Analyze the weaknesses of honest people, point out the way out of life for honest people, and open the book "Don't Be Too Honest" compiled by Fish in the Water, and the change has already begun!
You may often feel headaches and depression due to the following problems: you always suffer losses because you are unwilling to argue with others about the benefits you deserve; you are always being fooled by others because you are unwilling to use tricks; you always misunderstand your boss because you do not know how to watch people's words; you have difficulty surviving in the company because you do not know how to intrigue; you are often misunderstood by others because you are not good at packaging yourself. Disdainful of others; trapped in loneliness because you don't like to interact with others; stuck in isolation because you want to do everything by yourself; often crazy about small things because you want to be comprehensive; unable to resonate because you don't know how to praise; often offended others because you are straightforward; you hit a wall everywhere because you don't look at the target when speaking; do you know why? It's because you are too honest.
On the stage of life, everyone must discover the self that is constantly perfecting and growing. Let us put aside our too-honest concepts and characters, and rely on the superhuman courage and courage in our nature to change our destiny and achieve success. Analyze the weaknesses of honest people and point out the way out for honest people in life. When you open "Don't Be Too Honest", the changes have already begun!
Reader comments
After seeing the study of honest people in this book, I realized that honest people actually have no other advantages. Only honesty can be described as an advantage before being called an honest person. Therefore, I think I am also an honest person. This book also brought me a great psychological shock. Although I reject the progress of thought, because it causes pain in my thinking, but it cannot be broken or established. Only by recognizing yourself can you change yourself.
Although it is true, there are few cases to guide us to take action. It is still a bit difficult to understand when reading, and we don't know how to start changing ourselves.
I'm here to find a solution, not to ask you to feed me chicken soup.
However, we all know that the lack of courage to make changes is caused by a series of factors such as qualifications, habits, environment, etc. The character has been influenced by the environment since childhood. Changes are just a layer of poor disguise, making both parties uncomfortable.
Analyzing the nature of honest people, very true
The length is very short, so short that it does not say how dishonest it is, and fortunately it is not an opportunistic book. Improve your emotional intelligence, take risks, make more friends, and be normal. Success is very ordinary. It is ordinary enough to read one more book, ordinary enough to make one more friend, and ordinary enough to have one more smile. Don't be too honest as a person, and don't think about taking shortcuts. The more important thing is to be honest. Treat people and things in a down-to-earth manner, pay in a down-to-earth manner, and walk every step of the way. Improve your emotional intelligence, be brave enough to take risks, make more friends, be normal, don't complain, and be brave enough to express yourself. Although the book is short, it talks a lot. Finally, read more books
Change your cognition and life attitude, and constantly improve yourself to avoid being eliminated by society.
Do you want to be called an honest person? Are you willing to be an honest person? I don't know since when, honest person has become an ironic term. An honest person means that this person is easy to handle, this person is stable and poor, and this person does not seem to have a very bright future. This book does not deny the precious qualities of honest people, but it also points out the shortcomings of doing so very directly, and gives some solutions to change the status quo. In fact, you need to be more flexible in dealing with problems. The writing is really good, and I feel that every word touches my heart. I recommend everyone to read it.
Don't be too honest. The author does not want to teach us how to cheat and cheat, but to teach us another kind and principled attitude towards life. The author points out that honest people always suffer in social interactions. The reason is that one of the most basic characteristics of honest people is that "fear" comes first and they do not put "dare" first. Fear of getting hurt, fear of taking responsibility. Being submissive in fear is not the correct attitude to deal with problems. This book helps readers build a good and healthy personality by breaking our misunderstandings about honest people.
Without saying much, I will quickly describe the characteristics of honest people. Honest people are too knowledgeable in books. They feel that other people's moral standards are not strong enough when they are not compatible. They think they are noble and miss the possibility of establishing connections with more people. They may also say things that offend people. Everyone in the world has them. We can't do without dealing with them and know them. We don't need to make breakthroughs to save face, but we should absorb the advantages of others. In the social process, try to be a leader, describe more knowledge, discover your own ability field, and it is also a process of sharing with each other. There is no progress if you work behind closed doors. Yes, if you work hard, others will gain your experience points in the process of communication, which means you don't need to socialize and share experiences. Social networking is the exchange of value and a place where everyone needs it. More abilities are needed to enter the market, rather than educating you. There can be many level exchanges. You need friends, need to expand, and continue the process of absorbing energy values. In it, we need to build up self-confidence, strive for opportunities, take the initiative, socialize, not close ourselves off, no matter what the outside world, the winner wins, do not feel inferior, neither humble nor arrogant, and more importantly, we need to break our own inner determination. Socializing can be colleagues, the outside world, friends, friends of friends, or business districts. Constantly train yourself, break through your comfort zone, break your personality, challenge yourself, do your own thing freely, have no retreat, and move forward courageously. This is new ideas, new perspectives, and new power of action.
This book is very short, so short that it doesn't tell you how to be dishonest. Fortunately, it is not an opportunistic book. Improve your emotional intelligence, take risks, make more friends, and be normal. Success is very ordinary. It is ordinary enough to read one more book, ordinary enough to make one more friend, and ordinary enough to have one more smile. Don't be too honest as a person, and don't think about taking advantage of others. The more important thing is to be honest. Treat people and things in a real way, pay in a real way, and walk every step of the way. Improve your emotional intelligence, be brave enough to take risks, make more friends, be normal, don't complain, and be brave enough to express yourself. Although the book is short, it talks a lot. Finally, read more books
A very good book, I will read it many times.
Very well written. I like this book.
Holy book, benefited a lot
This book gave me a new understanding of honest people: no matter in the eyes of others, honest people are pitiful or ridiculous, but honest people often feel good about themselves. To others, not making a profit is a big loss, but in the eyes of honest people, not making a big loss is a big advantage. The highest ideal of an honest person is not to suffer losses, and his lowest ideal is to suffer small losses. Therefore, an honest person is easily satisfied, so his life is often full of happiness.
Everyone is an honest person, regardless of praise or criticism in life, I believe that tomorrow is uncertain, and we must grasp the present and think diligently.
I like this book very much and benefited a lot
Well written, the voice of an honest person
[Love] can still be affected
This book points out the problems that honest people may encounter in real life and also provides some suggestions for changes. I think it does not make people dishonest, but teaches us to learn to protect our own interests and respond flexibly to challenges in life while remaining honest and kind. The author's point of view is very practical and inspiring to me, and it is worth reading.
Very good book
I felt a lot after reading it
Good, good, good
After reading this book, you can understand yourself
Loneliness is the norm in life
Very good, in-depth! Very touching
Thunderous
It has certain reference significance
Well, changing your mentality and moving forward simply step by step is a good book
Indeed a good book worth reading. The author introduced all aspects in detail, and made some corrections on what we should do.
Thanks to the author for the suggestion. Come on, show off!
After seeing the study of honest people in this book, I realized that honest people actually have no other advantages. Only honesty can be described as an advantage before being called an honest person. Therefore, I think I am also an honest person. This book also brought me a great psychological shock. Although I reject the progress of thought, because it causes pain in my thinking, but it cannot be broken or established. Only by recognizing yourself can you change yourself. Although it is true, there are few cases to guide us to take action. It is still a bit difficult to understand when reading, and we don't know how to start changing ourselves.
I'm here to find a solution, not to ask you to feed me chicken soup.
However, we all know that the lack of courage to make changes is caused by a series of factors such as qualifications, habits, environment, etc. The character has been influenced by the environment since childhood. Changes are just a layer of poor disguise, making both parties uncomfortable.
Analyzing the nature of honest people, very true
The length is very short, so short that it does not say how dishonest it is, and fortunately it is not an opportunistic book. Improve your emotional intelligence, take risks, make more friends, and be normal. Success is very ordinary. It is ordinary enough to read one more book, ordinary enough to make one more friend, and ordinary enough to have one more smile. Don't be too honest as a person, and don't think about taking shortcuts. The more important thing is to be honest. Treat people and things in a down-to-earth manner, pay in a down-to-earth manner, and walk every step of the way. Improve your emotional intelligence, be brave enough to take risks, make more friends, be normal, don't complain, and be brave enough to express yourself. Although the book is short, it talks a lot. Finally, read more books
Change your cognition and life attitude, and constantly improve yourself to avoid being eliminated by society.
Do you want to be called an honest person? Are you willing to be an honest person? I don't know since when, honest person has become an ironic term. An honest person means that this person is easy to handle, this person is stable and poor, and this person does not seem to have a very bright future. This book does not deny the precious qualities of honest people, but it also points out the shortcomings of doing so very directly, and gives some solutions to change the status quo. In fact, you need to be more flexible in dealing with problems. The writing is really good, and I feel that every word touches my heart. I recommend everyone to read it.
Don't be too honest. The author does not want to teach us how to cheat and cheat, but to teach us another kind and principled attitude towards life. The author points out that honest people always suffer in social interactions. The reason is that one of the most basic characteristics of honest people is that "fear" comes first and they do not put "dare" first. Fear of getting hurt, fear of taking responsibility. Being submissive in fear is not the correct attitude to deal with problems. This book helps readers build a good and healthy personality by breaking our misunderstandings about honest people.
Without saying much, I will quickly describe the characteristics of honest people. Honest people are too knowledgeable in books. They feel that other people's moral standards are not strong enough when they are not compatible. They think they are noble and miss the possibility of establishing connections with more people. They may also say things that offend people. Everyone in the world has them. We can't do without dealing with them and know them. We don't need to make breakthroughs to save face, but we should absorb the advantages of others. In the social process, try to be a leader, describe more knowledge, discover your own ability field, and it is also a process of sharing with each other. There is no progress if you work behind closed doors. Yes, if you work hard, others will gain your experience points in the process of communication, which means you don't need to socialize and share experiences. Social networking is the exchange of value and a place where everyone needs it. More abilities are needed to enter the market, rather than educating you. There can be many level exchanges. You need friends, need to expand, and continue the process of absorbing energy values. In it, we need to build up self-confidence, strive for opportunities, take the initiative, socialize, not close ourselves off, no matter what the outside world, the winner wins, do not feel inferior, neither humble nor arrogant, and more importantly, we need to break our own inner determination. Socializing can be colleagues, the outside world, friends, friends of friends, or business districts. Constantly train yourself, break through your comfort zone, break your personality, challenge yourself, do your own thing freely, have no retreat, and move forward courageously. This is new ideas, new perspectives, and new power of action.
This book is very short, so short that it doesn't tell you how to be dishonest. Fortunately, it is not an opportunistic book. Improve your emotional intelligence, take risks, make more friends, and be normal. Success is very ordinary. It is ordinary enough to read one more book, ordinary enough to make one more friend, and ordinary enough to have one more smile. Don't be too honest as a person, and don't think about taking advantage of others. The more important thing is to be honest. Treat people and things in a real way, pay in a real way, and walk every step of the way. Improve your emotional intelligence, be brave enough to take risks, make more friends, be normal, don't complain, and be brave enough to express yourself. Although the book is short, it talks a lot. Finally, read more books
A very good book, I will read it many times.
Very well written. I like this book.
Holy book, benefited a lot
This book gave me a new understanding of honest people: no matter in the eyes of others, honest people are pitiful or ridiculous, but honest people often feel good about themselves. To others, not making a profit is a big loss, but in the eyes of honest people, not making a big loss is a big advantage. The highest ideal of an honest person is not to suffer losses, and his lowest ideal is to suffer small losses. Therefore, an honest person is easily satisfied, so his life is often full of happiness.
Everyone is an honest person, regardless of praise or criticism in life, I believe that tomorrow is uncertain, and we must grasp the present and think diligently.
I like this book very much and benefited a lot
Well written, the voice of an honest person
[Love] can still be affected
This book points out the problems that honest people may encounter in real life and also provides some suggestions for changes. I think it does not make people dishonest, but teaches us to learn to protect our own interests and respond flexibly to challenges in life while remaining honest and kind. The author's point of view is very practical and inspiring to me, and it is worth reading.
Very good book
I felt a lot after reading it
Good, good, good
After reading this book, you can understand yourself
Loneliness is the norm in life
Very good, in-depth! Very touching
Thunderous
It has certain reference significance
Well, changing your mentality and moving forward simply step by step is a good book
Indeed a good book worth reading. The author introduced all aspects in detail, and made some corrections on what we should do.
Thanks to the author for the suggestion. Come on, show off!