Be More Cruel to Yourself and Get Closer to Success

[Sending Hearts] [Sending Hearts] In this society where the jungle prevails, family pressure, career bottlenecks, emotional confusion, rejection by colleagues, cold bosses, alienation from friends... If you cannot become mentally strong, you will only be bullied all the time. The strong will not sympathize with the weak who are full of grievances, and God will not be lenient to a weak who is talented but extremely decadent. In real life, either the east wind prevails over the west wind or the west wind overpowers the east wind. If you dare not be cruel to yourself, the world will be more cruel to you. Only if you dare to be cruel to yourself can the world become tolerant. If you want to succeed, it is very simple. From now on, you must be more cruel to people, things, and yourself. This is the golden rule for the success of "grassroots" groups in today's society.

A person's biggest enemy is not others, but himself. It's useless to complain. Everything depends on yourself. If you have a dream and don't give up, you will always get ahead!

This book made me understand what it means to settle down and do something unswervingly. As long as you keep doing it, you will succeed sooner or later. Thank you, the author, for letting me see this skill when I was confused and uncertain. Thank you for giving me new motivation.

This book is always a reminder to your good friends Thanks to this book for taking me forward

After reading this book for a long time, I have been thinking about taking some time to write a review for this book. Just like the name of the book, "Be tough on yourself and get closer to success." This book reveals the essence of success. There is really no such thing as casual success. Success requires perseverance, learning ability, self-discipline, efficient execution, strong mental strength, confidence, and self-drive. There is a saying that is very true, you must be cruel to yourself, otherwise the world will be more cruel to you. Learning is the simplest thing. When you can't bear the hardship of study, then you have to learn to bear the hardship of society. People who can endure the hardships of learning are people with long-term thinking. These people will not paralyze themselves for short-term benefits/entertainment. As the popular saying goes: Low-level desires can be obtained by indulgence; high-level desires often require restraint. For example, learning and curiosity. People who are hard on themselves tend to be more self-disciplined and relatively persistent. I see friends around me, some of whom are unshakable. They rest before 22:00 or 23:00 in the evening and get up at 6:00 or 5:30 in the morning. I am in awe of their routine. For a long time, I couldn't maintain a true routine. Whenever I feel sleepy, I will force myself to hold on. Especially this year, on January 11, my mother passed away peacefully. For a week, my total sleep time did not exceed 10 hours, and my diet was irregular. One meal a day during that week was common, and I had no appetite. For more than half a month, my sleep time hovered between 4 and 6 hours every day. I don't think my mother wants to see me like this. During this period, she is adjusting her work and rest to return her work and rest to normal... People who are cruel to themselves are more sober. There is no real noble person in this world, and the best noble person is yourself. Don't expect Bole to come to you. Even if Bole comes, the premise is that you are the horse that makes Bole shine. Train yourself to be a thousand-mile horse first, and then you will be rewarded. People who are cruel to themselves have a better understanding of human nature and the rules of society. Just like the postgraduate entrance exam tutor who left the headlines two days ago. Only when we are helpful to others and are altruistic, others will express their gratitude to you. The society is so big, and the interactions between people are inextricably linked, and one of the essences is whether they are beneficial to each other. To be cruel to yourself means to learn to say the softest words and do the toughest things. You can be altruistic in words and altruistic in actions. But in the end, you have to complete things/goals. Don't complete things at any time. Leave room for others. Sometimes you are saving your own life. People who are cruel to themselves want to help themselves escape from their comfort zone. A few years ago, I gave my TikTok a name like this: Out of the Comfort Zone. I just hope that I can have some efficient execution and don't delay everything. Procrastination will only slow things down and set you back from your goals. Instead of putting things off for a while and leaving them to tomorrow, be gentle on yourself, put down all your thoughts, and get it done.

Although this book is a bit venomous, some of its words make sense, such as being greedy is not enough, being merciful to others, being merciful to others, not doing to others what you don't want others to do to you, being indifferent when you succeed, being calm when you fail... Etc., It is indeed a good book.

In a jungle where the jungle is predatory, a lion will not sympathize with his "food." Likewise, in a highly competitive society, the strong will not sympathize with the weak. There is only one way to avoid being "eaten": force yourself to be "cruel". You must know that only by experiencing "harsh situations" and "desperate situations" can you develop the ability to walk on flat ground and overcome obstacles.

Finally, to truly have a ruthless spirit, I feel that you also need to have experience, experience, disappointment, and experience to see that the kindness of a weak child is to please, and the persistence of oneself when a weak child is not successfully used by someone with intentions is the original sin. I experienced being exposed in public by someone I once believed in and treated sincerely. Finally see through what you want, gain inner peace, and take action with firm ideals and beliefs until you achieve final success [Blow a kiss][Blow a kiss] At work, for the sake of your own goals, do things that you are afraid of. You are afraid of making mistakes, of not achieving results, and of being criticized by others. First of all, you are in a competitive relationship at work. If there are opportunities to fish, you cannot be too indulgent in fishing. As you work hard, you will have your own set of experiences, and with the least amount of energy, you will have your own irreplaceable value. Don't try to have a comfortable posture. If you are upright and energetic, many people will be affected by you. Have determination and a sense of belief. For example, if you want to lose weight, be expressive, or not care about other people's opinions, you must first like yourself and encourage yourself to learn and make progress step by step. Not just thinking, but doing some things and persisting will give you a sense of self-satisfaction and confidence. Seeing this, you have surpassed 70% of people.

Very good to encourage people's will

A very good book

This book resonates with me, especially when facing important decisions in life, you should be "harder" on yourself. Just like a friend of mine, she was hesitant before getting married, but in the end she firmly chose the life she wanted and is now living happily. The author uses a simple and easy-to-understand way to explain the truth that success requires hard work and determination. It is worth reading.

I bought a lot of books, and overall I feel pretty good about them, mainly children like them. Very useful!

Okay, great gains

Encourage people to look forward, don't give up, and you will see successful results if you persist

It's particularly touching. I used to be emotionally unstable, but after reading this book, my emotions became stable! And develop for the better

I feel deeply about it. Add it to your bookshelf and read it when you have time. Even if you achieve nothing, you should give it a try.

Very good, goes straight to the heart

Worth watching, good

Not bad, I learned a lot

Read it carefully, it is very good, a book suitable for people who are in depression.