everyone is feeling their own value, because this is the focus of life.
Many of the situations mentioned in the book are very similar to his, such as settling for the status quo because of fear of taking risks. But in fact, with a little more effort and more thought, many problems can be easily solved. I think this book is not only suitable for honest people, but also suitable for each of us. It allows us to better understand how to get along better with people in real life and how to seize opportunities. I have recommended it to him and hope he can be inspired! 🤗
The structure is clear and in line with logical thinking.
The definition of an honest person is not a derogatory term, but a need for re-planning of thinking. In this book, I still find my own image. I hope that people who have suffered losses and are bound by morality can read more of this book, open their minds, and redefine their lives. We need to continue to learn in order to meet a better version of ourselves. Yes, we are often constrained by perfectionism. We can lower our own requirements first before we can grow in the criticism of others. We don't have to criticize ourselves harshly. We need to recognize ourselves first so that we can truly be recognized by those who recognize ourselves, rather than meeting the needs of others. Morality is better for restraining us, but it cannot be the criterion for not competing and not getting ahead. Then we will feel uncomfortable. Obviously the most we do is not get what we deserve, so we still have to fight for it. Opportunities are not waiting for them, they are created. The goals should be clear and prioritized. Everyone's energy is limited and there are many interference factors, so they need to be specific and pay more attention to your inner existence. I hope you can face yourself. Work is an opportunity to train yourself. Don't miss any opportunity to grow. This is the fastest way to make progress and exercise, and to sum up experience. Therefore, proactive and serious people always take the first step when opportunities arise. Interpersonal relationships are also very important. Don't look at the superficial relationship. Helping yourself once is also your best response. If you know how to endure grievances, your heart will become stronger. Cherish every gift in life and treat everything with a grateful heart. You will encounter many setbacks. On the road to success, it will not be just once. It requires more training to have a stable mentality. I hope we can all live the way we like.
I have read two works by Mr. Fish in the Water, they are really good.
Really well written
The language is concise and clear, and the content is easy to understand. Full of useful information.
Very good, very well put.
Not bad, find your own shortcomings