Don't Lose Because You Can't Express Yourself

It's pretty good, mainly from the leaves [I learned it]

I have read Carnegie's The Weaknesses of Human Nature, which is also quoted in this article. In comparison, I prefer this book because it is closer to the reality of Chinese people and more operable.

The author cited many examples to help us understand, and then I will also share my thoughts after reading the book: 1. Be humble and not be too arrogant. For example, if you succeed in a certain career, or in your family, or in society, you must not be arrogant, but be humble, otherwise others will mistakenly think you are arrogant and dislike you. As the saying goes, you have to be humble in life, high-profile in work, and just express yourself appropriately. 2. When criticizing others, you should discuss the matter and solve the problem. You should not criticize others behind their back and say bad things about others. When criticizing and arguing, you should keep your emotions and mentality calm. Criticism and arguing are about solving problems, not about winning or losing. When criticizing or arguing, you should not hurt other people's self-esteem, don't say vulgar words, and don't slander others. When you talk to people about things, you should speak calmly and not get angry.

Everyone knows how to speak, so how do you say it? There is a lot to learn about how people feel. If I had read this book earlier, I might have been able to get along better with my family and friends. Thanks to the author for his eloquent talk and in-depth communication with the perpetrators!

This book systematically and comprehensively introduces the precautions and art of speaking in different situations and situations. It is a good guide for interpersonal communication and is worth learning and thinking about.

As the title of the book says, this is a book that tells you how to express yourself. He can give you an outlet when you are at a loss for words. He can give you a certificate of surrender when you are desperate, and he can give you a microphone when you are at a loss on stage. That's right, it's such a magical book. It can make you confidently express your thoughts in various situations where you can't open your mouth, so that you will never lose in expression again. There are many methods in this book and they are very usable. I recommend everyone to read them.

Very detailed and specific, well written, and a lot of benefits, 99 points!

I really feel good. I was very upset about something recently. I just happened to read a part with a very similar theme to the matter, and the matter was solved all of a sudden. I was very surprised. This book is also very interesting, and the author gave a lot of examples to help me understand better.

The author cited many examples to help us understand, and then I will also share my thoughts after reading the book: 1. Be humble and not be too arrogant. For example, if you succeed in a certain career, or in your family, or in society, you must not be arrogant, but be humble, otherwise others will mistakenly think you are arrogant and dislike you. As the saying goes, you have to be humble in life, high-profile in work, and just express yourself appropriately. 2. When criticizing others, you should discuss the matter and solve the problem. You should not criticize others behind their back and say bad things about others. When criticizing and arguing, you should keep your emotions and mentality calm. Criticism and arguing are about solving problems, not about winning or losing. When criticizing or arguing, you should not hurt other people's self-esteem, don't say vulgar words, and don't slander others. When you talk to people about things, you should speak calmly and not get angry.

This book taught me that I must have a way and skills of speaking Also, don't be too nervous about how to deal with work issues with your colleagues in the future [smile]

This book is very good and is very suitable for people who cannot speak to deal with things. It is worth reading.

I benefited a lot from reading this book

Love sometimes needs white lies👍👍👍👍👍

This book was released a little early, and the views in it may be somewhat different from current thinking. The cases in the book are quite typical. Most of the things we encounter in life do not have absolute solutions. But reading this book made me think more about communicating with others, and the author's suggestions also gave me a lot of inspiration. I think this is a great gain.

Very good. After reading, I learned how to speak and how to deal with things between colleagues and work in social work.

This book is very good. I am more open-minded than before after listening to this book. I am a very introverted person🌹🌹🌹

Many things are described according to the habits of Chinese people. The scenes are very fulfilling. I like it very much.

Speaking is an art that requires people to explore slowly by themselves. The content in the book is introduced in detail, and everyone must read and understand it carefully.

Very good, gave many examples

It's good to start from scratch and it's very useful for me. You have to learn more advanced things, otherwise you won't even be able to understand "County Party Committee Courtyard". So do any brothers and sisters recommend some books on speaking skills, improving expression skills, management, etc. 🥺

"There is one ability in the world that can enable people to complete their homework quickly and gain recognition from the world, and that is the ability to speak that makes people happy." - Socrates. The book is divided into 9 chapters: it tells how to express correctly when getting along with people in different situations, and how to say what you want to express in more appropriate and appropriate words. People who are polite are the most popular; giving advice tactfully: the art of speaking without being rude; reasoning kindly: the art of speaking without being angry; making friends humorously: the art of speaking without being rigid; handling things flexibly: the art of speaking without being confused; criticizing skillfully: the art of speaking without hurting others; persuading easily: the art of speaking without effort; making timely rescues: the art of speaking without being cold; refusing politely: the art of speaking without being embarrassed.

Worth a good look

After listening, I learned the skills of speaking and gained a lot!

Okay, there is something worth learning in it

Starting from all aspects of life, I talked about the way of language expression and learned a lot.

The content in the book is easy to understand, and the suggestions given are also very practical. For example, it teaches us how to communicate with children in the correct way, which is very helpful in establishing a good parent-child relationship. Moreover, the cases in the book are also very close to life, allowing me to see my own reflection in them and learn many practical expression skills. I think this book is not only suitable for parents, but also for everyone who wants to improve their expression skills.

Very thorough explanation and analysis

Can learn to learn

Speaking the truth, speaking skills that make people understand

Thank you for being so helpful to me [blowing kiss][blowing kiss][blowing kiss]