The Psychology of Talking: Women Who Can Talk Are the Most Powerful

This book analyzes people's hearts and tells us that we should prescribe the right medicine, put ourselves in the other person's shoes, and think about the fastest and most effective way to speak. Speaking is to show your own strengths, and talking is to exchange feelings and get closer. Therefore, don't fight about winning or losing on the topic, especially don't use the word "no" at the beginning. Only on the basis of appropriate affirmation, follow the guidance and let the other party realize their mistakes, and the differences will naturally be resolved slowly. Everyone loves to hear compliments. We must learn to observe, discover beauty, and praise it. We need detailed praise. Whatever you want the other person to do, you should praise his efforts and the shining points of his strengths that he has gradually developed in colleagues who praise his achievements, instead of blindly praising him for his intelligence. Praise mainly focuses on the acquired strengths rather than those that are innate. This will make him feel a great sense of accomplishment and the effect of praise will be significantly improved.

Communication and exchange are the basis for cooperation among the entire social group and are the most important behaviors in people's daily lives. As the saying goes, "One word can make a nation prosper." Whether it is well said or not, whether it is an individual or a collective, has a profound impact on its success or failure. Learning to speak, especially as a woman, mastering the propriety of speaking is very important for our lives and careers. This book starts from a female perspective and combines real cases to tell us how to speak well, so that we can have a smoother career and a happier life.

Speech can intuitively reflect a person's mental state and emotional level; eloquent, eloquent, or eloquent; these expressive expressions also reflect a person's mental level; and the author lists what to say on different occasions, coupled with psychological techniques to show readers a shortcut to improve speaking ability; but I think Because there is no shortcut in honing eloquence, in order to hone our self-cultivation and improve our speaking and expression skills, we must go through a lot of repeated practice while mastering psychological knowledge. The personal opinions of the parties in the case may not be something we can relate to, but through a lot of imitation and learning, we can also win in the speech field.

I have benefited a lot from it. Although some techniques can be common in life or TV dramas, the description in words seems orderly and coherent. Thanks

This is a book about communication and speech skills, with special emphasis on the power and influence of women in communication, and highlights the unique advantages of women in communication. Through psychological observation and research in the book, the author reveals women's talents in emotional expression, listening and social skills. This stimulates female readers' interest in exploring their own potential and improving their ability to express themselves. At the same time, this also provides society with a more balanced and inclusive communication model, promotes gender equality and women's development, and is an important reading in today's society.

Very good, learning is a pleasure

This is a psychology book. Unlike other types of psychology books, this book is more focused on teaching you how to speak. As a woman, we should learn how to speak and how to draw chestnuts from the fire in complex interpersonal relationships. There are countless examples and viewpoints in this book, and these viewpoints are very practical. The examples are also close to life, very reasonable and practical. Recommended for sisters to read, this book will definitely benefit you a lot.

The psychology of speaking mentioned in this book is really practical! I especially admire those who can speak well. I feel that they can always speak to others' hearts. Moreover, the book also cites many real cases, which reminded me of some of my friends around me. They are successful in work and life because they can speak. But I also have characters that I particularly dislike, people who are sarcastic and mean, and I hope I can learn some tips from this book to avoid becoming that person. In short, I think this book is worth reading and will be of great help to our daily lives.

There are many psychological books on the market. Unlike other types of psychology books, this book is more focused on teaching you how to speak. As a woman, we should learn how to speak and how to draw chestnuts from the fire in complex interpersonal relationships. There are countless examples and viewpoints in this book, and these viewpoints are very practical. The examples are also close to life, very reasonable and practical. Recommended for sisters to read, this book will definitely benefit you a lot.

Very beneficial, really good

It's somewhat useful, I hope I can get better and better

I have benefited a lot from reading this, and I would like to thank the author for [learning] a lot.

There is a harvest, thank you for your efforts!

This aspect of educating children is still very meaningful.

It's pretty cool to kill time when you're bored.

There could be more examples

It's a good book to improve your speaking skills.