Life Is Long, You Have to Say Goodbye Properly

"There are thousands of ways to love, but we just choose the stupidest one." I think love is also a learning process. No one is born with the knowledge or ability to love. We often understand the meaning of love in the trivialities and bumps of life. May we sincerely reconcile with ourselves and others in the process of time. Even if it is just a dream in the end, we may also see the joy that the good things in the process bring us. There is no need to seek results in everything, because love is an unsolvable proposition.

I like you, just like you, not the you in my imagination, nor the you in a certain aspect or in a certain situation. I have many expectations for you, but I don't blindly worship you. The only thing I ask of the people I like is to "be yourself", as long as you are happy.

The more you like someone, the more you want to escape from them. Do you have any?

I love you, in this phrase, love is secondary, you are the most important. Still in love or not, it doesn't matter. Just be happy.

See the world on the road, recognize yourself on the way

I hope that there will be someone beside me who can see through my pretended indifference and heal the disappointment in my heart, even if you are late🤗🤗In addition, the author's writing is very good, and each character's personality and love experience are different. After reading the first chapter, I envy Miss Puff's love.

It's so well written. What impressed me most was "What should you do if the person you like doesn't like you?" Liking someone is like liking the sea. No matter how much I like it, I will never go near it. But I can listen to the turbulence of the sea and spend time on the beach. The sea is boundless. I believe there will be points, just like you like him.

Loving you is like loving the sea. I can admire the sea from a distance, and I can also feel the romance of shallow water on the beach, but I dare not go to the depths of the sea. Maybe I will struggle for a while, but in the end, I will sink here, and I cannot attract the attention of the sea.

I hope everyone can meet that person in life

Love can be encountered but not sought, sought but hard to find. I hope you and I can meet the right person on the road of life and go on together.

There is always a story that has its own shadow. I think someone understands it. For example, which one is more regrettable: never being together or being together and not reaching the end?

Love can withstand the test and loneliness (๑¯◡¯๑)

Everyone has a self-knowledge in their heart, and everyone is a stamp collecting lady. The passion that spanned the entire city for love is gone, and now we can easily get together and part ways. I'm glad you're here. You are gone, I am calm.

Each article has its own unique charm. Look quietly with your heart and feel quietly, maybe there were shadows of us in the past. Goodbye, youth. Goodbye, the person who can only say that I like you, but it is difficult to say that I love you. It can only be placed in the black box of the heart, and through some glimmer of light, one can recall and comment on it. Goodbye, maybe never again.

What kind of love is good? I think everyone's answer is different. Some people say we need to be like-minded; Some people say that there must be differences to complement each other. Some people say you have to be a good match, some people say you have to believe in fate. Some say love grows over time, others say it's love at first sight. Some people say that distance creates beauty. "If the love lasts for a long time, how can it be together day and night?" Some people say that we should stay together forever, and distance is the corrosive agent of all love. Some people say that marriage is the tomb of love, and some people say that marriage is the most beautiful thing in the world, so they say, "The wedding night is the night of flowers and candles, and the time when the gold medal is named."

There are many people's love stories in the book, which are a bit blurry, but the author still remembers the online love + long-distance love that lost to reality, the "old fool" whom he had a crush on in the four-corner love, Mr. Mosaic who we went for a ride with when we were young, and an ex-boyfriend whom we met again. You fell in love three times and twice on campus, so the author was not with the old fool at the end of the four-corner love. There are regrets and happiness at the end of each story. Mr. Ocean who did not say goodbye to Miss Bubble, sweet Miss Puff, Mr. Hourglass with low self-esteem... The love story of Miss Stone and Mr. Match makes people wonder, is there really such a "silly" boy? The one who impressed me the most was of course Mr. Shiba Inu. Why? Because I'm a hedgehog too [making faces]

When I showed my heart to you, you just replied hypocritically and said, "Go to bed early." At that moment, I knew that you never liked me. It was just the impulse of a certain moment that made you make an irrational choice, instead of firmly choosing me after many considerations and repeated hesitations. Because I like and care about every word you say, I will feel inferior to you and become less confident. Simply, I stopped my losses in time, even though I was shaking all over when I chose to leave, and my heart was in pain like a knife, but I didn't lose myself. I choose to run hard, reach the top, and have the ability to do what I like. But for love, I don't want to try anymore, let alone love someone with all my strength, because I still haven't forgotten the pain.

I like it. Now I am very confused and don't understand love. I just like it. After reading the book, I understand a lot. This is the first time I have read a book about love seriously. I will definitely not be confused in the future, so why not try to be first! Finally, thank you

I thought it was chicken soup, but I found that every story is written with sincerity. It is no longer the vigorous love of youth, thinking that the one you love can be leveled across mountains and seas, but more of an adult world, where dullness and surprise are intertwined, and ideals and reality collide, just like the stories happening around us.

We didn't say goodbye, but we made a tacit understanding that we would never see each other again.

The writing is okay, but is this a retelling of real events, or an adaptation of real events? It feels a bit biased towards girls' emotional stories. Some parts do not seem like the choices and ways of thinking made by boys, but it feels like the way girls like it, but it is still understandable. Both parties have their thoughts.

I like this book very much. The text is very profound. In this book, I feel like I saw myself at that time. I resonate deeply [love]. It's just that the traffic is not good. I hope that this good book can be discovered by more people. I'm waiting for this book to become popular [learned]

After all, love is objective mixed with a little subjectivity, sensibility mixed with rationality. When two people are together, it is hard to say right or wrong. Some people love passionately, and some people love lovingly. Sometimes we say that letting go is love, and sometimes we say that running in both directions is love. There are so many propositions about love. , We are just looking for the one among us throughout our lives. When one day we finally see clearly that love is love itself, it has nothing to do with romance, love yourself, and love others. We understand that meeting is already signed, and there is no need to worry about separation. Perhaps, then we can find the true self and understand the original meaning of love.

This is a really helpful book. The person in the story may be one person, or a type of person, it may be him, or it may be you or me. The happiness recorded in the story and the regret revealed are both profound and touching. I cried sometimes, laughed sometimes, and was filled with emotions. The author is a powerful person who has experienced a lot. He is either a witness, a participant, or just a listener of stories. It is really great to be able to record them and express them in a simple and profound way.

Sometimes, we don't really care about material things, we just want to tell someone in this way that I am here. Send each other "good night" before going to bed. Don't underestimate the words "good night". Good night my dear you. It contains my longing for not having enough to eat, the grievance of being ragged, and the pride and self-esteem that have been stripped away in my heart thousands of times. It contains the sunshine that kissed me in the morning, the road I have walked, the scenery I have seen, the ancient poems I have recited, and the secret I decided to bring into my dreams before going to sleep.

I hope that when we can love, we will love bravely

I finished reading "A Life is Long, Say Goodbye Well" by [Yan Xiaoyu] at 00:24 on June 14, 2024. The book currently has a score of 9.3.

More than 30 examples describe people's views on love, as well as corresponding endings. Promise me, if you want to start a new relationship, you can read this book, find the one you love, and write a story about you.

I can only say that it is well written and I can learn a lot. A circular circle, a non-cyclical edge.

If we are destined to be separated in the future, I don't want your pretentious regrets, or your ineffective attachment that feels lost in the dim lights. Even if there are memories as a gorgeous filter, they are not as good as the joyful mood at this moment. I don't regret meeting you, but it's a pity that the person who walked with me to the end was not you.