The richer your heart is, the simpler your life will be, and you won't have to carry a heavy load in life!
It is a philosophy of life recommended by the well-known writer Wu Danru and practiced by Hayao Miyazaki, Yang Lan, Zhang Defen and Ariel Ariel! Detachment is highly recommended by the People's Daily and highly praised by celebrities. The life organization method being practiced by 8 million people has become popular in Asia and the world! The companion volume to the phenomenal bestseller "Life Requires Self-Discipline" is released, a new masterpiece by entrepreneurial pioneer and cross-border genius Tong Xiaoyan! "Life Requires Self-Discipline" was sold out and reprinted within 15 days of its release. It has been in the top ten of Dangdang. Com's bestseller list for a long time. Nearly a hundred lecture tours have been packed with pictures and texts. It is a collection of high quality, and you can enjoy reading it! The whole book has two-color typesetting, exquisite layout, collection quality, and excellent reading experience.
Throughout our lives, we always think that the more we have, the more successful we will be. In fact, knowing how to do subtraction is the real great wisdom. Best-selling author Tong Xiaoyan, following "Life Requires Self-Discipline", launches "All-round Life Organizing Technique". To be detached from work - no anxiety, no procrastination; to be detached emotionally - not to be entangled, not to complain; to be detached emotionally - not to cling to, not to settle for anything; to be detached from life - not to be obsessed, not to pile up. Not only does it teach you to organize your belongings and tidy up the "rags" at home, but it also teaches you to make a break, give up, and leave in all aspects of life. Cut off the ego, give up the entanglements, and leave the fetters. As long as you recognize the essence of things, learn to do subtraction, and eliminate all noise, you can sort out the chaos in your heart, control your destiny, and have a more comfortable life.
[About the author] Tong Xiaoyan, Master of Business Administration, National Chengchi University, MBA, ESCP Europe (European Business School), Exchange student, Lifetime honorary member of BGS (Beta Gamma Sigma), the highest honor society in American business
Reader comments
Very good, very rewarding after reading it
There are treasure sentences worth collecting:
●The shortcut to success is to act immediately. Whether you can do it is a matter of ability, and whether you want to do it or not is a matter of attitude.
●Don't let bad emotions drive away good luck.
●Problems bring emotions, but emotions cannot solve problems.
●Everyone has the right to be unhappy, but they do not have the right to infect others around them to be unhappy.
●①When it's time to cut it off, don't delay.
②Excuse me, what is it that you can't let go of? Is it that you can't let go of "him", or that you can't let go of the "dedication" you've made to him? Is it because I can't quit him, or is it because I can't quit because I still have him in my heart? Or is it a kind of possessiveness, because he is not completely owned by you?
③The separation in love means breaking off when it is time to break up without being disturbed by it. After all, love is short, but life is still long.
●Don't be disrespectful to every enthusiasm, and don't please any indifference.
●Life is a stage, go up and show it off, and one day you will become the protagonist. Rather than dreams and expectations, what you should have more is confidence and move forward.
●There are always comments from the outside, both positive and negative, and you can never hear them all. If you want to achieve anything, you have to understand what is most important to you.
●Learn to stop being detached, and also learn to stop caring about other people's eyes.
Get rid of those negative energies, get rid of those useless thoughts that consume your will, get rid of the clothes and shoes that you haven't worn in more than two years, and be a simple and refreshing self!
Those who are "reasonable" adapt themselves to the world; those who are "unreasonable" insist on adapting the world to themselves. Therefore, all processes in the world are driven by irrational people.
What the author saw and heard and his personal experience told us about the so-called separation. If you want to succeed, it is impossible to copy and paste the success of others. You can only understand but cannot express it in words, and you can only learn from it but not copy it. After all, good-looking clothes may not necessarily suit you. Finding the one that suits you is the best.
This is really a good book, and people without experience will not understand its profound meaning.
However, no matter what your experience, level, or ideological level, reading it will be beneficial.
The author's writing skills are very good, and he is good at conciseness and simplicity.
I used to think that letting go was just throwing away useless items. After reading this book, I realized that we also need to let go of negative emotions, unnecessary thinking, other people's opinions, etc. Detachment is an attitude towards life, both towards things and people.
Good review! When I listened to it for the first time, it felt very life-like. There are some things that really need to be given up. I feel that giving up is to leave room for a better version of myself! I hope I can have more feelings when I listen to it in the future!
Life is an addition, but we should go in the opposite direction and make subtractions, such as "breaking away". It is a Japanese concept that means pursuing a simple, happy and refreshing lifestyle by getting rid of excessive material burdens and unnecessary emotional burdens. The book gives many specific suggestions, such as regularly clearing out items that are no longer needed or rarely used. In addition, pay more attention to your inner needs, reduce your dependence on items by looking for more meaningful activities and relationships, cherish the items and experiences you already own, cultivate a grateful attitude, and reduce the pursuit of more material things.
As a companion volume to "Life Requires Self-Discipline", this book tells us a way of sorting out life by subtraction. As the author said, "Simplicity is the most difficult" because people are always greedy. The author teaches us through this book what it means to "live simply and love simply". Life requires self-discipline, but it also requires the courage to choose to reorganize. Learning to let go is a kind of self-discipline in itself. In this book, the author interweaves case narratives with statement of opinions, and the language is bright and relaxed. It is a practical book with readable and reference significance.
After reading it once, I felt that I saw a lot of things, but I didn't understand them very well, so I was going to read it again with a notebook and a pen, and then read it again. Anyway, it is very interesting (mainly the author wrote some of his own experiences and insights from his own perspective, which is more practical). I highly recommend it.
This is a book about simplifying life and reducing material burdens. Through rhetorical techniques such as metaphors and parallelism, the author encourages readers to gain peace of mind and ease of life through separation. This book advocates filtering and eliminating redundant items and complicated matters in life in order to achieve a simple and refreshing life. Through examples and techniques, the author guides readers on how to reduce the accumulation of clutter and release spiritual baggage. During the reading process, readers can reflect on their living habits and object collections, think about how to reduce material burdens through separation, and how to find more inner peace and spiritual freedom.
I was touched after reading it, even though I am a boy and a wage earner. But what is written in the book are all things that can be encountered in life. Perhaps, in our era, material cultivation was greater than spiritual cultivation! In fact, what we lack is not the ability to make money, but that our thinking cannot keep up with the current situation of social development. I'm glad to see such a good book: thank you for your hard work!
Tong Xiaoyan is an expert in life guidance. Her book "Life Requires Self-Discipline" has been very influential. As a companion volume, this book also implements the general concept of a better life, that is, "cut off the ego, give up the entanglement, and leave the fetters." In an era of increasingly abundant materials and emotions, it is more important to learn to do subtraction than to add. Don't be anxious or procrastinate at work; don't get entangled emotionally or complain; don't cling to or be particular about emotions; don't be obsessed with or pile up in life. These principles can help you live more comfortably.
This is a book about simplifying life and reducing material burdens. Through rhetorical techniques such as metaphors and parallelism, the author encourages readers to gain peace of mind and ease of life through separation. This book advocates filtering and eliminating redundant items and complicated matters in life in order to achieve a simple and refreshing life. Through examples and techniques, the author guides readers on how to reduce the accumulation of clutter and release spiritual baggage. During the reading process, readers can reflect on their living habits and object collections, think about how to reduce material burdens through separation, and how to find more inner peace and spiritual freedom.
I learned something from this book about separation. I used to always put others first and felt that everyone was a good person. I didn't have any scheming skills before. I always liked to treat everyone with a normal heart, but later I found that I was always hurt...
There are too many things that are not needed. However, there are indeed various reasons for taking it back.
First find your suitable goals, hobbies, special subjects you want to learn, etc., And then plan your every day and every step, update and modify the shortcomings you encounter, and slowly correct them (otherwise it will be easy to give up). Don't be anxious. Even if you fail, immediately change another way to continue. Give yourself more opportunities. Even if you are lazy today, it doesn't matter. We should relax ourselves and correct it immediately tomorrow. Bad habits are slowly changed step by step. We are ordinary and ordinary, so we can make mistakes! As long as you don't give up! Then we persist in correcting and doing it. One day we make fewer and fewer mistakes, persist longer and longer, and slowly we grow!
Don't think about becoming fat in one bite. Ask those fat people, is it so easy to lose weight? So if you want to gain weight, you can't just eat it all, and the same goes for success!
The reason for the four stars is that I feel that some parts of the article are a bit subjective, and some chapters are not particularly profound, so it is a bit boring to read and I want to fast forward. This is just a personal feeling and does not represent all readers.
I just started reading it and I didn't understand why the author kept typing English words. I deducted one point.
The author's great work. After reading it, you are honored to see such a profound book here. The author is also very humble in writing. Anyway, I was very moved by what I read. There may be some things that I don't understand very well, but that doesn't stop me from liking it. I like your book very much. In fact, I rarely like a book. I was very inspired by this book because I am also a very contradictory person. I also keep denying myself. Maybe I am surrounded by the voices of many people who deny me. I want to join the copper plate team! Thank you author for writing such a good book
Life is an addition, but we should go in the opposite direction and make subtractions, such as "breaking away". It is a Japanese concept that means pursuing a simple, happy and refreshing lifestyle by getting rid of excessive material burdens and unnecessary emotional burdens. The book gives many specific suggestions, such as regularly clearing out items that are no longer needed or rarely used. In addition, pay more attention to your inner needs, reduce your dependence on items by looking for more meaningful activities and relationships, cherish the items and experiences you already own, cultivate a grateful attitude, and reduce the pursuit of more material things.
I have a lot of feelings about this book. In life, you must learn to let go from all aspects. Don't care too much about what the outside world says. Follow your own heart and improve yourself.
Learn to see the world and life from a new perspective. Know how to give up and open your mind. This is what I thought after reading it
Rather than saying that this book teaches me how to break up, it is better to say that the author in this book uses her attitude towards life and work, and seriously seizes every opportunity to learn, practice, and strive for improvement. She is responsible for the present, responsible for herself, and the spirit of perseverance has infected me.
It's quite realistic and quite silly.
I haven't read a book for a long time, I have been busy at work. I accidentally came across this book during my trip back to my hometown on May 1st. I learned a lot and was very honored. Many of my views resonated with my own. Many of the scenes mentioned in the book are so similar to mine. I just want to say that no matter what age you are, you still need to read more books. You can naturally find close friends in books.
It's very inspiring to me and I will continue to support the author! !
After reading it, I feel that I have many shortcomings, which has benefited me a lot. The first step is to work hard to become self-disciplined.
In this book, I learned a lot of principles of life, learned experience, and supplemented my shortcomings to realize my goals and dreams when I was young.
Give people the motivation to move forward, spiritual food, and a harbor of love.
Very good, very rewarding after reading it There are treasure sentences worth collecting: ●The shortcut to success is to act immediately. Whether you can do it is a matter of ability, and whether you want to do it or not is a matter of attitude. ●Don't let bad emotions drive away good luck. ●Problems bring emotions, but emotions cannot solve problems. ●Everyone has the right to be unhappy, but they do not have the right to infect others around them to be unhappy. ●①When it's time to cut it off, don't delay. ②Excuse me, what is it that you can't let go of? Is it that you can't let go of "him", or that you can't let go of the "dedication" you've made to him? Is it because I can't quit him, or is it because I can't quit because I still have him in my heart? Or is it a kind of possessiveness, because he is not completely owned by you? ③The separation in love means breaking off when it is time to break up without being disturbed by it. After all, love is short, but life is still long. ●Don't be disrespectful to every enthusiasm, and don't please any indifference. ●Life is a stage, go up and show it off, and one day you will become the protagonist. Rather than dreams and expectations, what you should have more is confidence and move forward. ●There are always comments from the outside, both positive and negative, and you can never hear them all. If you want to achieve anything, you have to understand what is most important to you. ●Learn to stop being detached, and also learn to stop caring about other people's eyes.
Get rid of those negative energies, get rid of those useless thoughts that consume your will, get rid of the clothes and shoes that you haven't worn in more than two years, and be a simple and refreshing self!
Those who are "reasonable" adapt themselves to the world; those who are "unreasonable" insist on adapting the world to themselves. Therefore, all processes in the world are driven by irrational people.
What the author saw and heard and his personal experience told us about the so-called separation. If you want to succeed, it is impossible to copy and paste the success of others. You can only understand but cannot express it in words, and you can only learn from it but not copy it. After all, good-looking clothes may not necessarily suit you. Finding the one that suits you is the best.
This is really a good book, and people without experience will not understand its profound meaning. However, no matter what your experience, level, or ideological level, reading it will be beneficial. The author's writing skills are very good, and he is good at conciseness and simplicity.
I used to think that letting go was just throwing away useless items. After reading this book, I realized that we also need to let go of negative emotions, unnecessary thinking, other people's opinions, etc. Detachment is an attitude towards life, both towards things and people.
Good review! When I listened to it for the first time, it felt very life-like. There are some things that really need to be given up. I feel that giving up is to leave room for a better version of myself! I hope I can have more feelings when I listen to it in the future!
Life is an addition, but we should go in the opposite direction and make subtractions, such as "breaking away". It is a Japanese concept that means pursuing a simple, happy and refreshing lifestyle by getting rid of excessive material burdens and unnecessary emotional burdens. The book gives many specific suggestions, such as regularly clearing out items that are no longer needed or rarely used. In addition, pay more attention to your inner needs, reduce your dependence on items by looking for more meaningful activities and relationships, cherish the items and experiences you already own, cultivate a grateful attitude, and reduce the pursuit of more material things.
As a companion volume to "Life Requires Self-Discipline", this book tells us a way of sorting out life by subtraction. As the author said, "Simplicity is the most difficult" because people are always greedy. The author teaches us through this book what it means to "live simply and love simply". Life requires self-discipline, but it also requires the courage to choose to reorganize. Learning to let go is a kind of self-discipline in itself. In this book, the author interweaves case narratives with statement of opinions, and the language is bright and relaxed. It is a practical book with readable and reference significance.
After reading it once, I felt that I saw a lot of things, but I didn't understand them very well, so I was going to read it again with a notebook and a pen, and then read it again. Anyway, it is very interesting (mainly the author wrote some of his own experiences and insights from his own perspective, which is more practical). I highly recommend it.
This is a book about simplifying life and reducing material burdens. Through rhetorical techniques such as metaphors and parallelism, the author encourages readers to gain peace of mind and ease of life through separation. This book advocates filtering and eliminating redundant items and complicated matters in life in order to achieve a simple and refreshing life. Through examples and techniques, the author guides readers on how to reduce the accumulation of clutter and release spiritual baggage. During the reading process, readers can reflect on their living habits and object collections, think about how to reduce material burdens through separation, and how to find more inner peace and spiritual freedom.
I was touched after reading it, even though I am a boy and a wage earner. But what is written in the book are all things that can be encountered in life. Perhaps, in our era, material cultivation was greater than spiritual cultivation! In fact, what we lack is not the ability to make money, but that our thinking cannot keep up with the current situation of social development. I'm glad to see such a good book: thank you for your hard work!
Tong Xiaoyan is an expert in life guidance. Her book "Life Requires Self-Discipline" has been very influential. As a companion volume, this book also implements the general concept of a better life, that is, "cut off the ego, give up the entanglement, and leave the fetters." In an era of increasingly abundant materials and emotions, it is more important to learn to do subtraction than to add. Don't be anxious or procrastinate at work; don't get entangled emotionally or complain; don't cling to or be particular about emotions; don't be obsessed with or pile up in life. These principles can help you live more comfortably.
This is a book about simplifying life and reducing material burdens. Through rhetorical techniques such as metaphors and parallelism, the author encourages readers to gain peace of mind and ease of life through separation. This book advocates filtering and eliminating redundant items and complicated matters in life in order to achieve a simple and refreshing life. Through examples and techniques, the author guides readers on how to reduce the accumulation of clutter and release spiritual baggage. During the reading process, readers can reflect on their living habits and object collections, think about how to reduce material burdens through separation, and how to find more inner peace and spiritual freedom.
I learned something from this book about separation. I used to always put others first and felt that everyone was a good person. I didn't have any scheming skills before. I always liked to treat everyone with a normal heart, but later I found that I was always hurt...
There are too many things that are not needed. However, there are indeed various reasons for taking it back.
First find your suitable goals, hobbies, special subjects you want to learn, etc., And then plan your every day and every step, update and modify the shortcomings you encounter, and slowly correct them (otherwise it will be easy to give up). Don't be anxious. Even if you fail, immediately change another way to continue. Give yourself more opportunities. Even if you are lazy today, it doesn't matter. We should relax ourselves and correct it immediately tomorrow. Bad habits are slowly changed step by step. We are ordinary and ordinary, so we can make mistakes! As long as you don't give up! Then we persist in correcting and doing it. One day we make fewer and fewer mistakes, persist longer and longer, and slowly we grow! Don't think about becoming fat in one bite. Ask those fat people, is it so easy to lose weight? So if you want to gain weight, you can't just eat it all, and the same goes for success!
The reason for the four stars is that I feel that some parts of the article are a bit subjective, and some chapters are not particularly profound, so it is a bit boring to read and I want to fast forward. This is just a personal feeling and does not represent all readers.
I just started reading it and I didn't understand why the author kept typing English words. I deducted one point.
The author's great work. After reading it, you are honored to see such a profound book here. The author is also very humble in writing. Anyway, I was very moved by what I read. There may be some things that I don't understand very well, but that doesn't stop me from liking it. I like your book very much. In fact, I rarely like a book. I was very inspired by this book because I am also a very contradictory person. I also keep denying myself. Maybe I am surrounded by the voices of many people who deny me. I want to join the copper plate team! Thank you author for writing such a good book
Life is an addition, but we should go in the opposite direction and make subtractions, such as "breaking away". It is a Japanese concept that means pursuing a simple, happy and refreshing lifestyle by getting rid of excessive material burdens and unnecessary emotional burdens. The book gives many specific suggestions, such as regularly clearing out items that are no longer needed or rarely used. In addition, pay more attention to your inner needs, reduce your dependence on items by looking for more meaningful activities and relationships, cherish the items and experiences you already own, cultivate a grateful attitude, and reduce the pursuit of more material things.
I have a lot of feelings about this book. In life, you must learn to let go from all aspects. Don't care too much about what the outside world says. Follow your own heart and improve yourself.
Learn to see the world and life from a new perspective. Know how to give up and open your mind. This is what I thought after reading it
Rather than saying that this book teaches me how to break up, it is better to say that the author in this book uses her attitude towards life and work, and seriously seizes every opportunity to learn, practice, and strive for improvement. She is responsible for the present, responsible for herself, and the spirit of perseverance has infected me.
It's quite realistic and quite silly.
I haven't read a book for a long time, I have been busy at work. I accidentally came across this book during my trip back to my hometown on May 1st. I learned a lot and was very honored. Many of my views resonated with my own. Many of the scenes mentioned in the book are so similar to mine. I just want to say that no matter what age you are, you still need to read more books. You can naturally find close friends in books.
It's very inspiring to me and I will continue to support the author! !
After reading it, I feel that I have many shortcomings, which has benefited me a lot. The first step is to work hard to become self-disciplined.
In this book, I learned a lot of principles of life, learned experience, and supplemented my shortcomings to realize my goals and dreams when I was young.
Give people the motivation to move forward, spiritual food, and a harbor of love.