Current Worldly Affairs

This is a book that deeply analyzes interpersonal relationships. It mainly discusses how to appropriately disguise oneself in a complex social environment, leaving room for everything, flattering oneself appropriately, saving face and suffering, putting etiquette first in all things, being aware of current affairs and favoring the new and hating the old, being good at human relations, learning the art of tortoise, being snobbish, beating the dog that has fallen into the water, being good at horses but good at others, and not talking too much, etc. The book first emphasizes the importance of hiding oneself to avoid disasters, and points out that in a complex social environment, hiding one's strength and intentions, avoiding excessive showing off and exposing oneself, so as not to arouse jealousy, hostility or attack from others, is an important survival strategy. At the same time, the book also mentions the skill of moderately flattering oneself, that is, the method of demonstrating one's abilities and value in appropriate ways in interpersonal interactions to gain recognition and respect from others. In addition, the book also emphasizes the importance of tolerating others and being kind to yourself. It believes that understanding and accepting the shortcomings and mistakes of others can also free yourself from negative emotions, which is a positive attitude towards life. At the same time, the book also points out the importance of daring to admit mistakes, believing that admitting mistakes can help us eliminate the atmosphere of guilt and self-protection, and also help solve the problems caused by this mistake. In "Modern Human Relations", the author also deeply discusses the correct relationship between face and dignity. He believes that face and dignity are two different concepts. We need to care about our own face, but also respect the face of others, and when necessary, put down face for the sake of dignity. In addition, the book also mentions the art and skills of self-introduction, emphasizing how to effectively present yourself to others and leave a good impression in social situations.