Don't Be Too Willful in Life and Don't Be Too Casual in Doing Things.

In life, no one has good luck all his life, and no one has bad luck all his life. Failure, grievance, pain, helplessness, loneliness, temptation, etc. Are all things that must be experienced and endured before success. In the face of various situations in the world, if you cannot suppress your inner restlessness, injustice, and complaints... You will gradually drift away from success. A willful person must be an immature person. A capable person with self-control must be a person who is not confused and clear-headed in the face of major issues of right and wrong. If you want to walk in society with ease, you must learn to control yourself. You must be low-key, do things with humility, think carefully, and act diligently, rather than being willful and left to your own devices. A rational person's self-control manifests itself in: knowing what to say, what not to say, and when to say what to say; knowing what to do, what not to do, and what to do when; knowing what goal to move towards and what speed to keep moving forward. Learning self-control is the summary of experience and the purification of life; learning self-control is the choice of a wise man and a smart strategy; learning self-control is a sign of confidence and the cornerstone of hope.