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Churchill and Mrs. Thatcher were both British politicians who left a mark on the international political arena in the 20th century and had strong personal influence. This book introduces the lives, personal experiences and political influence of the two politicians, Churchill and Mrs. Thatcher. Although the title of the book is about the legendary story of Churchill and Margaret Thatcher, which makes it seem like there was some interaction and competition between the two, in fact they were in power in completely different eras. This book actually contains the personal biographies of the two people. The author mainly extracts from various historical materials of the life experiences of two people, and describes their life process from childhood to old age. It is basically a stack of historical materials and does not involve more evaluation. Those who are interested in these two people can take a look.

The author has been studying empathic communication for many years, and has applied it to family relationships, parent-child education, conflict mediation, interpersonal communication and other aspects. It helps us improve our inner connection, so that we can express ourselves honestly, listen empathically to other people's feelings, and see the deep needs of others, so as to achieve heart-to-heart connections between people, achieve win-win results, and gain beauty and happiness. The cases in this book are vivid and the exercises are rich and practical. It is a good guide for dealing with real-life relationships.

Acceptance, recognition, reconciliation, harmony... Are the key words of non-violent communication. But it is not easy to truly possess them. Keep "practicing" and use your whole life to realize it... Keeping all things in mind without being disturbed or worried is the ultimate state.

Some people say: It takes us humans more than a year to learn to speak, but it takes us a lifetime to learn to listen. When many people are troubled by communication problems between themselves and others, they think that there is something wrong with what both parties say, but they often ignore the power of listening. Sometimes, we use a lot of communication skills, but we still cannot achieve the ideal effect of "non-violent communication" with our families, children, colleagues, and leaders. This is when we need to understand the power of listening. This is a very important link in the four elements of nonviolent communication: observing, feeling, listening, and requesting. Listening can prevent violence and prevent yourself from being harmed in times of crisis.

After reading Non-Violent Communication, if you read this book again, you will find a qualitative leap in your own life guidance!

Stay with your feelings, experience your truest feelings, and accept yourself.

"When we use the language model of non-violent communication, we must first pay attention to the purpose of communication - to establish quality connections with ourselves and others, so that heartfelt giving can occur. Our intention is to enhance connections with people, and increase the willingness to support and help each other based on the quality of good connections, rather than using a set of designed language methods to allow them to complete the transformation we want." Start trying to use non-violent communication, that is, using empathy to open the door to communication.

Each word is precise and precise, and it is a high-quality guide to life style. Unlike other books of the same type, or full-text chicken soup, there is no dry information, or it is disorganized, and readers are confused when reading it. The author of this book combines specific life cases to tell readers the power of empathy and how to communicate effectively, so that readers can understand, integrate, and draw inferences. The content of this book is very comprehensive and systematic, the analysis is very thorough, and it tells readers the deep secrets of non-violent communication.

Yes, I like this sentence very much, "People try to satisfy inner needs when they do or do not do something."

The author fundamentally talks about how to get along with oneself and others. I didn't understand it before and liked to blame the people around me. After reading this book, I realized that the most important thing is to understand your own needs first. It is very beneficial.

It's quite nice, it illustrates the core and content.

Observation➕Feeling➕Demand (need, request) = Interpersonal communication language expression High quality, recommended [like]

Not bad, recommend it to everyone

I can learn a lot and feel that the world has broadened.

A book worth studying again and again

A very beneficial book, worth studying and reading again and again