"Overcoming Timidity" uses 12 lessons to tell readers about the indispensable qualities of a successful person before success - overcoming timidity, throwing away all the "clumsiness" of timidity, cowardice, daring not to take responsibility, and not being able to protect oneself, and become a brave, upright, and powerful person. The author will tell you how to overcome timidity, and will work with you to understand timidity, analyze the causes of timidity, and fundamentally solve the psychological phenomenon of timidity layer by layer.
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Because I was bullied by my mother-in-law for a whole year, I was silently angry and dared not express it. In the end, the wedding was canceled by her, and I realized that I could not go on like this. After a year of begging for help, a year of somatic depression, and a year of taking Chinese medicine, I looked at my wallet that I had suppressed, my face became bitter, and I cut my hair short. From teaching my husband to put the relationship as husband and wife first, to finding ways to disgust my mother-in-law, to analyzing the causes and results of my mother-in-law's NPD personality, I called my father-in-law to ask him to do more. I cared about my mother-in-law in order to distract her from her excessive attention and control over me and my husband, and later she stopped contacting me and just stayed away. This is the epitome of another year, but after leaving, I still fell into endless pain. I would recall countless times that she asked me to hand in my salary card and give Her whole family worked hard, trying to take over the house I bought. She introduced new partners to her son, and waited too much. Whenever she thought about it, she would be so painful that her body would become weak, or she would become manic. So I looked for ways, read books, and wanted to find someone who could. The antidote that makes me no longer suffer. I have thought about divorce, but my husband is on my side. Every time my mother-in-law bullies me, my husband always protects me. When I feel uncomfortable, my husband takes care of me. No matter whether I am in physical or mental pain, he takes good care of me. We lived together, so we couldn't leave. It wasn't until one day when my mother-in-law said that my husband had a daughter-in-law that he had forgotten about his mother. I realized that she was jealous of me. Thinking about it carefully, she would imitate my dressing, touch the quality of each of my clothes, and want to engage in my career. She even memorized everything I said and bought the things I was using. Whenever I did something and my husband praised me, she would start praising my husband for studying well and that my family's financial situation was much better than hers. After understanding After learning about what she had gone through and the disagreement between her and her father-in-law, I realized that she was really jealous of me, but found that she couldn't learn from me, so she wanted to torture me. That's why she said she wanted to hit me every time she saw me smiling so happily. It turned out that it was my happiness that hurt her eyes, and she wanted to destroy it because she couldn't get it. After understanding this, I no longer felt nauseated, convulsed, and highly stressed when I thought of her. I even felt pity. So slowly I began to think about why it was so painful even though I was already far away from her. I would look at my mother-in-law's social media from time to time and watch her happily filming videos. I also felt hatred from the bottom of my heart. Then I realized that I was also jealous of her, and she could completely ignore others. People speak and do things according to their feelings, and I am jealous that she can live so carelessly after bullying others. I don't want her to be happy, and I hope that she should experience the same pain as me. Although outsiders seem to be very brainless and stupid, my jealousy is real, but I am just jealous, but I have never really done anything to hurt her. I have lived for more than 20 years. Almost every time I speak or do something, I care about other people's feelings, even more than myself. I always take other people's opinions very seriously. Importantly, I dare not face the consequences of conflicts with others. Although others would say that I am versatile and have high emotional intelligence before this, only I know that my high emotional intelligence does not come with a strong heart. When others say or do things that make me uncomfortable, At that time, I felt really uncomfortable inside. It was just what I had experienced that made me learn to hide my emotions and deal with them in a high-emotional intelligence way. But my core was unstable. After reading twenty or thirty books, I realized that I was timid. Only when I admit my cowardice can I dare to face my own weakness. Last year, every step I took was not a detour. Every step led me to realize that there was a void under the hard shell I had built to protect myself. It was for me to find a way to fill my void and make the shell that protected me supportive and less fragile and sensitive. I am grateful. I thank God for allowing me to gain the ability to see myself and protect myself in just two years. Thank you to God, and thank you to the author for your generous teachings. I am still the same optimistic person I was two years ago, and I will make myself truly strong. No one can change me, except myself. Finally, I wish you all the best!
The author's writing style is delicate, and many of his words really describe a very specific thing and a person's heart. Sometimes I really have to take my seat, avoid these timid things, and be a brave and confident myself!
I think I can be timid sometimes, and reading this book was really inspiring. Moreover, the author's way of expression is very direct and not boring. He uses fables to illustrate his points, which is easy to understand. His preservation of manuscripts also made me feel his seriousness and awe. I recommend you check it out too!
The writing is very objective and true!
Not bad, you can learn from it
This is a very meaningful book, I hope it will help with the problem of timidity
This book is really helpful and I will try to practice it.
Because I was bullied by my mother-in-law for a whole year, I was silently angry and dared not express it. In the end, the wedding was canceled by her, and I realized that I could not go on like this. After a year of begging for help, a year of somatic depression, and a year of taking Chinese medicine, I looked at my wallet that I had suppressed, my face became bitter, and I cut my hair short. From teaching my husband to put the relationship as husband and wife first, to finding ways to disgust my mother-in-law, to analyzing the causes and results of my mother-in-law's NPD personality, I called my father-in-law to ask him to do more. I cared about my mother-in-law in order to distract her from her excessive attention and control over me and my husband, and later she stopped contacting me and just stayed away. This is the epitome of another year, but after leaving, I still fell into endless pain. I would recall countless times that she asked me to hand in my salary card and give Her whole family worked hard, trying to take over the house I bought. She introduced new partners to her son, and waited too much. Whenever she thought about it, she would be so painful that her body would become weak, or she would become manic. So I looked for ways, read books, and wanted to find someone who could. The antidote that makes me no longer suffer. I have thought about divorce, but my husband is on my side. Every time my mother-in-law bullies me, my husband always protects me. When I feel uncomfortable, my husband takes care of me. No matter whether I am in physical or mental pain, he takes good care of me. We lived together, so we couldn't leave. It wasn't until one day when my mother-in-law said that my husband had a daughter-in-law that he had forgotten about his mother. I realized that she was jealous of me. Thinking about it carefully, she would imitate my dressing, touch the quality of each of my clothes, and want to engage in my career. She even memorized everything I said and bought the things I was using. Whenever I did something and my husband praised me, she would start praising my husband for studying well and that my family's financial situation was much better than hers. After understanding After learning about what she had gone through and the disagreement between her and her father-in-law, I realized that she was really jealous of me, but found that she couldn't learn from me, so she wanted to torture me. That's why she said she wanted to hit me every time she saw me smiling so happily. It turned out that it was my happiness that hurt her eyes, and she wanted to destroy it because she couldn't get it. After understanding this, I no longer felt nauseated, convulsed, and highly stressed when I thought of her. I even felt pity. So slowly I began to think about why it was so painful even though I was already far away from her. I would look at my mother-in-law's social media from time to time and watch her happily filming videos. I also felt hatred from the bottom of my heart. Then I realized that I was also jealous of her, and she could completely ignore others. People speak and do things according to their feelings, and I am jealous that she can live so carelessly after bullying others. I don't want her to be happy, and I hope that she should experience the same pain as me. Although outsiders seem to be very brainless and stupid, my jealousy is real, but I am just jealous, but I have never really done anything to hurt her. I have lived for more than 20 years. Almost every time I speak or do something, I care about other people's feelings, even more than myself. I always take other people's opinions very seriously. Importantly, I dare not face the consequences of conflicts with others. Although others would say that I am versatile and have high emotional intelligence before this, only I know that my high emotional intelligence does not come with a strong heart. When others say or do things that make me uncomfortable, At that time, I felt really uncomfortable inside. It was just what I had experienced that made me learn to hide my emotions and deal with them in a high-emotional intelligence way. But my core was unstable. After reading twenty or thirty books, I realized that I was timid. Only when I admit my cowardice can I dare to face my own weakness. Last year, every step I took was not a detour. Every step led me to realize that there was a void under the hard shell I had built to protect myself. It was for me to find a way to fill my void and make the shell that protected me supportive and less fragile and sensitive. I am grateful. I thank God for allowing me to gain the ability to see myself and protect myself in just two years. Thank you to God, and thank you to the author for your generous teachings. I am still the same optimistic person I was two years ago, and I will make myself truly strong. No one can change me, except myself. Finally, I wish you all the best!
The author's writing style is delicate, and many of his words really describe a very specific thing and a person's heart. Sometimes I really have to take my seat, avoid these timid things, and be a brave and confident myself!
I think I can be timid sometimes, and reading this book was really inspiring. Moreover, the author's way of expression is very direct and not boring. He uses fables to illustrate his points, which is easy to understand. His preservation of manuscripts also made me feel his seriousness and awe. I recommend you check it out too!
The writing is very objective and true!
Not bad, you can learn from it
This is a very meaningful book, I hope it will help with the problem of timidity
This book is really helpful and I will try to practice it.