
Being Able to Keep Calm, Being Able to Bend Down, and Being Able to Raise Your Head: a Complete Collection of the Three Realms of Life
沉得住气 弯得下腰 抬得起头:人生三境界大全集
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People should learn to persist, learn to be patient, learn to never give up, and learn to control their own destiny in their own hands. If you want to have a successful life, you must have a successful attitude: stay calm, bend down, and hold your head high. This book explains the wisdom of "being calm" in life from the five aspects of mind, strategy, emotion, language, and action; it extends the wisdom of compromise and low-key behavior to the five areas of life: accumulating strength, accumulating strength, enduring hardships, showing low-key, and harmonious interpersonal relationships. Only by raising one's head can one know the general trend, know the choices, know the pros and cons, know the gains and losses, and understand the advance and retreat, and finally achieve success. The book's vivid language and rigorous logic make it hard to put down and gain deep understanding.
When I saw the title of the book, I thought it was very interesting. In just a few words, the attitude and realm of life are clearly explained. This set of books is divided into three parts: upper, middle and lower. The previous article explains the life wisdom of "calm down" from five aspects: mind, strategy, emotion, language, and action. The middle part extends the wisdom of humiliating yourself and acting in a low-key manner to the five areas of life: accumulating strength, accumulating strength, enduring hardships, showing off to others in a low-key manner, and harmonizing interpersonal relationships. The next article talks about how only by holding one's head high can one know the general trend, know the choices, know the pros and cons, know gains and losses, advance and retreat, and finally achieve success. The book's vivid language and rigorous logic make it hard to put down and gain deep understanding.
Life is a journey of continuous cultivation, and growth is an inevitable issue that everyone must face. The older I get, the more I feel I can hold my breath, bend down, and hold my head up. This is a profound realization of the lessons learned in mature life. The pattern is seen in small things, and the character is seen in the details. In this world, dealing with others is a great science. What can make the relationship between people go long-term is not money or power, but character. Possessing the three skills of being able to stay calm, bend down, and hold your head up can be the passport for us to move forward steadily. Follow Duanmu Zi and become a person who can hold your breath, bend down, and hold your head up!
There are three core different realms of wisdom and growth in life, namely being able to hold one's breath, being able to bend down, and being able to hold one's head up. This book provides an in-depth analysis of these three realms and explores how to apply them in all aspects of life, thereby helping readers better face challenges, improve themselves, and achieve personal growth. Through vivid cases, wise quotes and practical suggestions, it guides readers to cultivate a calm, humble and positive attitude in different situations, so that they can better adapt to and cope with various changes and challenges in life.
This book mentioned the three realms of life - being able to hold your breath, being able to bend down, and being able to hold your head up, which resonated with me very much. Just like a friend around me, she never got discouraged when she encountered setbacks in her career. Instead, she settled down to improve herself and finally achieved success. We should all learn from her, not to be impetuous or eager for success, but to do everything well in a down-to-earth manner. This book not only helps us stay optimistic when we are at the lowest point in life, but also keeps us awake when we are happy. It is worth reading!
In any situation, if we can hold our breath, express ourselves calmly, and bend down to ask others for advice, here are the most convenient and fastest ways to solve problems and help us gain a lot of support and understanding. When we reach the three realms of life, we will have a priceless treasure that will benefit us throughout our lives. This book uses easy-to-understand language and combines a large number of classic and vivid cases that can be used as reference around us, providing us with good learning tools from different perspectives.
A book worth studying that can spur you to make progress
Life is a very wonderful thing, you never know what will greet you next, but dreams are always something that will not change. As long as you recognize it and work hard towards it, you will feel closer and closer to it. People without dreams are like duckweeds drifting with the tide. People who have dreams but do not take action will only dream and do nothing. A very good book.
The thorough truth comes from life and work life.
A very inspirational book. Improve yourself, learn yourself, grow yourself. Improve your thinking and logical abilities. Improve the power of your own mind, worth watching, highly recommended.