From ancient times to the present, all activities carried out by people, including politics, economy, military, education, marriage, communication, etc., Are all scheming activities at a certain level in a certain sense. "Psychology that Benefits a Lifetime" explains in detail the use of different psychology in different fields from the aspects of workplace, work, work, life, love, family, sales, negotiation, management, speaking, social interaction, etc. It is based on reality, drawn from life, and uses examples to support "psychology". It is rich in content and easy-to-use language. I believe you can learn serious life philosophy through casual reading.
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It's really good. It covers a lot of aspects, including the workplace, work, marriage and parenting, people, and interpersonal interactions. It's all based on real life. It also has many easy-to-understand and interesting phrases, such as people divide into groups, birds of a feather flock together, and borrowing roads to build bridges. Keep secrets, know yourself and the enemy, and win a hundred battles. To lead a cow, you need to touch its nose, and to hit a snake, you need to hit the seven inches. These are enough for me to digest. I highly recommend them. It is really good for those who are outspoken and don't know how to interact with others. [Learned][Learned]
Dealing with people requires a lot of skills and a certain amount of strategy. These things are the so-called "scheming". This is not some unfair means, but a kind of ability. People who are completely unscheming may encounter setbacks and be unsatisfactory when getting along with colleagues, friends, and even family members. This book outlines scheming in all aspects of life. It is based on real life. Each example is easy and interesting. Small scheming such as "beauty is a kind of capital" and "admit mistakes first" may make you feel comfortable in life and benefit endlessly.
So well written! I believe details are everything. From a general point of view, as an adult, everyone understands. However, details can be overlooked, and your words and deeds will affect how you appear to others. It's not that the person is bad, it's that the behavior did not satisfy the customer. If you want to be successful, details really matter.
If you have done something wrong, or you are not directly wrong, first admit your mistake and bow your head without explaining. The most important thing is to have a sincere attitude, so that the other party can calm down, otherwise things will not turn around very much. Own personal opinion.
Who am I? What job am I suitable for? Where should I go from here? This has been bothering me for a while!
So ambitious, I always feel like I have two brushes! Several interviews made me feel stressed! I'm also thinking about how should I make a decision?
I was deeply touched after reading this paragraph about recognizing oneself! Who I am? Where am I? Analyzing my own strengths, exploring them, and doing what I am good at is the way I should go. By running into walls everywhere, it made me reflect on my shortcomings. Studying with concentration is the only way to go.
"Although scheming is clever, it is not mysterious. You don't need to envy other people's communication skills. As long as you savor all aspects of life and understand human nature and people's hearts, you will see the blue sky and understand the key to "scheming" in life." This is the author's evaluation of scheming. It is different from the previous derogatory meaning of scheming. The author's scheming refers to the effective measures that people should take to achieve their own goals in the process of negotiating with others. This is not about benefiting oneself at the expense of others, but about mutual benefit and win-win results.
A very open-minded and excellent book that will greatly enhance readers. However, there are many situations and phenomena in life that are worthy of our deep understanding and understanding. We should recognize the human heart in the subtleties of life, always mention our good habits, learn the true philosophy of life, learn the most effective psychology, and firmly grasp our own life.
If you don't know how to effectively use psychology to help you reduce life stress and live a more relaxed and interesting life, then I recommend you to read this book. This book covers many practical psychological techniques. Through vivid and specific examples and scientific theories, the author provides an in-depth analysis of issues such as emotional management, self-awareness, and stress management, and provides a series of tools and techniques that can help people better face emotional problems, such as mindfulness meditation, self-talk, and cognitive restructuring.
This book uses relaxed language to describe the application of psychology in life. It is rich in content and very practical. The examples in the book are also very close to life and can be easily understood. Just like what is said in the book, "Scheming is not a conspiracy, but a skill for dealing with people." We can learn many practical methods from it to make ourselves more comfortable in life and work. Recommended to friends who want to improve themselves!
Learned a lot of knowledge
If you don't know how to effectively use psychology to help you reduce life stress and live a more relaxed and interesting life, then I recommend you to read this book. This book covers many practical psychological techniques. Through vivid and specific examples and scientific theories, the author provides an in-depth analysis of issues such as emotional management, self-awareness, and stress management, and provides a series of tools and techniques that can help people better face emotional problems, such as mindfulness meditation, self-talk, and cognitive restructuring.
Well, it lives up to its mission and its title.
I learned it, it inspired me a lot
It's very good, whether it's in the workplace or educating children.
Learned a lot of soft knowledge
This book benefits people.
A very good book. Plan to listen to it all. Listening again
It's really good. It covers a lot of aspects, including the workplace, work, marriage and parenting, people, and interpersonal interactions. It's all based on real life. It also has many easy-to-understand and interesting phrases, such as people divide into groups, birds of a feather flock together, and borrowing roads to build bridges. Keep secrets, know yourself and the enemy, and win a hundred battles. To lead a cow, you need to touch its nose, and to hit a snake, you need to hit the seven inches. These are enough for me to digest. I highly recommend them. It is really good for those who are outspoken and don't know how to interact with others. [Learned][Learned]
Dealing with people requires a lot of skills and a certain amount of strategy. These things are the so-called "scheming". This is not some unfair means, but a kind of ability. People who are completely unscheming may encounter setbacks and be unsatisfactory when getting along with colleagues, friends, and even family members. This book outlines scheming in all aspects of life. It is based on real life. Each example is easy and interesting. Small scheming such as "beauty is a kind of capital" and "admit mistakes first" may make you feel comfortable in life and benefit endlessly.
So well written! I believe details are everything. From a general point of view, as an adult, everyone understands. However, details can be overlooked, and your words and deeds will affect how you appear to others. It's not that the person is bad, it's that the behavior did not satisfy the customer. If you want to be successful, details really matter. If you have done something wrong, or you are not directly wrong, first admit your mistake and bow your head without explaining. The most important thing is to have a sincere attitude, so that the other party can calm down, otherwise things will not turn around very much. Own personal opinion. Who am I? What job am I suitable for? Where should I go from here? This has been bothering me for a while! So ambitious, I always feel like I have two brushes! Several interviews made me feel stressed! I'm also thinking about how should I make a decision? I was deeply touched after reading this paragraph about recognizing oneself! Who I am? Where am I? Analyzing my own strengths, exploring them, and doing what I am good at is the way I should go. By running into walls everywhere, it made me reflect on my shortcomings. Studying with concentration is the only way to go.
"Although scheming is clever, it is not mysterious. You don't need to envy other people's communication skills. As long as you savor all aspects of life and understand human nature and people's hearts, you will see the blue sky and understand the key to "scheming" in life." This is the author's evaluation of scheming. It is different from the previous derogatory meaning of scheming. The author's scheming refers to the effective measures that people should take to achieve their own goals in the process of negotiating with others. This is not about benefiting oneself at the expense of others, but about mutual benefit and win-win results.
A very open-minded and excellent book that will greatly enhance readers. However, there are many situations and phenomena in life that are worthy of our deep understanding and understanding. We should recognize the human heart in the subtleties of life, always mention our good habits, learn the true philosophy of life, learn the most effective psychology, and firmly grasp our own life.
If you don't know how to effectively use psychology to help you reduce life stress and live a more relaxed and interesting life, then I recommend you to read this book. This book covers many practical psychological techniques. Through vivid and specific examples and scientific theories, the author provides an in-depth analysis of issues such as emotional management, self-awareness, and stress management, and provides a series of tools and techniques that can help people better face emotional problems, such as mindfulness meditation, self-talk, and cognitive restructuring.
This book uses relaxed language to describe the application of psychology in life. It is rich in content and very practical. The examples in the book are also very close to life and can be easily understood. Just like what is said in the book, "Scheming is not a conspiracy, but a skill for dealing with people." We can learn many practical methods from it to make ourselves more comfortable in life and work. Recommended to friends who want to improve themselves!
Learned a lot of knowledge
If you don't know how to effectively use psychology to help you reduce life stress and live a more relaxed and interesting life, then I recommend you to read this book. This book covers many practical psychological techniques. Through vivid and specific examples and scientific theories, the author provides an in-depth analysis of issues such as emotional management, self-awareness, and stress management, and provides a series of tools and techniques that can help people better face emotional problems, such as mindfulness meditation, self-talk, and cognitive restructuring.
Well, it lives up to its mission and its title.
I learned it, it inspired me a lot
It's very good, whether it's in the workplace or educating children.
Learned a lot of soft knowledge
This book benefits people.
A very good book. Plan to listen to it all. Listening again