To Be a Human Being, One Must Have Means

After reading this, in order to be a good person, your motives must be kind, your scheming must be profound, and your methods must be ruthless. People can only be screened and cannot be changed. Therefore, when you first get to know each other, no matter who you are, you must understand that if you offer some sweetness first and the exchange will be equal, then stay, and if you slap the nose on your face, you should quickly leave. And this is the most efficient way to screen out people who are worthy of deep friendship. When dealing with smiling tigers and old fritters, don't talk superficially. Just hold your breath and let the bullets fly for a while. Only in this way can we see through the undercurrents buried deep in the incident and distinguish between friends and foes.

"Means" seems to be a derogatory term. But in the author's opinion, "Without means, it means lacking the most powerful weapon. You don't know how to do something in the most correct and effective way." Means, like emotional intelligence, affect interpersonal interactions in daily life. The author's language is easy to understand, simple and simple when clarifying and explaining his views. And introduces several methods for readers to learn. In the narration process, it not only combines specific cases, but also combines certain common sayings, which can be said to be an excellent book.

Living in a complicated world, we cannot be stupid. We must learn certain techniques or methods that can help us avoid some harm. In this book, the author intersperses his views with rich and interesting cases, and through his popular and clear language style, he mentions in the book "focus on the heart, ask people to do things with zero resistance; grasp the sense of proportion, find out the boss's trump card", etc., All of which have strong guiding significance for our daily lives. Really benefited a lot.

Most of the views in this book are quite pertinent, and are of great reference value for young people who are not deeply involved in the world. By reading this book, you can at least avoid some pitfalls. It is recommended that those who are in school or new to society, and all friends who are considering improving themselves, take the time to read it.

Recommended, worth reading. "Means" seems to be a derogatory term. But in the author's opinion, "Without means, it means lacking the most powerful weapon. You don't know how to do something in the most correct and effective way." Means, like emotional intelligence, affect interpersonal interactions in daily life. The author's language is easy to understand, simple and simple when clarifying and explaining his views. And introduces several methods for readers to learn. In the narration process, it not only combines specific cases, but also combines certain common sayings, which can be said to be an excellent book.

"Mean" seems to be a derogatory word in people's eyes, but it can affect our communication between people just like emotional intelligence. "Without means, you lack the most powerful weapon. You don't know how to do something in the most correct and effective way." This is what the author wrote in the book, which shows the importance of learning to use means. The book introduces several methods, and combines specific cases and common sayings to explain them to facilitate readers' learning.

This book mentions many practical methods and techniques for being a good person! I feel that the author is very wise and can analyze complex interpersonal relationships so thoroughly. However, I don't like some of the views in the book that regard means as the only key to success. Overall, it is a good book that can teach people some ways to live in the world. What do you think?

This kind of book is a wealth of knowledge, good!

This book is a book that talks about the principles of how to deal with people. It says that you need to have means to be a good person. What are means? The author uses some easy-to-understand principles to talk about the means of being a human being. For example, the author says that the most important thing is to focus on the heart, so that you can ask for help and do things with zero resistance. When you face your superiors, you need to have a sense of proportion. Only when you are skilled will your life path be broader. When facing your peers, you must understand that "having both sides" is the best state. Treat others well to achieve a win-win situation. To control your subordinates, you must use both kindness and power.

The unity of knowledge and action, theory and practice. Knowing the skill is a great progress. The skill is the external appearance, but there are gaps in the heart. If you are proficient in worldly affairs, practice it step by step.

Not bad, easy to understand, concise and to the point, highly recommended!

It's worth a look and will increase your experience.

You can learn some ways of living in the world and it is worth watching. [Thinking][thinking] 2024.11.23 Finished reading at 15.52

It's okay, it's worth checking out and there are some historical stories in it

A good teacher and helpful friend, it will make you happy after reading it

The writing is very practical and is about things that happened in real life. I am still reading it before I finish it. I hope the author writes more of these books and reaches readers and listeners.