How to Speak so That Children Are Willing to Listen, How to Listen so That Children Are Willing to Speak

. Establish realistic goals and pay attention to self-motivation. Low self-esteem is often caused by disappointment, and people's disappointment is related to their expectations for something. The higher the expectations beforehand, the deeper the disappointment will be later due to unsatisfactory results and unmet goals. Therefore, no matter what you do, you must not be too hasty, and your goals must not be set too high or too high, otherwise you will be easily frustrated. If the goal itself is larger and higher, it can be broken down into sub-goals, which will make it easier to win, and each success will be an incentive for yourself, which will help improve your self-confidence.

Parents should read more books like this to learn how to be parents and how to educate their children. Faced with children's mistakes and mistakes, they should communicate gently and give appropriate criticism, praise and encouragement. After reading this book, I learned to control my emotions better and hope that I can be a good mother too!

After reading this book, my thinking was enlightened by surprises and accidents, and I learned a lot.

If you believe your child can do it, she will definitely be able to do it! This is the role of expectations and encouragement! A good book worth recommending!

I have read part of it, and it is still educational. I will read it slowly and study it carefully when I have time.

Very good and very practical. I hope everyone will read it.

The words are straightforward, simple and easy to understand, and there are a little few cases.

After reading this book, I deeply realized that in daily parenting, it is easy to focus on achievements and neglect character, but the ability to respect, take responsibility, and resist setbacks is the foundation for children to gain a foothold. Education is not preaching, but the words and deeds of parents. Compared with temporary excellence, helping children establish a lifelong growth mentality is a more long-term education. Parenting also needs to return to the heart and take into account both character and growth.

This book not only solves many of the problems that bother parents, but also provides profound solutions. For example: The psychological factors that arise in adolescents are mainly caused by four major factors: physiological, psychological, cognitive, and environmental factors.

I gained a lot. After listening to this, I felt that I was usually too cruel to my son, always criticizing and yelling, so my son probably got tics. I feel like I have failed as a mother. I will definitely get along well with my son in the future and communicate well with my son. I recommend that novice mothers and mothers with bad tempers should listen to it.

The educational methods mentioned in this book are very practical! I particularly like the part about communicating with children, such as respecting children and being patient and persuasive. This is really important. The book also mentions that children should not be beaten and scolded at every turn, which I also agree with. I think the suggestions in the book are very helpful to parents and can help us get along better with our children. I believe that if parents follow the methods in the book, their children will grow up happier.

Yes, it's a pity that I discovered this book late.

Some are more practical and have good concepts. If there is a classic case, I feel that the goods will be larger

It's too euphemistic. It could be more direct. To put it bluntly, it means that parents are self-righteous, have unequal personalities, and deprive and violate their children's human rights. All good relationships are predicated on sincerity. Without sincerity, there is no respect. Use high-sounding reasons that sound right as a reason to hurt children or others. Excessive doting is also not sincere. If you don't have the ability to pretend to have the ability, society will not dote on children. Ultimately, children have to survive in society unless their own conditions are very good and they have the ability to help or meet their children's future needs. If you don't have enough strength, don't overestimate or shield your children, because your children will survive in society as ordinary people like most people in the future.

We all understand the principles, but we don't understand the implementation. We are all ordinary parents. Alas, it's so difficult.

Rich content, understand the factors to solve the problem.

Very good. It vividly explains a lot of truths with many examples. I have benefited a lot. Thank you.

Tell the content of the book well

I like it more, practical.

It makes sense

Worth learning for every parent

This book is really helpful

Very good educational book

Very good, I learned a lot.

Lots of useful information, study hard

Simple and easy to read. Recommend

Listening to books is very convenient, and the books are also diverse

Some of the views in it, such as standing in a child's perspective, keeping children's innocence, and encouraging them are all very good, and there are many practical scenarios.

It's very useful. It's easy to understand with specific examples.

Learn to be friends with your children and work together to make progress. Communicate more, communicate more, and interact more to understand each other's opinions! (Parents lead by example)