Just the Right Amount of Loneliness

I am a very talkative person. I am suspected of being autistic by adults and not popular among my classmates. But I feel that I have done nothing wrong. I am tolerant and like to give out snacks to my roommates and help others. I am not good at communication. Just like what the book says, I just live well in my own space. I like poetry, but I don't like the fashion trends on the Internet. People around me say I'm pretending, and I don't want to pay attention to these comments. After reading this book, I feel that there is no need to pay attention to those boring rumors. I am myself. I have what I want to do, who I want to be, and friends who really understand me. These are enough, and I will grow up well.

The title of "Just the Right Loneliness" attracted me. Choosing a book is not utilitarian. As long as you like and are interested in it, it doesn't matter whether the content in the book is important or not. Because when you open this book, you have given up the utilitarian mentality and read it with no distractions. I believe that we will have different feelings and benefit a lot from it. Loneliness is not loneliness, nor is it loneliness. On the contrary, it is a state. In solitude, we can face our own hearts, deal with ourselves well, escape from the noisy city, be our true selves, and become a better version of ourselves. I hope that I can grasp the right amount of loneliness, find my true self in it, do some meaningful things, cherish the short time alone, don't do some useless work, there is no need to find a sense of presence in others, do your own thing well, and don't disrupt your own rhythm. Be yourself, no matter how lonely you are. Don't worry about not having friends. When you make yourself good enough, people will naturally want to make friends with you. If you don't believe it, you can give it a try. I like a saying very much: If I really exist, maybe it's because you need me.

Enjoy loneliness, move towards the things you like, the work you like, or have dreams or be willing to be mediocre. If you have a dream that you can't let go of, and you will feel anxious if you don't take action, and forcing yourself to give up will make you despair of life, so take action! Even if you encounter many misfortunes or even die, you will definitely not regret your original decision and you will feel that you have no regrets in this life! So if you think it's right and what you really need from your heart, go for it! Maybe you will fall into confusion again and have self-doubt. You know that this road is destined to be lonely, and maybe there will be no good results in this life, but you still insist on what you love, and you will gain courage and happiness! That's a very valuable quality.

This book is really good. I once collapsed and found the answer in this book. It is not about listening to others about everything and being the best version of myself. I am now resigning and preparing to go home to take the postgraduate entrance examination and the CPA examination. As the author said, poetry and wine are in your prime, there is no need to wait, everything starts from the heart.

If you want to realize an ideal, you need more than just interest and liking, but also persistence and unremitting efforts in things. Interest only makes you fall in love with this profession, and perseverance and hard work and not being afraid of loneliness are the most important steps to accomplish this. Everyone's journey of growth is lonely and not understood, and those who can bear loneliness are often the kings.

Just the right amount of loneliness. Because this title attracted me to read this book, the author used characters around me, which actually reflects the majority of us. We are also confused and uneasy, and we are trying to move forward in a strange world. Many of the views of the author and I coincide with each other. I also feel that the elders still have different opinions from us on some ideas and concepts. I would argue with them in the past, but unfortunately in the end Later, like the author, he was scolded as a "bloody bitch". No matter what the world is like or what other people are like, we live for ourselves in this life. We don't care about other people's opinions and evaluations. When others give us advice, we can objectively analyze it, but we still have to hold on to the decision-making power. You don't have to get married, you don't have to cater to everything in the world, but you have to live your life so that you have no regrets in this life.

This book says that the most important thing in life is growth, which I think is right. I have lived a quarter of my life, and I find that in the end, I am still a lonely person with very few friends. I can't see the world clearly, and I have always been shrouded in a dull and dim illusion. This year, a small crack appeared in this illusion, which gave me a glimpse of the cold reality, but I still have expectations for strangers and friends. Many times, I find that I am terribly wrong, my abilities are terribly poor, and my character is so flawed. I have the illusion that I am worthless, although it may not be an illusion. There is too much room for improvement. But I have always had the idea of ​​growing up - read many, many books; visit many, many sights; chat for a while with some people who may only meet once in my life or across the Internet cable, touch the world carefully, confirm the experience in the book, and get my own ideas; build a great personal value system; become a useful person, make people around me happy, help them, and do not ask for anything in return. Life is short, dreams are big. Although I am temporarily stuck in thorns and blind people touch elephants, I will be on the road.

Many of the stories in this book can arouse resonance in the heart. When you are about to lose your persistence or feel confused when you are in trouble, think about the principles in the book and take action. If you persist, your life will suddenly become clearer.

A book I like very much. It has given me a lot of inspiration. More of its words are super healing.

After reading this book, I seem to know what to do. I still have time to live the life I want. I have always thought that a person's life is only about work and study. This idea made me breathless and I wanted to give up. But now I no longer have this idea. After persisting for a while, I can start a new life, jump out of the comfort zone that I thought, and the comfort zone that everyone thought, and a new life will be ready to welcome me.

Maybe it's good, let it be read to those in need. I have already reached the level of the author of this book. I don't need to read this book, and I can't stand it. I have a disdain for a child. Life is a long road. I need to find my own faith and give myself some comfort. I am 19 years old. Three months after my rebirth, people in my previous life have passed away and things in my previous life have passed away. I hope you will be well in your respective worlds. No matter what, you cannot give up your life, but you can forget everything like me and give yourself "rebirth" for psychological comfort and belief.

The book "The Right Loneliness" explains that loneliness is not a negative state, but the power that allows people to reflect on life, examine their hearts, gain growth, and understand others. It shows how to treat loneliness correctly and turn it into a valuable asset in life. The book writes, "I used to think that my life was somewhere else and my dreams were far away. When I got close to myself, experienced loneliness, and had a dialogue with my inner self, I realized that the best poems are not far away, but in the place closest to you." In this noisy world, we are often busy with socializing, work, and various trivial matters, and rarely have time to stop and talk to our inner self. Loneliness, a word that is often misunderstood, is given a new meaning in this book. It is no longer a negative state, but a power that allows us to better understand ourselves and think about life. As the book says: "Loneliness is the beginning of a fulfilling life. Without the experience of being alone with yourself, you will not know how to get along with others. Each of us is a lonely individual. Even if we are among people, we cannot avoid the inner loneliness. However, it is this loneliness that gives us the opportunity to reflect on our lives and examine our inner world. In loneliness, we can get rid of external interference, focus on things that we are truly interested in, and pursue our dreams." At the same time, loneliness is also an opportunity for growth. In loneliness, we learn to think independently, learn to manage ourselves, and learn to get along with ourselves. We no longer rely on the recognition and companionship of others, but can bravely face the challenges in life and follow our own path firmly. "Before loneliness is confusion, and after loneliness is growth. "Only after experiencing the baptism of loneliness can we truly grow. In addition, just the right amount of solitude can help us understand others better. When we learn to live with ourselves, we can also better understand the loneliness and needs of others. We become less self-centered and able to be more tolerant and caring of others. In loneliness, we experience the warmth and connection between people, and cherish those true friendships and love even more. After reading this book, I deeply felt the power of loneliness. Loneliness is not terrible. Treat it correctly and just the right amount of loneliness is a valuable asset. Learn to enjoy solitude, find peace and strength from it, and continue to grow. Of course, loneliness also has two sides. Moderate loneliness promotes growth, while excessive loneliness leads to desolation. You should exercise caution and spend time alone every week to relax and plan for the future, but also stay close to friends to experience the group atmosphere.

Reading this book, you will find that all your inner confusions have been answered unconsciously, and this book lets me know that people who are between sensibility and rationality can not only torture themselves, but also live a balanced and wonderful life, because the author is also a person between sensibility and rationality.

This book is very comfortable to read, but sometimes I feel very anxious, but reading this book can help you escape, and I am in the same situation as the author, so I have a sense of immersion and live for myself. I have always heard that you should do what you like and turn it into work, but I gradually stopped liking it. I am unique and have my own way of living. I hope that, like the author, I can find a partner with the same views.

The views expressed by the author coincide with my own views. Miraculously, when I was confused, confused and overwhelmed by loneliness, this book appeared on the page of my mobile phone. After opening this book and reading a few lines, I had a feeling of resonance. As the book says about facing loneliness, it probably means that loneliness is like darkness, impenetrable and invincible, and you can only make peace with it. This perspective made my impetuous and confused life suddenly clear up. I began to accept loneliness. To be specific, I put down my phone at night and went to bed on time. I began to accept the empty and negative emotions brought by the darkness. I was no longer afraid or anxious about it. All I had was breathing evenly and facing calmly. I also found the answer to how to face myself: accept myself as I am. Everyone has their own style. For example, if you are a person who likes quiet and being alone, then you don't need to force yourself to go to lively places and become a lively person. You just need to be the person you want to be. And don't make friends because of loneliness, because no one can beat loneliness. You just need to keep that loneliness in full bloom, and then the breeze will come.

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The author's writing is solid and penetrating, describing the generation gap between today's people and their original parents. It taught me that children also need to be given their freedom. Many of the parents' good intentions and kindness are giving children pressure and a sense of powerlessness. Thank you! It made me understand that children need to be protected by their mothers.

After reading this book, I felt deeply. Although I am in college, it is equivalent to entering a small society. In this environment, I am extremely internally conflicted and anxious because of interpersonal relationships. Maybe it's because of my own personality. I'm very sensitive to the surrounding environment. I always pay attention to others and don't care much about myself. So I read this book with this mentality. After reading it, I can understand that everyone is an independent individual. They may be bound by interests, or they may only have superficial jobs. As it is said in the book, the so-called friends are tools to get rid of loneliness. We still need to walk the road in the future alone. Slowly learn to love yourself, stop trying to please others, focus on yourself, and think about how to make yourself happy. This is true happiness.

What can I say, the author's ideas coincide with mine. I also want to live alone for the rest of my life, but I am afraid that I will change my mind due to the advice of my parents, relatives, and friends in the future, and I will not be able to live happily and be very distressed. However, the author's book did give me a lot of insights and inspiration.

Every time I read a paragraph, I feel a little calmer and less irritable, which is good. Come on (ง •̀_•́)ง

I have been reading this book intermittently for a while. Unlike other books that just list the lives of famous people to prove the so-called truth and bore me, this book can always relax me and find my true self when I am confused and anxious. Although I don't understand some of the ideas and realms in the book, the experiences of the characters always resonate with me and make me realize that the real freedom lies in myself. I want to do what I want to do without being disturbed by the outside world and focus on myself. To be willing to be ordinary or not to be ordinary is a personal choice. As long as you feel happy, you will live your life. In fact, there are still many things in my heart that I want to express, but I don't know what to write. At the age of 21, I am about to graduate from college, and I am going to be a teacher. I still don't understand some truths. I have no experience, so I don't have deep insights. But I learned from it that if you want a life and a job you like, just do it with concentration and perseverance, and the results will come naturally. I like reading, so I go to read; I like skateboarding, so I go skateboarding; I like my job as a teacher, so I work hard to improve my professional abilities. In the past, I was always upset about why I didn't work hard in the past, and worried about how to be a good teacher in the future, but I always ignored the present. I was always lazy, watching videos, playing games that were already boring, and could never calm down to do what I really wanted to do. In fact, it is never too late. The past is the past, the future is the expectation, and the key lies in the present. I am still young, so I don't need to understand all the truths. I will slowly experience, taste, and reflect on them in the future. And now it's so easy to do what you want to do.

This book is really good. I learned a lot from it and it helped me a lot.

The writing style of this book is authentic and unique, and the writing style is smooth and natural. The characters in the book have distinct personalities and their experiences resonated with me. By reading this book, I felt the charm of loneliness and understood the author's desire for inner exploration. Recommended to friends who like to think and be alone, you may be able to find some warmth and comfort in it.

Therefore, insisting on being yourself and being with everything you like is not an easy thing, and it is likely to be a lonely road.

Each of us has our own path, different talents and different opportunities. Nothing is necessary. The most important thing is to be good at yourself and sublimate your heart and soul.

It's been a long time since I've read a book, and this book gave me the courage to continue, not just reading. Come on!

I want to tell you my story, so I'll say goodbye in the name of the breeze. You are April in the world, and I belong exclusively to the loneliness of autumn and winter. Simple words embellish delicate life, and ordinary stories tell the refreshing breeze of healing. I am like one of the stories, and this story does not seem to belong to me alone. But it doesn't matter, just go your own way, accompanied by just the right amount of loneliness.

I like it so much. When you are alone and calm down, you might as well take a look. You will find that in fact, most of the things we do are in vain. There is no need to care too much... Don't form a relationship, it will only increase loneliness.

The most important thing in a person's life is to make himself happy.

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