High Emotional Intelligence Means Speaking to Make People Feel Comfortable (Hardcover Version)

When talking to smart people, rely on eloquence; when talking to clumsy people, rely on eloquence; when talking to eloquent people, rely on conciseness; when talking to noble people, rely on grandeur; when talking to rich people, rely on grandeur. You need to rely on elegance and unrestrainedness; when talking to poor people, you need to rely on the temptation of benefits; when talking to humble people, you need to rely on humility and respect; when talking to brave people, you need to rely on prompt decision-making; when talking to extreme people, you need to rely on sharp wit.

The structure of this book is clear, the language is easy to understand, and the examples listed are very convincing. It has played a great role in making friends and doing things for me. I am about to graduate in one year and will face many job hunting problems. However, I lack experience. I still don't know how to talk to the interviewer when applying for a job, or how to answer some of the interviewer's questions. This book just provides me with some methods, including the list of women's careers. Marriage issues and salary issues are also very classic and detailed, and I think the answers are very objective and very helpful to me. In addition, it also mentions some questions about the attitude towards life reflected in words, which I think are very inspiring to me. For example, the conversation between the boatman and the abandoned woman made me realize that the change in life is just a fact, and what can really affect your emotions is how you view this fact. This book is very practical, but there are still some deficiencies in some aspects. I think there may be some deficiencies in some cases. For example, Huang Bo signed the name "Wang Baoqiang". I think this approach may cause some subsequent problems and is not very appropriate. There is also an inherent thinking in some places, such as when couples quarrel in marriage. The author may think that women tend to quarrel, while men tend to be cold and violent. In fact, this is not the case. Men and women in life have different ways of handling problems based on their different personalities, which cannot be generalized. All in all, I recommend this book. It has inspired me a lot in social life. I will read this book frequently in the future to better understand the true meaning of the book. However, as the times change, some of the thinking logic in the book may need to be slightly improved. I hope my suggestions will be helpful to the author's future creations.

This is the first book I have read carefully. The examples in the book are all novel, well-founded, and can be combined with the actual situation. It is full of examples of real experiences of previous people, which are of great help to some of the small problems we encounter in life [Thinking]

A very practical book, I read it in 8 hours. The book tells the story of "high emotional intelligence means speaking to make people feel comfortable" through the details of life, including work, family, love, workplace, etc. The manifestation of high emotional intelligence depends on a specific analysis of a person's social cognition and self-worth, as well as comprehensive factors such as experience and knowledge. Before becoming a high emotional intelligence person, it is important to cultivate a confident and loving self! High emotional intelligence is indeed an indispensable other on the road to success, and being able to speak is only one of the manifestations of high emotional intelligence. But sincerity is more popular in today's society, and no words are as important as a sincere heart!

Some truths may not be understood at once and require time to be tested. Some people and some things cannot be understood at once, and it takes time to test them. High emotional intelligence does not mean that you understand how to speak and do things after reading a few books. It takes a long time to accumulate.

It is very relevant to real life. I think you can read it out again after a while. These life principles are not achieved overnight. You must slowly and personally experience them before you can truly understand them!

The written content and examples are very down-to-earth and easy to understand. After reading this book, you can learn a lot about how to get along with others and improve your emotional intelligence! Very good, I recommend this book!

For me, who does not have high emotional intelligence, I have indeed learned a lot. The examples listed in the book are very close to the actual situation of life. Many of the characters and situations listed are well-known public figures and are very influential.

It mainly talks about how to speak in various interpersonal interactions. There are many benefits, such as keeping wealth away from dirt, reducing age when seeing people, increasing money when seeing things, being humble when seeing greatness, and being steady when seeing less. In various interpersonal interactions, it is recommended to talk in ways and topics that should be avoided. Take classic celebrities as examples. They are all very good at enabling readers to accept and apply the essence of the book, to experience the events, and to understand them comprehensively.

It's pretty good. Reading it doesn't necessarily mean that you can change much, but you've benefited a lot. It's somewhat effective in guiding you. Maybe you'll be reminded of something when you do something at a certain period of time and avoid some unnecessary troubles.

The content of this book is good. It tells us how high emotional intelligence can resolve embarrassing situations at the right time. It is highly recommended.

The so-called high emotional intelligence means knowing how to speak well. How to speak? The bottom line is, take care of other people's feelings and don't embarrass anyone. With the theme of "speaking to make people comfortable", this book effectively combines language and human nature. Through a large number of real-life examples and refined key points, this book teaches us how to say words that make people want to hear by penetrating into others' hearts, how to say words that make people happy by understanding the needs of others, and how to say words that are not hurtful by "packaging" your own language... Make every word you say appropriate and comfortable, and you will be welcomed everywhere!

The author tells us: "Humor is the greatest talent." Gladly acknowledged. Indeed, humor overshadows all other talents. Humorous and light-hearted, it expresses people's ability to conquer sorrow. The smiles and cheers make people feel like they are bathed in the spring breeze, feel refreshed and all their worries are gone. In the human spiritual world, humor is indeed a rich nutrient and the best lubricant for interpersonal communication. Humor is of great help to self-control and self-adjustment. Research from an American university has proven that you feel better about yourself when you are humorous.

This book is very well written and I have benefited a lot from reading it. It is worth reading. [Smile][smile]

The so-called high emotional intelligence means knowing how to speak well. How to speak? The bottom line is, take care of other people's feelings and don't embarrass anyone. With the theme of "speaking to make people comfortable", this book effectively combines language and human nature. Through a large number of real-life examples and refined key points, this book teaches us how to say words that make people want to hear by penetrating into others' hearts, how to say words that make people happy by understanding the needs of others, and how to say words that are not hurtful by "packaging" your own language... Make every word you say appropriate and comfortable, and you will be welcomed everywhere!

At least it's helpful to me, and it's a book worth reading.

This book uses a variety of real examples to prove the points in this book. These examples also add a lot of vitality to this book. You will not feel bored when reading it, and it is of great help in getting along with people in daily life.

Not boring, there are examples. Every piece of advice is very useful. There are still many areas for improvement on the road of speaking. Come on

This book is really good

These things are too difficult for me to learn, but the content is quite good.

Many chapters are inspiring. There are many examples in the book from the perspective of the wife. You can add some from the perspective of the husband, so that you can learn more about the "high emotional intelligence" of maintaining family relationships.

The content is relevant to real life, and readers will have a strong sense of immersion in the situation. The author will also introduce many cases of well-known people that are rare to readers, making the article more persuasive. After reading many chapters, readers will really have a strong sense of identity.

This book is well compiled. I learned a lot about how to deal with people, and I also saw my shortcomings and corrected them accordingly. It was very helpful to improve my emotional intelligence.

After listening to two chapters, I learned a lot about how to deal with people. It is a very valuable and meaningful book. It is more suitable for students who are just starting out. After reading it, you will avoid making detours. There are simply those who are destined to absorb the golden value of this book.

Say what you should say, say what you can say, and also say what you know. The most taboo thing for people is to feel that they are omnipotent and that they have deep insights into any field. There may be such geniuses, but they may not be us. Therefore, it is better to keep a low profile and use your own experience to talk about things, which not only gives people a sense of sincerity, but also can really help others. Saying empty words will only make others hate us.

Just like the title, learn to make your words pleasant and comfortable for others to listen to.

Wherever there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and how to get along in the rivers and lakes and live contentedly is a lifelong cultivation topic for everyone. This book has benefited me a lot as I have just entered society. In plain and clear language, the author discusses the rules of communication that are applicable to any situation such as workplace, friendship, campus, etc. Some of the ideas in the book, such as "True high emotional intelligence, is not hypocrisy, but warmth", "Timely humor will make our words more beautiful", etc. Are very useful for students who have just entered society.

This book is highly recommended for people who don't know how to socialize. It's really useful. You can learn a lot from this book and it can improve your social skills and emotional intelligence as well as your ability to solve problems in terms of human relations and sophistication.

I like this book very much. It uses a lot of stories to teach us how to use speaking skills. Proper speaking skills used properly in interpersonal communication will bring unexpected gains to our work. Worth a look!

A very good book. It is well-founded. It explains the viewpoints and what we should do. It also draws inferences from one example. It is the book I want to read.